76 Comments

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Carole Pearson
La Crosse, WI · 20 days ago

Let it go and let them go on with their lives! The bride may not believe you and end up hating you!

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Kent Hardcastle
Dallas, TX · a month ago

Let her husband tell her or you will lose your friend

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Chet Ernat
San Antonio, TX · a month ago

mind my OWN. Buisness

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FIRE •
Toledo, OH · a month ago

Why would he even say that

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Doug Gavinski
Madison, WI · 5 days ago

He could be lying to get her eliminated from their lives. Men can be very evil and vindictive just like women.

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Denice Scurto
Bel Air, MD · 7 days ago

Tell him to confess. The decision is hers to make

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Private Citizen
Upper Marlboro, MD · 17 days ago

Well if that’s your picture or your name - I guess you just told her and there is nothing else to do. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Karen Nielsen
Ferndale, WA · 18 days ago

Or maybe he wanted her to tell her so she wouldn't marry him. Easy out, cowardly out! 🤔

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kame shima
White City, OR · 20 days ago

was a test for you. he was judging your loyalty. and the other bridesmaid smiling????....he will in future cheat again,& in case you find out (& will) he will count on you to not say anything, speak out, true friends would not remain silent

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JoAnne Blakeney
Virginia Beach, VA · 18 days ago

Post it on Facebook. She will read this story and recognize you are referring to her.

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Marsha Mast
Copperas Cove, TX · 11 days ago

tell her..now

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Tammy Dusenberry
Fond Du Lac, WI · 17 days ago

If he told you he wanted it to be known

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Cynthia Clark
Massillon, OH · 18 days ago

im too honest I would pull her aside before the wedding and tell her

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Jonathan Ricciardella
New York City, NY · 10 days ago

Nothing and don’t repeat

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Victoria Bachlotte
Hookerton, NC · 18 days ago

before my friend could say I do but yet in front of her him and everyone witnessing I would have said to his face I'm not going to keep your cheating Secret.

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mellieDDD
Whiteface, TX · 17 days ago

This exact thing happened to me, only it was my best friend who cheated on her fiancé. As in a particularly bad, nasty, no-coming-back-from kinda way. He was such a WONDERFUL guy & loved her SO MUCH. And I just could not let them get married without him knowing. Finally, about a month before the wedding, we were working out in the Gym together and I couldn't take it any more. I told her, "If u don't tell him, I will. And I'll ask him if u told him - so I'll know if u did. If this costs us our friendship, so be it. I will NOT lie for u." She got very, VERY quiet & still - the only movement was in her jaw muscles as she clenched them over & over. Finally she just nodded. We never brought it up again. I sincerely believed that she was lying and would never risk telling him. But she did (as promised - I asked him point blank if she had & he said sadly, "Yes,she did.") He forgave her.

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Janice Sharp
Bartlesville, OK · 2 months ago

Keep your mouth shut; doesn’t mean he’s not going to be a bad husband. He made a stupid mistake which is obviously bothering him or he wouldn’t have confessed.

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Beth Santiago
Little Egg Harbor Township, NJ · 20 days ago

he shouldn't have told you, why did he do that at that moment, decide to share with you? I know it doesn't really matter when you did it but how far were they in the relationship that he cheated

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Kody Goza
19 days ago

Keep your mouth shut and if he ends up being crappy husband there’s black mail or ammo to use to motivate him to start actin straight. Or wait until it’s not her wedding and hunny moon don’t ruin the moment for her on her day and tell her later down the road time frame left up to you I don’t think on the day is the time to do it

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tymwtel
Brea, CA · 19 days ago

Things that never happened 🥴

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Cecelia McKenzie-Schilling
Archie, MO · a month ago

If she is truly your best friend you have a duty and loyalty to tell her! He’s marrying her under fraudulent circumstances. Wouldn’t you want to know BEFORE the “I Do’s” so she can make her OWN INFORMED choice. I certainly would! . It’s just my opinion.

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Jcsaidhmmm
Smithville, TN · 20 days ago

I would tell her MOM

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Edward Simmons
Norfolk, VA · 21 days ago

As far as I'm concerned - If the groom tells you he cheated on your best friend JUST BEFORE they get married - What he's really saying is "I don't have the guts to tell her the truth... you tell her"

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Janis Mcafee
Cadiz, OH · a month ago

I'd of told her

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Magnet Walters
Wetumpka, AL · 2 months ago

somethings are better unsaid

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Deborah Torrence
Fletcher, NC · 18 days ago

Stay out of it for now.. Watch him & make sure hes treating her right That little tidbit of information he told you will weigh on his conscience. He will eventually tell her himself if he feels that bad about what he done.

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christine parks
Fitchburg, MA · a month ago

Mind your own business. He never should have said that to you.

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Elizabeth Bolar
Roscoe, IL · a month ago

cheating of any kind is NOT a mistake and she should say something to the bride she has a right to know.

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dave shetler
Chambersburg, PA · 19 days ago

would hope you would get a life

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Sherry Maddox
Ashland City, TN · 20 days ago

He’s probably just testing you

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Sarah Savage
Elizabethtown, NC · 24 days ago

The one he told is who he cheated with! Geeeeezzzz

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Margaret Keeley
Waxhaw, NC · a month ago

once a cheater always a cheater

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Wendi Jester
Surprise, AZ · a month ago

It sounds like he wanted to be found out. If the person he told tells the bride, then he's home free to cheat again.🤬

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SheriT
East Wenatchee, WA · 2 months ago

Jerk! He wanted to confess but he was too cowardly to tell his fiance' so he burdened her friend with it. I would tell him to tell her by a certain date or you will tell her. If you're friends finds out you've known for too long she will be pissed at you.

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Notalwaystrue!
20 days ago

I would get a real problem.

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Postal1998
Fredon Township, NJ · 20 days ago

“Snitches get stitches”

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Stephen DELPERO
Portland, OR · a month ago

enjoy the reception

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Frank
Junction City, KS · a month ago

why would he say anything

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Christian Bardo
St. Louis, MO · a month ago

tell her now, before you regret it.

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Annie
2 months ago

I’d tell her. Once a cheat always a cheat

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Mario Gadea
Miami, FL · a month ago

Why tell you about it???

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Golfing is fun
Trinidad, CO · a month ago

id post it on the internet afterwards so she could read it here and know you didn't have her back.

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Judith Gash
Potosi, MO · 2 months ago

He was hoping you'd tell her so he wouldn't have to marry her.

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Cecelia McKenzie-Schilling
Archie, MO · a month ago

One last Friendly FYI: I hear a psychologist state,”The best predictor of future behavior, is past behavior!“.

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Susan Rios
Austin, TX · 2 months ago

She will probably not believe you and you will lose a friend

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Carl Roy
Dartmouth, MA · a month ago

I like how you make a bunch of stuff up to give people anxiety and trust issues for clicks...

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Annette Quezada
Kennebunkport, ME · 2 months ago

Why tell you?

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wishmakr
Ledyard, CT · 2 months ago

That's a heavy burden to have on your shoulders. He had no right to tell you that when he did. No you will never trust him, and she will sense that in you. It could be a test, to see what you will do. I wouldn't tell her, I would make him tell her. You don't deserve that secret. His telling you, is the same as you witnessing it, and pretending it didn't happen. I don't know how close you are, but she needs to know.

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Tina Seals
Ocean Park, WA · a month ago

tell her