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Cheryl Mathis
Waycross, GA · 6 months ago
HOT

When my husband died I didn't have the money to bury him. I got on my face before God and cried out for a miracle. God answered and the bill was paid in full from someone I barely knew. Cry out to Jesus Christ, He is listening and will answer you. I'm sorry for your loss. I still had our children at home. But God got me through it:) All praise, glory and honor to His name!!!

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Forever Anonymous
6 months ago
HOT

Send debt collectors a copy of his death certicate; they legally can not collect from a dead person.

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Gee Whiz
6 months ago
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I know exactly what that's like. He is gone and so is half the household income. The house is too quiet. The rest of the world goes on. The debt collectors call. The bills lay in organized stacks. His SS is withdrawn from the bank but somehow the bank never pays it to SS so SS keeps calling for it. it takes a year to finalize probate because Medicare actually owes him money but won't respond to close out the account. You put on a brave face at work until you hide in the bathroom to cry.

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nunyabisness
4 months ago

What an amazingly stupid woman. Imagine losing a spouse… and then making a video like this. He’s definitely better off

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Mary Whitmer
San Clemente, CA · 5 months ago

My husband died of a massive heart attack in the car on the way to a funeral..I was in school, we had a house payment and 20k in bills and I had to bury him...on top of that, he had a small life insurance policy that was denied because he had a pre- existing condition..It was so hard, I was 50, had to get a job within a week, and try to go on with life. I am 81 today..I do not have a lit , but I get by. God Bless anyone going through hard times..I pray you find a way through .🙏🙏

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Ashley Snyder
Tuscaloosa, AL · 4 months ago

Omg, I’m sooo sorry! My husband was killed 9 yrs ago and I’m just now getting my head on straight. Have friend of family member help, they want to. One friend took care of closing accounts, another helped pack up his things, grief took me to mental places, helping me heal… our times, his laugh, I had to remember I’ll go on for myself… one day at a time. 2 of his credit cards erased his debt… wasn’t that much but on paper it looked untouchable. Sold the house to help the bills, put some back and got a smaller place. You are stronger than you think. I leaned a lot on my faith & kids. If you need to vent , I’m here.🌸

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Lisa Jude Bridgwood-Jenks
Conway, SC · 5 months ago

I lost my soul mate of 34 yrs 6 yrs ago and EVERYDAY I get a call trying to collect the enormous amount of money I owe when he was sick😢. I also get the occasional call asking to speak to my late husband. Pain NEVER goes away. It gets a lil ( n I mean lil ) easier but still there. I still look over to his side of the bed. 😢

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Kyra Andrews
Tetonia, ID · 3 days ago

Think about the future always and prepare for just in case. We never know what time we will leave this earthly existence.

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Pamela Cohen
Canyon Country, CA · 3 months ago

Hardest part of life 💜

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JD Beck
Lancaster, TX · 4 months ago

Sweetie, I Feel Your PAIN, I Just List My on 14 Sept 25 After 34 Years, It Does Feel Strange Not To Hear Their Voice 🙏🙏🙏 💕💕💕

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janet landini
Salem, NJ · 4 months ago

M husband passed, and I still receive medical bills. he Served Our Country for 12 years, and our government did not help when we were homeless. one medical bill came in after 11 months after his passing this year a bill came the other day and I called the company and after explaining that he passed ahe stated "where do I send the bill" I stated "to his ashes in the cemetery" and she kept asking the same question again. There was no respect for someone who had passed.

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Paulina MC
Seattle, WA · 5 months ago

Mine died leaving me with over four million in IRS debt plus hundreds of thousands in medical bills. I was only married for four years but now financially ruined and was retired and now working in pain six days a week. So I get it. It’s a very lonely place to be.

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Mary Staples
Vincennes, IN · 4 months ago

Hundai called me wanting the money for the car after my husband died. I had taken the car back already and told him that and I told him my husband died and he told me I was lying and just getting out of paying. I hung up on him and never answered another call from a bill collector.

