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Steven Reis
Tacoma, WA · 20 days ago

I met this girl that had two kids sweetest little kid you ever did me in your entire life. She was struggling having a hard time. A deadbeat boyfriend wouldn’t take care of them so I stepped up to the plate and damn straight. I took care of those kids I got a house with three bedrooms both kids have their own bedroom and everything they ever wanted and raise them as though they were my own and I still to this day love those kids with all my heart

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Eddie Blaylock
Eaton, OH · 18 days ago

being raised how I was you don't eat in front of others if I'm eating you're eating

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Cary Grant
Chicago, IL · 2 days ago

Wrong. Don't set the wrong expectations unless you want to be the permanent provider for a child you didn't create. Yes, it's being a gentleman to offer, but a more permanent scenario may be in the making, if you don't first verify that the child is being properly provided for. Here's how to know if you are being set up. Simply ask if the child's meal has already been provided. Phrase it exactly like that, and it prompts the mind of the person you're talking to, to mentally consider whose responsibility it is to feed the child, without actually asking for that information. Then simply gauge the response. If you are then asked to provide for the meal without any mention that this would be the exception, you are being played. Remember gentlemen, feeding your date's child is not your responsibility. It can be done with your permission and approval. It should never be done in such a way that you feel responsible to comply. It's okay to be a gentleman, not a sucker. 💯

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Bernard Williams
Fort Wayne, IN · 5 days ago

it's a package deal, kids are a part of the mother you feel every body.

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DEMOCRATS HATE AMERICA
New York City, NY · 19 days ago

If you are going to someone’s house and bringing dinner then u bring for all - not even a question

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Andy
Clearwater, FL · 5 days ago

must be a democRAT question

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Joey Clark
Summerville, SC · 22 days ago

If she got kids I’m not going to the house.

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Christopher Jones
Akron, OH · 22 days ago

From a man’s point of view if you’re in it for the long haul then it’s a package deal! Just saying real men do real things!!!

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monieluv
22 days ago

I think 🤔 if it's too much for him to except what comes with her he shouldn't date a whole family just saying 😆find a single person with no kids 👄 Trust in believe that 💔

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Lew Dempsey
Cuyahoga Falls, OH · 21 days ago

well start out with how could you eat in front of hungry kids.

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xxxxxx
Paragonah, UT · 8 days ago

Be a gentleman and take the kids, and by the way , pay for all of the dinners , without excepting anything in return yea I'm old school and a man

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Timothy Lopez
Los Angeles, CA · 22 days ago

yeah get them food what's wrong with feeding kids one why would you not want to help a single mom 2 why even have dinner with her if your not willing to show up for her kids 3 a women kids come first

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Robert Jones
Oklahoma City, OK · 22 days ago

If you date a single mom from the beginning, it's a package deal

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Theresa Brinkley Howard
Birmingham, AL · 21 days ago

To the woman dating this man, If he has this mindset now, he will mentally and spiritually abuse your children later!

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Swag Right Folks
Chicago, IL · 21 days ago

feed'em all, it's not the kids fault on what's going on with their dad n mom.

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carlos santiago
Bethlehem, PA · 6 days ago

No brainer. Kids included, and a good woman would only accept that choice.

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Brenda Morgan
Amory, MS · 21 days ago

Feed them as well!!,some men like that tho,if you love the woman,feed them all!!

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Thomas Walker
Spartanburg, SC · 5 days ago

Eat before you go there

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Michael Chavis
Shreveport, LA · 18 days ago

i took enuff to feed her and all 4 kids, but thats me

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Joenathan Sims
Saint Petersburg, FL · 22 days ago

Yes he’s WRONG “ my taught me to always bring enough food for the kids or don’t bring nothing

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Terry Ricotta
Clearfield, PA · 8 days ago

He should feed the whole family I would have

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James Fermonte
Egg Harbor Township, NJ · 22 days ago

definitely wrong you should at least bring a pizza for the kids

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Jason Williams
Ellenwood, GA · 22 days ago

It depends on the age of her kids.

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BBJ J
Jacksonville, FL · 20 days ago

why would he be dating a woman with kids?

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Suzan Montana
Tonawanda, NY · 7 days ago

If you know the kids are there you should bring enough for everyone

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raul calzadias
Irving, TX · 22 days ago

she's giving u what u want why cant u feed all..its only propper

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Alva Garrison
Filer, ID · 16 days ago

I'd bring enough for everyone if she has children and I m interested in dating I'm pretty certain she's looking at me like that or she is not going to invite me home in the first place

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Ramon Valdes
Goose Creek, SC · 22 days ago

It’s a package deal

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roosevelt johnson III
Lathrup Village, MI · 17 days ago

Nowadays, if you date a SINGLE woman with KIDS, you're asking for trouble and making someone else's problems your problems.... SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT..... I will not compromise my PEACE for nothing.....

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Tim Bebee
Bay City, MI · 8 days ago

I’m sorry but it is only common sense to bring dinner for her children too. If you choose to date a woman who has children, then you have chosen to accept this situation. This is a package deal. You should understand that from the start. Do not play games with her or the kids. If you’re not ready for this don’t waste her or your time.

