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Samuel
Dublin, OH · 5 months ago

Maybe he left because you were busy sharing your life online, or maybe there’s more to the story, sarcasm aside, it’s never that simple. Before judging, we should understand why someone might turn to another person to fulfill their needs. It’s not always about being a “cheater.” After having a child, relationships can change dramatically. Hormonal shifts, new priorities, exhaustion, and emotional adjustments affect both partners. It’s common for mothers to focus on the child, which can make a partner feel emotionally or physically neglected. Some men can handle this gap; some struggle. Neither partner is necessarily a bad person, sometimes it’s just difficult circumstances and judgment. Let’s not be quick to assign blame without hearing both sides. Best wishes to everyone going through tough times.

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Leroy Tate
Kankakee, IL · 10 days ago

stay positive beautiful goddess God Almighty got you🙏✝️💯🙏✝️💯

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Marvell Wright
Omaha, NE · 9 days ago

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Outcry
Newark, DE · 5 months ago

The moment he sees she's happy, he's gonna try to swoop in... And they have kids together... So it's always going to be some baby daddy issue... He didn't just cheat on her, he cheated on his kids as well...

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Michael Foster
Seymour, IN · 4 months ago

Take care of your kids and live your life. The right one will find you 🫶

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Diana Rocha
Owensboro, KY · 4 months ago

Or even choose to stay single. You don’t need a man they do nothing but make life harder.

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Claudio Johnson
Lometa, TX · 4 months ago

your the best kind of woman to have I would just adore you and your little ones Iam ready for someone like you to take care of 🩷💐

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Jem M
Phoenix, AZ · 5 months ago

I think everyone deserves a second chance if they are willing to try. Maybe he wasn't feeling like he mattered to you anymore. Cheating can bring people closer together if both can forgive and take responsiblity. No one cheats for no reason.

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Ben
Worcester, MA · 3 months ago

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David Olp
Whitewater, WI · 24 days ago

I would rather have a beautiful more mature woman

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Giovanni Trapani
Bay Shore, NY · 24 days ago

Love Your Attitude, And You Are 💯 Percent Right, You Have Years In Front Of You, Hope You Find Love And God Bless 🙏.

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Troy Butler
Parksley, VA · 3 months ago

You will not have any problem, your beautiful 😍

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Christopher Brown
Erath, LA · 5 months ago

im 35 single no kids ,your beautiful and you didnt deserve betrayed like that. and what husband want was something younger with no kids and responsibility

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Tommy Carroll
Slidell, LA · 3 months ago

In that respect, 38 is better than 19 any day .😁

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Stsven
Athens, OH · 3 months ago

no one deserves to be cheated on. just remember it's his loss not yours

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Tammara Wade
Twin Falls, ID · 3 months ago

instead of running out to another relationship, you should work on yourself and taking care of those children because they are your life and they are the most important. you don't need a man to complete you that comes from experience. best of wishes young lady. you're beautiful. don't let him tear you down. he's the loser not you

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Virgil Booker
Long Beach, CA · 4 months ago

A learning experience

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macadocious
Conyers, GA · a month ago

Just God telling you to move on..he'll find out that she is actually 17. I wouldn't visit him either. you look to good for bs ..anyone deserves better😳

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Larry Harvey
Mena, AR · 2 months ago

absolutley

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Scott Hawk
West Carrollton, OH · 4 months ago

men and women are not equal... SMH

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Steven Boswell
New York City, NY · 4 months ago

Married 40yrs, never cheated on my wife,raised 5 kids, own my house, retired, and still love her like it was the first time we met. If your wife says these 4 words to you, YOU SHUFFLE I DEAL, nuff said

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D Simon Nobel
Bigfork, MT · 4 months ago

How about taking control of your own lives, before controlling others! Take responsibility! Be a mother and good woman! Your easy path is the root of your problems!

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jackson wardle
Fort Worth, TX · 2 months ago

How bro was moving

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Ivan De Jesus
South Amboy, NJ · 3 months ago

why would he cheat on you for

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Anna
Soquel, CA · 4 months ago

Amen 🙏🏻

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Belva Underwood
Royse City, TX · 3 months ago

My life for me started again, when I was 40.

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Stan Gunn
Kearns, UT · 3 months ago

Good morning Hope hopefully you will have a wonderful day

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Jackie Beitz
Watertown, WI · 4 months ago

just remember once a cheater always a cheater and never take him back!!you are worth so much more and so are you kids!now go out and find a decent man that will treat you with the dignity and respect we all deserve💕💕👍👍

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William Gail
Heber Springs, AR · 4 months ago

i wish i could find a real woman who will be loyal to me and faithful and truthful 🥰

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Ered
Detroit, MI · 5 months ago

yeah but 19 and im thinking he is 38? 😳 are you starting to show menopause symptoms?

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The LionSoul
Middleburg, FL · 4 months ago

it's never that simple, sometimes the guy fights for years to be what he was in her eyes at the beginning only to realize he'll never be looked at the same ... some women through these labels on men but they were the one's slowly pulling back over years and becoming more self-focused, enjoying the attention not giving it back ... taking love for granted so then you get to see what life is like without it, and now you have to play the dating game, giving way more and getting even less ... enjoy your bed, you made it.

