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THE MrsNella1
Murfreesboro, TN · 19 days ago

Say nothing cause if you go by "so called tradition" aint neither one of you got no business wearing white

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Barb Ek
Middlebury, CT · 5 days ago

Theres always a big glass of red wine for that.

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Delta Gregg
Klamath Falls, OR · 11 days ago

my great nephews new mil did that. I didn't know or care who she was. told her it was rude,attention getting and totally inappropriate.

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jojo
New Iberia, LA · 2 days ago

Traditional protocol is that only the bride wears white.

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Michael hatfield
Huger, SC · a month ago

if some female shows up dressed in white at a wedding, and she's not the bride, she should be removed as unobtrusively and as quickly as possible. she is attempting to upstage the bride and destroy the wedding by her presence, there's usually one at every wedding, the trick is recognizing them quickly and removing them, while also making it clear they won't be welcome at the reception or any other functions from there on out......

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N___
Tracy, CA · 3 days ago

She knew what she was doing just wrong to wear white to a wedding period

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Sharon Williams
Sandy Springs, GA · 5 days ago

looks like Oprah

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Selena Jones
Fraser, MI · 4 days ago

say something

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Mary Elam
Pontiac, MI · 2 days ago

Some people don’t know wedding etiquette, sad but true! Nowadays some people wants their wedding color coordinated ( wants all guest to wear the same color) 🤔

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Sharyn Young (Queenie)
Taunton, MA · 5 days ago

it doesn't matter...U DON'T DO IT 😡

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shealia murphy
Holiday, FL · 3 days ago

people are forgetting long standing rules of tradition.

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Nar
Kailua, HI · 3 days ago

I would say something!

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jeanette gill taylor
Lacey, WA · 6 days ago

That is a thing of the past , most brides are married multiple time . The bride in white has probably been married in white several times before .

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Lisa B
18 days ago

Choose not to cause DRAMA!

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raine
Milford, DE · 3 days ago

I’ve worn a white pantsuit to a wedding that was 100 darn degrees..didn’t matter to the bride..we were all adults…she will stand out as the bride anyway..relax bridezillas

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Kenya Nkhrumah
Fayetteville, NC · 5 hours ago

Marriage And children are high investments with low returns.

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Binky
Philadelphia, PA · 10 days ago

Who the hell cares what color you wear to my wedding I’m just happy that you’re there as my friend to celebrate this wonderful occasion you people are so freaking weird with all these crazy traditions as my grandfather would say that’s some white man shyt cause the rest of folks don’t give a damn one way or the other🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ just stupid for no reason😡

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BrownStone
Somerville, MA · a month ago

That's definitely NOT a ball gown of any color. 🤔

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Kathleen Williams
Douglasville, GA · 7 hours ago

Ask them to leave “ it is my Day!!!!!’

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devildog832
Cordova, TN · 21 hours ago

How about I don't care….open bar

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Patricia Mccullough
Buffalo, NY · 10 hours ago

it's not a gown it's a pants set..as long as she showed up to support what's the problem... there's always a problem

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Theresa Mercedes Godfrey
Modesto, CA · 8 days ago

I would stay quiet.

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Art N
Tucson, AZ · 3 days ago

Stay quiet Very tailored with big bulky hand bag No worries for the bride If older women wear modest white tailored outfits... no big deal I'm sure the woman does not have another ensemble in the trunk

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jasmine Hernandez
Philadelphia, PA · 3 months ago

It’s not a big deal

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Pamela McQueen
Jacksonville, FL · 6 days ago

I have a friend that only wears white. On all occasions. Let's put that energy into making a happy life.

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Francine Campbell-Hakim
High Point, NC · 12 days ago

You go up to them and ask say one of a few things: 1. Hey, what are trying to do, upstage the bride?… and laugh and roll your eyes… have one of your brides maids then go to the person and say… awkward!, what you gonna do?… and leave the ball in their court. 2. Did you NOT read or know wedding etiquette?… what do YOU think you should do here?

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Karen M
Petaluma, CA · 2 days ago

I wouldn't care if 5 women wore white at my wedding people are there to see me not them!

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TanyaRose Medrano
Monument, CO · 3 days ago

If she’s acting dumb then I’m gonna act stupid and escort her out myself

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Barbara Gallagher
East Falmouth, MA · 16 days ago

Ignore it......why would you bother. Enjoy your celebration.

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Gerold Atkins
Overland Park, KS · 6 days ago

nothing unless they are illegal 👍

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imoveumove919
Brooklyn, NY · 20 days ago

Another reason not to get married, yall hating on what ppl wear to the wedding. My girlfriend and I would just be happy friends and family showed up regardless of what they were wearing. She wouldn’t find that offensive we’re not the materialistic….

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gumbeaux
Conway, AR · 11 days ago

Saying nothing, except telling her how nice she looks!

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Gingerdog
Los Angeles, CA · 3 months ago

I think there's something wrong with women who feel they won't be the center of attention on their wedding day. Insecurity is not an attractive quality.

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MS RON
Slidell, LA · a month ago

Staying quiet- she may not had realized that is a rule. And maybe the white dress was her only GOOD dress. Plus it does not look like a bridal dress.

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P. P.
3 months ago

unless they're trying to come up to the altar and marry my husband who cares. lol everyone invited knows who's getting married. hopefully seeing someone else in white wouldn't confuse them.

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Marci Rommal
Katy, TX · 3 months ago

First of all, that’s not a ball gown. It’s a two piece suit. Secondly, one never wears white to a wedding if the bride is wearing white. If ignore it because it is obviously NOT a ball gown.

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Kevin Oestreich
Quincy, IL · 11 days ago

I'm guy and that is really far from being a gown.

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Christine Perri
Manson, WA · 14 days ago

Everyone knows you don’t wear white to a wedding out of respect for the bride. I would rethink my relationship with this person..

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Mahogony
Chicago, IL · 13 days ago

Look, nowadays be happy that people showed up to wedding. We all have things more pressing to worry about. By the way..the dress is perfectly appropriate. 🌸

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Rosa M Velazquez
Denison, TX · 20 days ago

I would not care.

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Teri Maki
Vine Grove, KY · 3 days ago

it'll be ok. enjoy your wedding

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Just A Guy
Troy, NY · 6 days ago

😆

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Blac Butterfly
Philadelphia, PA · 20 days ago

I would keep quiet and continue to enjoy my day.🥰

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Judith Sturgis
Philadelphia, PA · 11 days ago

Ain’t a ball gown

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Mary Ellsworth
Dundee, FL · 2 days ago

No I wouldn't say anything. It is just not that important.

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Heather Flynt
Ravenna, OH · 6 days ago

good ?

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dcee
Modesto, CA · 12 days ago

I guess I’d give Oprah a pass 🧐😵‍💫😂👍🏾

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Rissa Musgrave
Durant, OK · 25 days ago

I would be thankful that some people or family showed up and enjoy my day and my wedding and not worry about what people wear It's her day so enjoy your time This might be your only wedding Have fun dance eat mingle 🥰💕

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Chase McClure
Portland, OR · 8 days ago

sit tf down, people. IT'S THE OTHER FEMALE WHO'S BEING DISRESPECTFUL. how slow are you? young one in the gown, duh. she thought she was being cute in her prom dress, or whatever. l dont think she was allowed in. . this is why we check in with other females about our outfits BEFORE we leave the house. 😂

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Poppie
Toms River, NJ · a day ago

If you’re invited to my wedding, I don’t care what you wear, you are there because I wanted you to celebrate with us. Personally I think people put far too much emphasis on the wedding when it should be on the marriage.