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Carman Cornett
Peru, IN · 4 months ago

I may not know you, but we are ALL GOD'S CHILDREN making us FAMILY!! I am praying deeply & wholeheartedly for you & your family if your husband's. I honestly wish that I could reach out and hug you tightly & pray out loud with you, but since thats not the case, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE THOUGHT OF, CARED FOR & VERY MUCH PRAYED FOR HONEY!! (that's my Southern accent) MUCH love & MANY prayers being sent your way right now! 🙏🌸🌸

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Relma Burmeister
Puyallup, WA · 3 hours ago

Been there . . .

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Elle Dee
Southfield, MI · 6 months ago

Sorry for your loss. Now, if your name is not on any of those bills as a co-signer or joint borrower, send a copy of the death certificate and those bills are over.

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Paula Redding
Eagle Mountain, UT · 5 hours ago

I am sorry for your loss, but sorry to say they will keep coming until you have paid off everything that he owed. They do not care about your grief they care about the money. I know from my own experience. The people that say they will be there are for awhile and then they get on with their own lives.

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Sandy Shamblin
Bonney Lake, WA · 3 months ago

If you have to go bankrupt. I don’t think the remaining spouse should have to pay all the bills for the spouse that passed away. It’s hard enough, losing them without losing everything else also.

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Ttt Tttt
Jacksonville Beach, FL · 6 months ago

poor woman ,,I'll pray for you ,,,I was just told 2weeks ago I'm in 4th stage of heart failure/ and get my everything in order,,,what do I tell my love ones ?

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Travis
Arcadia, FL · 2 months ago

dont pay the medical bills.

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Beth Vines
Warren, OH · 4 months ago

been there, done that. The house we had I had to let the bank take it with all our dreams. Not only did I lose him but also family and friends. No one knows what to say or do. They would see me in the store and turn around and go the other way. Had to try to explain to my girls why we know longer got invited to family functions. Being widowed at 44 was the hardest thing I ever had to go thru.

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GrableMable
a day ago

Time and grievance 👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Linda Pettigrew
Leeton, MO · 25 days ago

I've been going through this the last few years. And Im now 70.

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Ruth E Kivela
Virginia, MN · 4 months ago

You have my condolences. It’s hard, but you just have to go through it. Take your hugs when you can get them. We’re all proud of you. I went through this in 2008 . The man was going through hell it was his time, but some people did not make it very easy.

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Da Hawk
Talladega, AL · 2 months ago

It's all about the money these days 💯😞

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Rosemary Garrett
Redlands, CA · 4 months ago

God bless you one day at a time

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Tami Smith
Saint Albans, WV · 6 months ago

N why do u feel the need to post

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Diane Brown
Nottingham, MD · 4 months ago

So sorry for your loss🙏🏼

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P Harrison
Georgetown, KY · 3 months ago

losing a loved one is hard enough then you get all the financial issues that just compound your sadness.

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Rigo Drais
Memphis, TN · 7 days ago

it's going to be alright girl 🤎

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Suzanne Woods
Frederick, MD · 4 months ago

This video just breaks my heart.

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UnstoppableMomWife
Peoria, IL · 4 months ago

🙏🙏🕊️🫶

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Jeanette K
Spanaway, WA · 4 months ago

😓💔

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Vera
Virginia Beach, VA · 5 months ago

I literally cannot imagine how cold and unbearable the aftermath must be... I'm sorry the world isn't compassionate in places it NEEDS to be, and I'm so sorry for your loss 😞

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Jill Edwards
Smyrna, TN · 4 months ago

There is a message in this post. Always have life insurance. The person here looks like they lived in a nice house. drove nice cars, you can afford life insurance. I learned this at a young age. A co-worker's husband passed away. She was 20 with a baby. She had enough insurance for the burial, but that was it. She didn't get social security because he hadn't paid enough in. This was almost 50 years ago, so there was no single head of household. Luckily, she had family that could help.

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skolsister
Oklee, MN · 6 months ago

not too torn to make a video of yourself being torn. what a weird thing to do.

