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The best thing you can say is are you okay if you need anything all you have to do is call 🌸💕🙏
the ol mans dead and you worry about yourself?do that later and dont worry about your comfort so much.
My husband’s has health issues and so many say they are going to come visit. I don’t appreciate they say they are coming and give me day and time and no courtesy call they just don’t show up. He gets so disappointed and I deal with him feeling he isn’t liked anymore. These are the ones that will come up after and say. “He is in a better place”. Basically they can just stay away. Cuz if that is all they can say, it is just to make themselves feel better and off the hook.
I'm not really sure I understand what the hell she's trying to say.
For years my friend always worried about her adult son. He had a drug addiction and would be gone for days and she wouldn’t know where he was. One time he was missing for 3 days. They found him in the river of a park. Overdose drowning. I consoled her, held her and did say, you’re not going to have to worry about him anymore. It wasn’t heartless, it was heartfull.
She is right. Expressing empathy is better. Tell the bereaved a good memory you have of the deceased and that you will miss him too That is easy to do.
I lost my dad two years ago on thanksgiving morning unexpectedly and my heart broke because he was gone and because my mom was left to deal with everything. The pain of losing a loved one is real and yes it did give me great comfort believing that he was with the Lord and was no longer suffering and the fact that he will always be with us in our hearts and memories. It is not selfish to just want a hug because that is what we the loved ones left behind need. We already know the one who passed is still living in spirit and it’s their physical life that has ended so wrap us in hugs to help comfort us because we need that more than words.
You are so right. When my husband passed someone embraced me, they didn't say anything. Words were too painful. Many years have passed since that day; however, the embrace stays with me.
Please don’t tell people that their loved ones are in a better place, people said that when my husband passed, well, I felt that he was in the best place when he was with me!
I was 20 when my mom died. The nerve of some of the things people would say. one person told me they knew how I felt ...their mom was standing right next to them. I became completely introverted from that experience. I couldn't stand the fake mess of it all.
when my dad died when I was nine and my brother was seven and my sister was sick We didn't go to the actual funeral but we went to the one or family came to the house. I'm 72 years old now and it's still haunts me to this day the adults that walked up to me patted me on my head like I was a dog and told me my dad was in a better place. My dad should have been there with his children and his wife there was no better place than that. Don't tell people that it's insulting
I found that ppl just don't know what to say . it's not done in malice . they want to help and comfort you . make them freezer meals , run errands , help with household chores , simple things done in silence
👍excellent advice 👌
Absolutely true
people don't know those words aren't comforting until they go through it themselves. I have been throughbit
facts
When my husband died I found myself comforting other people.
don't say their in a better place
maybe you should pass out an instruction manual
There is one thing you can say ? that if you need help or anything you need a hand please call me an I will be there for you ? 🥰🥰💕🙏👍🙏Amen
AMEN, AMEN, AND AMEN. WORRY ABOUT THE LIVING. GOD BLESS HER.
Yes ma’am true words
so true
In our culture, we are afraid of death. We do everything we can to avoid the subject. When death confronts, we don't know how to act or what to say. People say, "I'm sorry for your loss," "he's in a better place," "she's no longer suffering," and so on because we don't know what to say. People want to offer comfort. You could try taking their words in the way they mean them.
She is just speaking the truth. After they get over the initial loss it’s like a slap of reality hits!!! How are they going to live now? I have a friend who lost her sister. For years she went next door to take care of her. Today my friend cries and says “what am I going to do?”
She is so right!! I lost my husband Wednesday 🥲
exactly what people.said when my husband and my.dad passed.
The Truth 🙏🏾👀🙏🏾
if it's no comforting don't say anything
Yes ma’am
that's true and real talk 😅
I feel so much for you. I'm felling the same thing after 4 years. still lost and confuse in this whole mess 🤨
So true!!!
so true.
I totally agree
words well spoken
when someone you love dies...most people remark.. sorry for your loss..it's so impersonal ..tell them Big Hugs ♥️
exactly correct. it does not make a griever feel any better, actuality worse, depending on the circumstances.
Funerals are for the living
Correct
First there is absolutely nothing you say to her to make it better. If you paid attention she ended up comforting others.
Indeed
RIP KIMBERLY 🙏 😭😭😭
Other things people say: “How are you?” “He’s in a good place.” “Hope you’re doing well.”
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