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nini🎀
Westwego, LA · 3 months ago
HOT

this is a form of rape, hope he knows.

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Wiliam X
Washington, DC · 3 months ago
HOT

The lesson is......have your own $$$$. Period.

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Cheryl Smith-Meredith
Brooklyn, NY · 15 days ago

Why did she go in the first place

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DG2F
New York, NY · 15 days ago

Hell no he needs to go to jail

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Tony Williams
Northlake, IL · 2 months ago

she's on her period, (but her mouth ain't bleeding)🤔

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Barbara Wright
Warner Robins, GA · a month ago

👀”Yes he’s wrong for this, because he’s making it all about sex.” “ Because that was his intention in the beginning.” So she should’ve had a backup plan, it’s called your own money when shit goes south okay. “Besides a woman shouldn’t be made to have sex for plane fair okay.”🤔

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G Rio
Pontiac, MI · 22 days ago

trafficking😂😂😂😂😂..... she knew what he wanted before she left her house.... she should have never came.... hoodrats r the funniest 😂😂😂😂...find your way home then😳

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Ms.Beautiful #1
Youngstown, OH · 2 months ago

She was supposed to have her own money. But he didn’t have to do her like that.

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RED BLUE
Trenton, NJ · 16 days ago

. 1#learn all you can and have a escape plan *** If stranded in another country If you are a U.S. citizen: Contact the nearest U.S. embassy or consulate immediately They can help with: violence or sexual assault hotlines (coercion qualifies even without assault) Ask police or social services for emergency shelter or victim assistance Many states treat this as endangerment or coercive control, especially if travel was intentionally revoked. Preserve evidence This may qualify for civil action Even if it doesn’t meet criminal thresholds,

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Mike Petruccelli
Elyria, OH · 3 months ago

men you got to stop expecting to get laid just because you paid for something. the sad part is what it takes to get laid is free. It's called confidence and having a moral sense of mind and treating woman the way you want to be treated. You totally showed your true colors, and it is really ugly.

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Glen Williams
The Bronx, NY · 4 days ago

nothing in this world is for free your parents should have taught you that a long time ago 🤣😉🤣😉 get to stepping 😁😁😁😁😁

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Glen Williams
The Bronx, NY · 4 days ago

think twice before you get on the flight😁😁😁😁😁😂😂😂😂😂

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Tommie Tatum
Gary, IN · a month ago

She played herself 😭 stupid.

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Nancy Portee
Durham, NC · a month ago

🤔🤔

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Darrell Johnson
Augusta, GA · a day ago

Have your own money

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Mike Campbell
Hagerstown, MD · 2 days ago

And you got a attitude ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

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Georgia Monroe
Fayetteville, NC · 2 days ago

Dangerous situation ladies pay attention

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Valdez Revis
Danville, VA · 6 days ago

She knew what she was getting into.she knew what it was no need to act shock now

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Lil Pine
Jacksonville, FL · 3 days ago

Gotta be a skit..

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glenjoejoe
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

Bro what you are doing is lowlife if she came that far if you made her feel comfortable it’s is her decision if she wants to sleep with you but that sounds like human trafficking extortion I would have had a return ticket in hotel for both of us in made sure she got back home safe because if anything happens to her it could fall on you.

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Bobby Robinson
Richmond, VA · 9 hours ago

Hell no, if I want a conversation I could have talk to you on the phone.

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TommyRay
Flint, MI · 7 days ago

She’s definitely rig, it’s sex trafficking smh

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TommyRay
Flint, MI · 7 days ago

He lame

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Jack Lawson
Buffalo, NY · a month ago

Being honest about it, some of us men have spent 1000s on women like that and never got a kiss or a handshake. 🤔🤔🤔

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Tommy Bull City
Charlotte, NC · 7 days ago

Na she knew she had to give up that 🐈 for the trip don’t want to smash stay at home

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Kill Them
Savannah, GA · 8 days ago

no he is not wrong. he can't force her to do anything and she can't force him to pay for her ride home. I know he invited her to Puerto Rico and paid for 2 one way tickets . she so clueless she didn't even make sure her ticket was a round trip ticket, meaning she was so desperate to go on the trip she didn't pay attention to the details. 🤔

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William Wellington
Indianapolis, IN · 13 days ago

These are the chances you take meeting men you don’t know. I don’t feel sorry for her or him.

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Frank
Chicago, IL · 8 days ago

Women can’t even bring the only thing they have to offer to the table🤣 stay single fellas

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Roger Wheeler
Las Vegas, NV · 12 days ago

No she's wrong she shouldn't have went on the trip

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Carol Miller
Compton, CA · 12 days ago

Both of them is stupid for real

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Minnisota
Atlanta, GA · 11 days ago

she came broke no way

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tone murphy
Oakland, CA · 16 days ago

I’m fucking before I spend anything. All you got to do is ask. If she say no keep it pushing

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Angel Vazquez
Monroe Township, NJ · 20 days ago

she using you what you call that

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BS crusher
a month ago

Don't you ever go nowhere broke!!!

