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Heeey... So We've decided that you should keep your girls with you this weekend and every weekend until you're mature enough to trust the process. Thank you. Have a nice weekend.
Maybe you should keep them at home with you until you understand that you don’t run my house.
How would I respond? No boo boo, you go on and keep the kids. Don't bother calling my husband because I'm on the phone with him as I'm texting this to you. The reasons why you can keep them are: 1. We'll post what we want to. You just don't want the courts to see proof we have them. 2. I don't ever see you asking permission to take them out so you'll get the same treatment 3. Those babies are not going to be here for more than a couple of hours without their heads getting brushed if they're not braided. 4. You do what you want in your home and we'll do what we need to in our home. We pride manners and doing what's asked of them anything else deserves consequences. So have din with the girls and next time you want to go out we may be able to accommodate but only if you can understand that this home is not yours to control and he's got just as much say over the kids as you do. Have fun and hope to hear from you soon.
She has her reasons for doin it that way ..they can either respect it or decline havin his own kids over .. deadbeat then.. An no other female should be posting the woman's kids on no social media.. thats not they momma .. Respect the Mother ..I can tell alot of yall in the comments are the new bishh..
I completely understand, so in short, you are keeping the girls home,so you can desipline them and do their hair,so they wont be coming over this weekend! Got it! 👍
Have I dated a man with children. Will i do it again ffffff no if the kids aren’t grown I don’t want him. Too much bs with baby mammas and the man don’t and don’t need it
That’s respectfully fair. It goes without saying but fair. Common sense is uncommon to some folks though so I get it!
Thanks for reaching out. I appreciate you sharing your expectations. Here’s what I can confirm: • No social media — that’s fine. • We respect your role as their mother and won’t take them anywhere unsafe. • Their dad and I will make sure they’re cared for while they’re here. With that said, the girls’ father will handle any decisions or discipline while they’re in his home. We are both adults, and the focus will stay on the girls’ well-being, not control. If anything urgent comes up, we will contact you directly. 🌸
I don’t know these day because it lot woman husbands are killing these kids and a lot off his husband wives are jealous and takes it out on the kids because the man has to deal with kids mom for the kids thing just get to know who he married and men get know who she Married because kids lives are at stake
Let them stay at home don’t send them to visit
so he cant discipline his own kids wow
Still trying to control everything women like this are crazy...I can understand if he just got with u but yall married
She holds all the cards since the courts are usually on her side, but that being said, He and him alone can discipline his kids, as long as it's not yelling or hitting. The kids can comb their own hair, unless they ask then you can help them. You both together can take them anywhere you want, you only need to tell the mom if it's medical or you're going out of the state, and it's just common courtesy that if they are sleeping somewhere besides your house that you let the other parent know. Enjoy the visit with the little ones. Make sure everything is age appropriate and completely safe. 👍
JUST LET HER KEEP THEM
Kids staying home with you a lot.
Send this to their father let him respond.Yall work this out,have a nice weekend, I will.🥰
Keep your babies at home with you. It’s not that serious.
Then she can keep her kids home or he can stay at a hotel with his kids for the weekend
what goes on at our house is up to us. If they are in our house they will respect and follow our rules and so will you. If you can't deal with that we will have to revisit your child support payments
Ahhhhh.... I see you found a message from my Ex. 😂😂😂😂
well let's see I never had this type of conversation with my husband BM'S I am the wife of 27 years we've never had any kids so I've been in his kids life since they were little but I never had any conversation with Junior mom which we didn't like each other so we didn't conversate I had nothing against her she has something against me but I really didn't care and I wore that on my forehead every time I saw her I didn't care for her... his daughter mom we always conversated that important we always have that understanding and we always joke with everybody that we both raised her because when I came in the pictures she was only bout a year and a half years old so yeah I never had that conversation she never had an issue Wit doing her hair cuz I'm a hair stylist I've done her hair before so it never was an issue....
just ignore it all, and have a great time. don't even discuss this at all. pretend u never read it. don't worry about their hair. SIMPLE!! LiFE is beautiful
The only proper way to respond is as follows......🤨🤔YOU GOT JOKES!😂🤣😂
let them stay at home with u they're daddy don't want them
And I think u need to keep them with u Mammm
Heeey stay your ass home
they can't come over
Keep em with you!!
you say okay , if your not their primary don't act like it .
hey...take care of ur own kids
A lot of these responses are coming from ego, not maturity. If a mother is telling you how she wants her child taken care of, and you’re dating or married to the father, don’t take it personal. If the shoe was on the other foot, most of us would be just as protective about our children. It’s really about respect. Not what you say — but how you say it. Just because someone comes at you sideways doesn’t mean you match the energy. That’s not maturity; that’s emotional impulse. I’ve been in this situation before, and because I responded with calm, respect, and understanding, I never had an issue with a baby mama or an ex-wife. When you show respect first, it softens the whole dynamic. It changes the entire tone. Just some food for thought. 🤔
Keep them home with you. You don't run the household.
I guess they won't be coming to my house. U can keep them.
Get a court order for full custody.
I see nothing at all wrong with those rules just a good Mom looking out for her kids👍
Do not respond! Let's the girls go back home after the weekend with the hair done! Lol😂😭😅😳
Gurl please understand this #1 you can keep ur children at home being u have all the control at ur house not mine and 2u don't run nothing over hear an 3get this not what you want
Tell her to keep her children at her house where she may have total control🤔
well I guess they won't be coming over
Keep them home
you have to your babies home. our house our rules.
I would reply, ok you just keep them there.
I wouldn’t respond. Until next month.
It’s legitimately fine besides the discipline part. She needs to make sure that the hairs presentable though.
She mind as well just let the kids stay home if she gone be saying all of this bs
Nope. Hell naw:
Wow
u dont respond. they r not ur kids and its not your business. u do what he needs with his kids if he asks but u not the decision maker
I'll forward this to their father for you.
Give the message to him and back the hell off as much as possibe.
Ur response should be, okay. Those are not ur kids!!!!!!
I forgot, she’s unreasonably talking about not taking them anywhere. As long as there’s no concern on discipline, she way overboard. Clearly the dad won’t allow his girlfriend to discipline them to cause harm. Micromanaging!
ok I agree with these terms