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Brent Grantham
Coldwater, MS · 20 days ago

if the kids are there yes he should get enough to feed them I mean if he's planning on having a relationship with this woman then he has to want to have a relationship with the kids as well because one does not come with out the other my wife had three kids and one of them was autistic when I married her I adopted all three kids also one because they needed a father two I knew if I was going to love her I have to love the kids as well. it's just the right thing to do.

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Linda Hope
Reno, NV · 20 days ago

If it’s at her house, you have to feed the kids too ,who would eat not feed children

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Jeff Blackwell
Wilmington, NC · a day ago

feed them all..

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Rebecca Michaud
South Berwick, Maine · 8 days ago

Definitely include her children!!

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steve Daniel's
Paterson, NJ · 22 days ago

yes a real man will buy all something to eat

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Greg Lacy
Mansfield, OH · 22 days ago

if he has a heart he would make sure the kids are fed before the adults eat

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Apree Thomas
Brooklyn, NY · 21 days ago

ummm they are dating and she should've cooked or he bringing food😳

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Sandra Gabriel
Philadelphia, PA · 17 days ago

Not obligated but if he has any respect and interest in starting a relationship with her he has to understand that she’s a package deal

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Ddmk
Cleveland, GA · 22 days ago

you dont go on a date to a woman's house if she has kids...u take her out

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Ted Brown
White City, OR · 17 days ago

well yes if you know that they have kids you would take dinner for the kids too that at least that's my opinion but everybody has their own feelings and their own right to do what they wish to do

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Michael Brauchi
16 days ago

If he loves the woman, he loves the kids too and if he cares about the woman, he’ll treat the children like that he is he is now the father figure

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Michelle Kennedy
Hulbert, OK · 15 days ago

I think he should ask what the dinner practice is for mom and kids before making specific plans. Sometimes kids eat different foods and at different times, but if they usually eat together then it is a group event. At least from a Gen X’er

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Mikey
Denver, CO · 16 days ago

if i am going to her house ill bring food for them also. if we are going out id take the kids also. not to a fancy steak house though

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Joe Flores
Loveland, CO · 18 days ago

If you have to ask, you already know the answer. What kind of person are you? Oh never mind I already know the answer 🤔

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Liz Hansen
Portland, OR · 18 days ago

That’s why it’s called dating. Weed out that loser right away. He’s obviously not interested in anything long term.

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Jim Lang
Grapevine, TX · 13 days ago

Well, does The kids eat? Are they going to be there? If The Kiddo's are there! This is A Really Stupid Question!!

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Joe Flores
Loveland, CO · 18 days ago

If you have to ask, you already know the answer. What kind of person are you? Oh wait, I already know the answer.

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Stacy Keel
Tucson, AZ · 19 days ago

uhhh dumb question you bring dinner for only 2 guess me n you aren't eating cause they are getting our plates.💕

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Terron Hithe
Wichita, KS · 3 hours ago

A real man would supply food for all. If your gonna Love her you must Love all of her and the responsibilities she carries. As if you want her they cone with her.

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Z3R0 TRUST
Chicago, IL · 4 hours ago

Don't Be a Cuck

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Kenya Nkhrumah
Fayetteville, NC · 4 hours ago

You Cannot Raise another man's kids. Hard enough raising your Own!!!

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Kenya Nkhrumah
Fayetteville, NC · 5 hours ago

Better yet, Lose her number.

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Kenya Nkhrumah
Fayetteville, NC · 5 hours ago

Children, like marriage, are a high investment with low returns.

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Kenya Nkhrumah
Fayetteville, NC · 5 hours ago

Avoid ready-made families.

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William Barbour
Bassett, VA · 5 hours ago

they package deal. so be prepared for premade family. 🌹

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MIKE HOPPER
Goodland, KS · 10 hours ago

Everyone. ""NOTTA PROBLEM""!

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News Hound
Eugene, OR · 2 days ago

i refuse to date, go with or marry a gal with kids, they not mine, not going to do it, did that once, i got so tired of hearing "you not my dad, i dont have to listen to you" i back ganded one right off her chair, i did 6 months in jail, i'll never date a gal with kids

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Linda Mitchell
Antioch, CA · 2 days ago

😲if he is going to her house then yes dinner for all but on a date no

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Rita
3 days ago

If it's a date and the kids are in bed also already had their dinner which a parent have done 🤷🏽

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Don Martin
Newport, ME · 3 days ago

You have chosen to visit her home where she and her children live, sending you a clear message. If you can’t include her children than what are you doing in this relationship, it certainly would not appear to include her children and she should show you the door or it’s all on her.

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Tanya Washington
East Hartford, CT · 3 days ago

You take her out or bring enough! This applies to company of any kind—just as you wouldn’t bring food for just yourself when you visit someone’s home. Basic etiquette!

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beezelbub
3 days ago

honestly when going to anyone's house as a guest you bring for the whole house.

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Patricia Shugars
Bath, NY · 3 days ago

Ask Mom if the kids have a preference for dinner and definitely include them

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Marvin Hirschfield
Eugene, OR · 3 days ago

I wouldn't have anything to do with someone who'd even ask that question.