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Karen Deavers
New York City, NY · 5 months ago
HOT

he's 100 percent right ! ladies always go with your instincts & gut feeling. & It doesn't hurt to be carrying a firearm either , just so long as you're not afraid to use it.

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Gypsyli
Ash Fork, AZ · 5 months ago

Women, in particular, have a sixth sense, that gut feeling. Unfortunately, as this speaker says...we don't listen often enough, and end up in trouble.

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Nora Garcia
Las Cruces, NM · 5 months ago

What do you think when a woman is in the bathroom and a transgender man walks in and you’re both alone. Yes, there is fear!!

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Rene Robbins
Tucson, AZ · 5 months ago

It's 10 at night. Be on the phone with someone, and stay on the phone until you get to your car, or better yet until you get home safely.

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Sharon Foyil
Newcastle, OK · 5 months ago

We ignore our better judgment in an effort to not offend, but why? Our personal safety is more important than someone else's feelings !!

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Orville Riley
Arlington, TX · 4 months ago

Exactly 💯

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Wandering
4 months ago

If a man attempts to shame you for not getting in the elevator then he isn't much of a man. Trust your instincts even if you don't understand them in that moment.

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Chris
Cary, IL · 5 months ago

That kind of discrimination is good

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Slippery Johnson
Acworth, NH · 5 months ago

chances are she'll be fine though. not all men are rapists

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póg mo thóin
Spartanburg, SC · 5 months ago

Yep!! And that's why I carry!! I've been a victim and I will never be a victim again. Always listen to your instincts.

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Calico
Oxford, MS · 4 months ago

When elevator doors open and you do not want to get in , say I’m waiting for someone for the illusion you are not alone.

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Timothy
Manhattan, KS · 5 months ago

human nature gives us instinct to tell us we are in danger but we choose to ignore our instincts and bad things happen

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Reality Speaking
5 months ago

God gives you intuition for a reason. Use it. Intuition is actually God warning or telling you something. The more you heed the more you hear.

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Stephanie
Duffield, VA · 5 months ago

he isn't lying..... there's not a woman on this Earth that hasn't felt that way at one point or another...

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f27
5 months ago

I look at them, and say ‘pass, no offense’ . It’s the ones that don’t understand and say it’s ‘okay’ that make me glad I passed. Most understand.

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Cristian Lee
West Palm Beach, FL · 5 months ago

maybe she shouldn't be at work that late by herself ..everywhere she goes walking to her car , into a store by Herself ! Women can be in danger anywhere anytime by themselves!

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Alexander Chillak
New York, NY · a month ago

A bunch of morons

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Army for a Free America
Port Orchard, WA · a month ago

Good single situation scenario analysis. Now do men... every day.

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Michael Conn
Westminster, MD · 5 months ago

the man was urinating in the corner of the elevator! plot twist!

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Gayle Payton
Taylor, MI · a month ago

Truth!!

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Gary Hill
Hendersonville, NC · 4 months ago

If a woman tells you that something's wrong or something doesn't feel right you better listen to her. My wife has done that before and she was spot on about those feelings.

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Cynthia Roberts
Lighthouse Point, FL · a month ago

good point

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packy simpson
Olympia Fields, IL · 4 months ago

The book the Gift of Fear speaks on this..excellent!

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BobE
Naples, FL · a month ago

Soooooooo, people who go to support a peaceful demonstration, which then turns NOT peaceful, should know it's very dangerous and they should not stay. Interesting concept.

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Cmartin2229
Harrison, OH · a month ago

Every single victimized person ignored warnings? Bullcrap, my neighbor was sound asleep when her house was burglarized.

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TJG60
Pahrump, NV · a month ago

Your gut feeling is always correct.... follow it.... just saying....

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Jason Pro
Cooperstown, PA · a month ago

as a man, i have had this almost to the T story happen to me, so as a man i turned and walked across the street so not to heighten her fear, but thats aside from what he is saying,,, always trust your gut!!

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* Gblueslover
Detroit, MI · a month ago

People who work under such precarious environments especially during the night... Should carry ... Before you get in, make certain it's concealed and your hand's ON it.

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David Graber
Oklahoma City, OK · a month ago

How many times have you been told in your life to trust your instincts and you didn’t, and you regretted it sadly many never have another chance to make a mistake, because that one mistake cost them their lives

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Brutal Wisdom
Kneeland, CA · 2 months ago

I could not have said it better than this man

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Tricia Wysong
4 months ago

As a nurse that took call in the middle of the night. i would have security escort me to and frok my car.

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Tammy Speight
Warner Robins, GA · a month ago

this goes for all races of people, not just the ones you were told to be afraid of

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wrist deep
Orlando, FL · a month ago

ALL predators say there's danger or a meal over there let me go see😭😭😭😭

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CA Conservative
Anaheim, CA · 2 months ago

Liberal women... usually white Liberal women are that way.

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K N
Atlanta, GA · a month ago

glad i watched until the end

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Kobah
Northampton, MA · 2 months ago

trust your instincts...

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ROB
Magnolia, TX · 4 months ago

I would feel the same way as a man, and it came up.And there is a woman in there.I would probably say you go ahead.I'll take the next one. cause you don't know what they're gonna say that you did in there.It's just not worth it.Most of them aren't trustworthy

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Allie Ate
Mesa, AZ · 3 months ago

THE GIFT OF FEAR by Gavin De Becker... All women should read it!!

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Brutal Wisdom
Kneeland, CA · 2 months ago

Women do love playing the victim🤔

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Eva Butler
Electra, TX · 4 months ago

well that's an obvious threat. no one's in the building but her. alot of times I think we don't want to show fear. because that's easy for a man to get out and even grab her. I don't think showing fear is a good idea but a strong voice and awareness and move asap as fast as possible.

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Jacqueline Retz
Harpers Ferry, IA · 4 months ago

Always trust your first instinct. it usually won't fault you. And always trust a dogs instinct as they are great judges of people.

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NZG
4 months ago

Women’s intuition. You can’t beat it. 🌸🌸

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lmcnutt52
Fort Wayne, IN · 4 months ago

Trust your gut!

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Calliope
Airway Heights, WA · 4 months ago

She could just say, oh, is this going up? I need to go down and go grab another elevator. Or is shopping, oops I forgot something. There's lots of excuses you can make to turn around a scary situation without looking bad

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Sara Collins
Weaverville, NC · 4 months ago

Read: The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker!!!! Every female needs to read it!! It’s at EVERY library!!!

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Mickey
Lake City, FL · 3 months ago

Trust your instincts!! No matter how ridiculous or paranoid you think it is. GET OUT !!

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Judith Speer
Aurora, CO · 4 months ago

As a pm for many years I've encountered many of these moments. Especially in bldgs I knew had mental health counselors that treated rapist. Always had phone set on 911 ready to dial.

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T M
Hessmer, LA · 4 months ago

Usually your instincts are valid and it doesn't hurt anyone to catch the next elevator. Better to be cautious and safe than to be regretful and harmed or dead.

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Donna Poyneer
Cedar Rapids, IA · 3 months ago

I was in an expensive hotel in downtown Chicago probably. 30 years ago. I got went to get on an elevator alone and when it opened there was just one man. I panicked but, did not get on .

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M Phillips
Charles Town, WV · 4 months ago

Amen