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Space is hilarious 🤣
Miami, FL · 3 months ago

Try growing up and not posting your life online ya thirsty weirdo. 🤡😂🤡😂🤡

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Jay6
La Crosse, KS · 3 months ago

make up won't fix that face,

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anthony swoboda
Maryland Heights, MO · 3 months ago

why did he have the affair?

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Steve Flores
Los Alamitos, CA · 4 months ago

your done girl

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Betty Tarkington
Savannah, TN · 4 months ago

HE WILL DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN

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Kenneth Adams Villani
Somerset, KY · 3 months ago

Don’t! Stay single!!!! If you get remarried that’s adultery!!! You married that man under god! That’s a covenant! You will have to forgive him and pray to god that he enters your husbands heart! Till death do u part is truth!!!

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William Demmer
Orlando, FL · 3 months ago

baby you are in the prime of your life live and love darling. yoia very attractive young woman

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Marne Newton
Missoula, MT · 4 months ago

Just as long as you realize if she shows up with a baby. I applaud you for sticking with it.Been there done that.

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Himes Nicholas John Himes
Fort Wayne, IN · 4 months ago

pick me pretty lady

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poncho Valeverde
4 months ago

yup you're ok🥰🥰

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Robert Alvarez
Tucson, AZ · 4 months ago

Supper cute🥰

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Maria Ixcolin
Trenton, NJ · 3 months ago

true 🥰

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Rita
Pontiac, IL · 3 months ago

sweetie the most perfect relationship is the one with God he will never do you wrong never that is a prophetic promise no other relationship offers eternal life for you and your children God bless you amen🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Peggy Keep
Lansing, MI · 5 months ago

Above all ..protect your children!

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Wesley Judkins
New York City, NY · 4 months ago

so you think packing on makeup and dressing like a young girl gonna get you a man

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Dexter
5 months ago

At 51 and as a man whose been thru a divorce and a few bad relationships I can say with confidence I will never again get involved in another relationship. Every woman I’ve met over the past few years has so much baggage and drama in their lives it’s just not worth it for me to be in another relationship. The last girl who was interested in me already has two kids from two different men and her ex is stalking her constantly and is strung out on meth. No thank you! 🙂‍↔️ and this is the pattern of nearly every woman I’ve met. I’m much happier staying single and living my life on my own terms.

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William Barbour
Bassett, VA · 3 months ago

how much minute amount of trust did he leave you with? its hard next man earn it. 🌸 but it would nice to try.💕

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Jennifer Reffitt
Muncie, IN · 17 minutes ago

God bless you lady 🥰! You and your babies deserve better than that MAN. Much love and biggest hugs!🙏

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Cassandra Clark
Riverview, FL · 2 days ago

Get yourself a young one .🙏🙏👍👍😲😲

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Gabe Sen
New York City, NY · 2 days ago

Just me own opinion, looking at u....ummmm, maybe i don't blame him

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Gabe Sen
New York City, NY · 2 days ago

yeah right....and his side of the story...?

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surfnazismustdie
San Diego, CA · 2 days ago

my mother forgave my father but I was young and never understood they are still altogether over 65 years yes he made a mistake but im roman Catholics and I forgive

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Richard John Clark
Fort Wayne, IN · 3 days ago

want to get married 💗💗💗🥰🥰🥰

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ilovenyc
New York City, NY · 3 days ago

Don’t take him back , usually they will try !

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Maryann Padula
Brooklyn, NY · 3 days ago

Best is yet to come 💕

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Laddie Bright
American Fork, UT · 4 days ago

don't give up girl

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Deborah May
Coquille, OR · 4 days ago

You are beautiful. Move forward. Trust me it will be better for you in the long run.

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Paula
Steubenville, OH · 5 days ago

The grass isn't always greener, on the other side of the fence!

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El Gatos
Oceanside, CA · 5 days ago

I met my husband when I was 55! We got married 4 months later!

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LorideeSB
Santa Barbara, CA · 6 days ago

You got this girl!! Women are tough and you are going to be okay!

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Pamela
Santa Ana, CA · 7 days ago

You go girl GOD got you

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El Jokondog
Arrington, TN · 7 days ago

just lay back and spreadum

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David Simone
Tampa, FL · 8 days ago

hi babe so beautiful and sexy girl 🥰🥰

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TW Sue
Texas City, TX · 8 days ago

Hell no it’s not over for you! Just don’t introduce every Tom , Dick, and Harry to your kids until they approve of him !! You can do it ! Just have booty calls until you find the right one! Most of all put your kids first before a man ! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Connie H
Gainesboro, TN · 8 days ago

Only 38? I married 2 times after 38.

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Deerrica Sessions
New York City, NY · 8 days ago

NO ITS NOT YOU ARE STILL YOUNG YOURSELF AND BEAUTIFUL KEEP YOUR HEAD UP KARMA WILL MEET HIM VERY SOON HE IS GONNA WISH HE COULD OF STAYED WITH YOU.YOU WILL SEE GOD BLESS PLUS GOD WILL SEND YOU SOMEONE THAYS GOING TO LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU ALOT...

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Renona Perry
Falmouth, KY · 9 days ago

Keep your head up beautiful, you got this!!🥰