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Lesia smith
Abilene, TX · 3 months ago

I was married for years. Husband came home from work, took a shower, popped a beer and watched TV until his bedtime. I came home from work and checked the kids homework and helped them as I began to start dinner. I made sure everyone was fed then I started the bath for the kids as I cleaned the kitchen. After the kitchen was clean, I'd go to the bathroom and actually make sure they cleaned themselves dried and helped them put on pajamas. I send the kids to say goodnight to their dad and come back for a story. Dad said good night without ever taking his eyes from the TV. Then I read the kids a story and tucked them into bed. Only then do I manage to take a shower and go to bed. It's now 2200 and I finally get to sit and rest. Husband has been sitting doing nothing for 5 hours. When the kids were older I divorced him and haven't picked some lazy ass man's dirty underwear off the floor in years. I've raised 3 boys alone and one man. I'll NEVER marry again.

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Jbird14no
Fond Du Lac, WI · 3 months ago

It is all because ppl have left God out of their relationships

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Jana Pobudova
Howell Township, NJ · 3 months ago

I like Him ‼️✌️ Smart and Gorgeous ‼️✌️, and he probably knows how to build something ‼️✌️,,, nothing is more sexier to me than a manly man who knows how to fix stuff, build stuff, just do what he guys do ‼️✌️

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Baddax
Oregon, WI · 3 months ago

The problem, in my opinion, is simple confusion. People don't seem to understand the difference between a male and a man, or a female and a lady. These things are NOT the same. What he said is absolutely true. If you're a "dude", don't look for a lady, you won't know how to treat her right. And if you really want to be treated like a Lady instead of a body count, you have to act like one. 25 years ago i found one, and she's still my beautiful wife to this day.

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Robert
Tulsa, OK · 3 months ago

I just recently got out of a relationship finally with a girl that was half my age and for 8 years her and her kid showed me no respect and the only thing they wanted me to do was provide that's all I was needed for so I got rid of her and her son another criminal

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MzzMeeMee83
3 months ago

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Tanisha Lee Jones
Palm Coast, FL · 3 months ago

Nowadays , women are working outside the home.So there's that too

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Marlon Jones
Forest Park, GA · 3 months ago

too many women out there with 45 to 100 body counts wondering why a good man don't want them

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Healz Dimples
3 months ago

If a man doesn't appreciate all the unpaid work a woman does, she's better off single with a job, with or without kids. Nobody is owed a wife. Women give up a lot when they stay home. If that isnt honored she, and her kids are better off with her building a workforce career. 🥰

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Kathleen
Carmichael, CA · 3 months ago

you sir are right on point. we have been married over 30 years. I clean the house thoroughly, I cook his dinner I clean up the kitchen I make his lunch for the next day for work. when he goes to bed I'm the last person he sees because I make sure he's under the covers well and the lights are out and that he's comfortable to go to sleep so that he can get up and do it again tomorrow. it's not that hard to have a great relationship. it's what we signed on for and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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Kitty 9tailz
Toledo, OH · 3 months ago

some of us are still out there

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Michael Truchon
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

Women just want the money and material things, not the man who's providing it.

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Teresa Hodges
Noble, OK · 3 months ago

Good advice young man. I say lets bring back old fashioned courtship to find your life long mates.

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Rita Parker
3 months ago

That's the truth 👍👍👍

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M Coleman
Chicago, IL · 3 months ago

Old school indeed...well said!👍

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Annette Branche
Harrisburg, PA · 4 months ago

Women found out during this era, some men cannot change especially if they feel all a woman is good for is to be a cook, be a maid and have babies! Many women feel since I can take care of myself why must I be a slave and smile! Find a man, who is not intimidated by a strong intelligent woman, who knows how to love and be loved !

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Jessica Cope
St. Peters, MO · 3 months ago

Amen!!!

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Tania Prosser
Snow Hill, NC · 3 months ago

men stopped so we stopped

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Nancy Few
Tempe, AZ · 3 months ago

It's simple common sense. Treat her as you want to be treated. Just re-stating the Golden Rule😲

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Roderick Manning
Atlanta, GA · 3 months ago

I love women but feminism destroyed chivalry! Hell yes you can make more money than me but I still like cheese grits on a cold Saturday morning just like when you catch a flat I'm your AAA

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The Best GiGi
San Angelo, TX · 3 months ago

Like I said there aren’t any more Charles Ingalls out there anymore.