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Shirlee M. A H
Oakland, CA · 5 months ago

There needs to be a clause in the contract that if your loved pay their bills on time at the time of their death vehicle should be paid off and given to the spouse, a loved one and that’s another reason to have life insurance so that we can pay off the things that’s important to us when I love one pass

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Dawn Hannagan
5 months ago

I know exactly what your going through. My brother in law passed in February and my poor sister dealing with all the grief, bills and everything else.She cries all the time

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Andi Hall
Mishawaka, IN · 4 months ago

My guys been gone going on 8 years. Still get bills and mail for him.

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Tjuania Keeton
Red Oak, TX · 4 months ago

This broke my heart.

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James
Grayson, LA · 4 months ago

praying for you.

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Be you
Fort Lauderdale, FL · 4 months ago

😂

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Susan Watson
Franklinton, NC · 4 months ago

Oh my God , do I understand. The sharks come out real fast. Not even a week after my husband died I had phone calls and letters, no sympathy just wanted to know if I was selling his motorcycles or the house. Girl breathe! Go find a place that’s quiet, no voices, no phone, just breathe. Wishing you find your peace.

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Choppy
Fillmore, NY · 4 months ago

I dont have a story to try and "one up" you. I am just so sorry this has happened to you and your family. I cant imagine the pain, both physical and emotional that you are experiencing. I hope that you can find a way to lean on your loved ones, while you find your way back to some sort of normalcy. I imagine it may take quite a long while. All the rest can wait. Take care of YOU first. 💕

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Laura young
Flowery Branch, GA · 5 months ago

So sorry

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Shootmupintx
Cleveland, TX · 4 months ago

My husband killed himself 20 yrs ago. Know exactly how you fell. It gets better.

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Mindy Matney
Tehachapi, CA · 4 months ago

I never wanted to be a part of this club. I can’t take much more 13 weeks since he passed. 26 years married and 40 years of love. We’re just supposed to move on. I can’t move either.

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Tonya Real-Slaathaug
Pasco, WA · 4 months ago

I would trade my membership in this club for anything.

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Cynthia Kimmons
Titusville, FL · 4 months ago

I'm sorry that you have to go through that,none of us want to do it but the only thing that was helpful to me was I am living in a state where everything in his name only was marked as paid! Hospital and all Drs, store charges, all not my responsibility 🙏🙏

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Bear1010
Washington, DC · 4 months ago

Awful 🙏

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beehonest1
11 days ago

im sorry...😭😭😭

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Jacqueline Ray
Albuquerque, NM · 2 months ago

Ugh losing a partner hurts enough. You can’t think past tomorrow. I lost a boyfriend ready to marry but I can’t imagine losing a husband that’s a lot more to handle…. Grieve the way it suits you… scream into a pillow or in a quiet private place…. And let out all that energy… it helps. don’t think of the future just think of the next couple hrs, self care when you feel like breaking helps too… it takes time. You will never get over them or forget them but you will find yourself in a place of looking back and thinking of memories…. Please think of the happy ones… openly talk to him as if he’s there… it helps too… get into therapy…. Prayers and hugs sent your way.

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Michael Teter
Oak Grove, OR · 2 months ago

fake as uck

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Ronald Collier
Freeport, FL · 2 months ago

If he’s gone, you don’t have to pay his bills that’s the law

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Lisa Hudson
Saint Paul, MN · 3 months ago

Lost my fiancé 3 weeks ago while sleeping…..

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madelynnc.1981
Pelham, AL · 3 months ago

dude I'm on your exact same position

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Robin Golden
Port Richey, FL · 3 months ago

it happened to me my husband passed away all the sudden I had debts I had to sell pay off the debts and move into a house by myself paid off then I had to go back to work and take care of everything and I paid off everything I owed and I have excellent credit now but I'm missing him and life is lonely still never remarried still heartbroken

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SIRAT
Starke, FL · 3 months ago

I've had to miss mine now longer than I knew him

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Tam Bur
Casa Grande, AZ · 3 months ago

o girl, my cousin is going through the same thing, so sorry for your loss

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Joann Z
Washoe Valley, NV · 3 months ago

im dealing with the very same thing right now ... I need a moment to cry