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RED BLUE
Trenton, NJ · 16 days ago

When you skip those steps and rely mostly on dating through the phone, messaging, and video chatting, you miss a lot of determining factors. You don’t see how a person carries themselves, how they react to situations, how they communicate in person, or how they treat others around them. All of that plays a role in attraction and compatibility. That’s why learning who someone really is for the first time on an extended or expensive trip isn’t always a good idea. Being around someone for long periods will reveal things that were never apparent through media-based communication. At that point, someone may realize the attraction they thought they had doesn’t actually exist in real life.

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RED BLUE
Trenton, NJ · 16 days ago

2. If stranded in another country If you are a U.S. citizen: Contact the nearest U.S. embassy or consulate immediately They can help with: emergency travel assistance temporary shelter resources contacting family emergency loans for repatriation This is exactly what embassies are for.

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RED BLUE
Trenton, NJ · 16 days ago

educate about everything before you go off to other countries consider every situation 1# always have a escape plan**† If stranded in another country If you are a U.S. citizen: Contact the nearest U.S. embassy or consulate immediately They can help with: violence or sexual assault hotlines (coercion qualifies even without assault) Ask police or social services for emergency shelter or victim assistance Many states treat this as endangerment or coercive control, especially if travel was intentionally revoked. 5. This may qualify for civil action Even if it doesn’t meet criminal thresholds, you may have:

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RED BLUE
Trenton, NJ · 16 days ago

Are you still living in a garage or basement or attic or childhood room

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ILA
Philadelphia, PA · 2 months ago

There should’ve been clear boundaries established beforehand. Everyone knows that 99% of the time men have an underlying expectation of sex when it comes to them spending their money. It’s a westernized construct/ psyche .

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RED BLUE
Trenton, NJ · 16 days ago

On top of that, many people carry unrealistic expectations of relationships based on romantic comedies, soap operas, books, music, and songs. These forms of media create fantasy versions of love—other people’s interpretations of romance and connection. When real relationships don’t match those idealized stories, people often feel disappointed or unfulfilled. But real relationships aren’t scripted or perfect. They require realism, presence, emotional awareness, and lived experience. Love isn’t something you download, imagine, or project—it’s something that develops through real interaction, real chemistry, and real understanding, not through fantasy or media-driven expectations.

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RED BLUE
Trenton, NJ · 16 days ago

😰Attraction and connection involve many determining factors. In-person chemistry and pheromones play a major role. When people are physically together—flirting, laughing, or sharing excitement during an interaction—emotion triggers chemical signals in the body. These signals include pheromones, scent, and subconscious cues that communicate attraction and comfort. These are things you cannot experience over the phone or through a screen. Eye contact, physical presence, touch, smell, voice fluctuations, nervousness, and even silence all communicate information. These signals tell you how someone feels and how your body responds to them. This is a large part of how people fall in love, and none of it can be fully replicated through texting, phone calls, or video chats. While those forms of communication are important, they only represent a small percentage of what actually builds attraction and emotional bonding.

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Alice B
New York, NY · 16 days ago

All I’m gonna say is wow this is crazy…

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Elijah Stevenson
Memphis, TN · a month ago

He’s thirsty but you allowed him to fly you out, stop playing these games, all men ain’t simps, so you expected this man to cover the entire trips and he gets nothing 🤨🤔🤦🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🧐

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RED BLUE
Riverside, NJ · a month ago

He made a date, picked her up from the airport, and when he didn’t get what he wanted, he took her right back. He didn’t try to understand her feelings or build any real connection. He assumed that because he wined and dined her, sex was owed to him — but that mindset is the complete opposite of genuine dating. If all he wanted was physical gratification, he could’ve paid for that. Dating is about connection, getting to know someone, caring about them, and letting something real grow. hi But his approach and his idea of “reward” turned the whole situation into a transaction. It’s no different from a drug addict panhandling, getting money, and buying drugs just for the hit. His “reward” mindset made this whole situation collapse before it even started.

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Shari Stronv
Lakeland, FL · a month ago

That’s kidnapping. Call the police on creeps like that 👍🏼

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Damen Johnson
Chicago, IL · a month ago

I would leave her ass there. She knew what the game plan was

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Ms CryBaby🥹💕
New York City, NY · a month ago

Baby when dealing with these men idc if a man say they paying I always bring enough money for my well being just in case they get on they period and get to trippin

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Vita Brown
a month ago

Young ladies please have your own money never ask a man for anything 💕💕💕💕💕

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MR.BLAZSE
Dallas, TX · 19 days ago

Nope

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