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The Best GiGi
San Angelo, TX · 3 months ago

This man is Absolutely Correct .

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Dillon Arnett
Elkhart, IN · 3 months ago

this man speaking facts 😁

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Laura Feher
Cleveland, OH · 3 months ago

Old School Truth and Kindness Go A Long Way

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Doc
Polo, IL · 9 days ago

The problem is chivalry is not appreciated. Money, that is really what “love” has become.

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Sami
Antioch, CA · 3 months ago

Word to live by. We need more men like you🥰swooning 🥰

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Janet mobley
Springville, IN · 2 months ago

Very true I’m glad my hubby loves me

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Darla Dietzen
2 months ago

💕

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Stace
Cassville, MO · 3 months ago

This!!! This right here!!!

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nmbutterfly52
Las Cruces, NM · 3 months ago

Some women learned they were valuable until 45-50 yrs old when he traded her in for a younger model. Women had to learn to protect themselves and be financially responsible for themselves. Sadly !

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Jacob Wooldridge
Houston, TX · 3 months ago

girls you are all single don't forget this 🤣 y'all will die alone lol😂 y'all don't fool anyone. Oh my you don't pick up underwear lmao I bet he picked her draws in return. Also you know what y'all are married too yet y'all plan ahead for the marriage then cry divorce. ladies this is a good reason we are not wifing y'all up. Hey stay strong though!!!!

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Amy
Euless, TX · 2 months ago

Hey YOU MARRIED 🥰

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Stacey Duckett
Bryans Road, MD · 2 months ago

exactly 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Heather Reed
Springfield, MA · 3 months ago

not all women... but to many rotten eggs in the mix feeling entitled for now reason.

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Kassie Alden
Mason City, IA · 3 months ago

Roles have changed. Most cannot afford to keep one person at home. That creates a lot of tension because most men still feel like housework belongs to the woman still even though she is working outside of the home full time. Not to mention a majority of the time the duties with children fall on the woman.

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joann cisler
Appleton, WI · 3 months ago

women still cook clean n honor their husband at least I did, as well as any decent women i would associate with. problem is most men are not men anymore

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j w
Kansas City, MO · 3 months ago

Thank you.Thank you.Thank you.I'm sixty eight years old and you're the first man.I have ever known who understood who got it right.Thank you

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GG503
Salem, OR · 3 months ago

In a world of only taking it gets kind of tiring and the takers only get codependent it has to be a equal team or nothing one category builds things the other destroys

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GG503
Salem, OR · 3 months ago

If you need a woman to cook and clean for you , you probably don't need a woman

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Sharon Sergy
Troy, OH · 3 months ago

Thank you

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Veronica Smith
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

Smart man. in that sense both must value each other. But i'm still not the kind of woman that will be totally dependent on anyone for providing for me; other than God for my health, mind, and the ability to get up off my azz and work together with my man for prospering.

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Robin Mitch
Kennebunk, ME · 3 months ago

Thanks for the common sense some people don't get it

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jacqueline
Albuquerque, NM · 3 months ago

will you marry me

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Sophie Miler
Weaverville, NC · 3 months ago

amen amen🙏🙏please bring back being a real man I'm so glad I found my husband cause he is

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Elizebeth Whisnant
Morganton, NC · 3 months ago

I wish a man was about God and ole school ways...but all I can do is dream. so I do it alone with unconditional love from my dog.

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Tony Turner
Hebron, KY · 3 months ago

sell out

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Ella Coyer
Bluefield, WV · 3 months ago

amen brother

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Elaine Grehn
Danbury, CT · 3 months ago

that's fine and dandy if your husband can actually earn enough to support you and your kids and pay everything so you could stay home and just cook and clean but honestly there's no reason why you both can't cook and clean and both work so that your children can live safely and financially okay where the hell did it ever say women have to serve men you know what we're the only ones that can have babies y'all ought to be serving us