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Stephen Sparks
Aguadilla Pueblo, aguadilla · 8 months ago
HOT

women are selfish and stupid. it's not right but that's just the way it is

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Reality Speaking
8 months ago

His choice is before letting sperm leaving his body. Both their choice is using birth control. After that it’s not a choice it’s murder.

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Craig Bruner
Ragley, LA · 8 months ago

The ONLY way to eliminate this Double Standard is to BAN the mother in every state from being allowed to get an Abortion. Because there are to many financial, moral and societal repercussions let's the father opt out of his responsibility. It's not fair to society or taxpayers letting a father opt out, this pushes the financial burden onto taxpayers to financial raise his children, we see enough of that now where mothers keep spitting out kids by different deadbeat fathers to collect more and more welfare, SNAP, Section 8 housing, ect. and believe they are entitled to these paymants like their coochie is some kind of generational business to freeload living off taxpayers ..

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Amber Cameron
Royston, GA · 9 months ago

when she broke it down like that.... I agree. I don't think it's right. Definitely double standard.

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Lulu Lopo
Jacksonville, FL · 8 months ago

I'm all for father's rights.

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justin herrick
Pittsfield, MA · 8 months ago

There needs to be a way to make it fais on both sides, of the mother wants to have a abortion thats her choice but if she wants to keep it and the father doesn't there should be a way to sign over his rights and obligation to pay support. Same for the mother if she doesn't want it but agrees to have the baby but then signs over to the father, again not being obligated to pay support as long as there's some kind of legal agreement.

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Rosie Wessinger
North Liberty, IA · 9 months ago

Men have always had the choice to be a father or not, it’s not my kid or they just leave and never be found again

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Lydia Jones
Greenback, TN · 8 months ago

watching as a child support clerk

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Derek Clendening
8 months ago

I had a son at 17 years old. was not taught right and wrong. the grandmother was all for an abortion. me, thinking I was doing the right thing stood against it. (the mother was NOT part of the abortion conversation) grandma asked me in the car when it was just her and I. of course I said NO! first year, baby and mom lived with me. I supported both, she cheated, we split up, bam $5,000 back child support right away. 10 years of fighting with mom to see my son, so many fathers days, left waiting only to be crushed and told no I could see him. numerous other boyfriends claiming they were his dad now. fast forward, 10 years, she....

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T smooth
Manns Harbor, NC · 8 months ago

cause if woman gets rid of baby then it doesn't cost anything but a living breathing child will financially break someone so no it's not the same. also I'm conservative and they are looking at this the way libs look at things. the day conservatives start arguing like libs is the day the conservative party is truly gone.

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steve Hebert
Queensbury, NY · 8 months ago

some women, after having a few kids just look at child birth as income and they deliberately keep cranking kids out !!!

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Tanya Hemmerly
Upper Sandusky, OH · 8 months ago

oh yes, he can sign his rights away.. and yes it is fair that if she can abort he can chose to walk. however it shud be a choice made by both.. big enough to have sex ,big enough to have tough conversations and decisions.

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Antoinette Ortega
Santa Fe Springs, CA · 9 months ago

YES!!!! A man should have that right..

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LeeLee
Pittsburgh, PA · 9 months ago

If these disgusting women are killing babies then men should be allowed to get off too.

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jenni520 linares
8 months ago

Ridiculous that woman are so stuck on the fact that they can opt out but men can't. Doesn't matter who got pregnant it takes 2 tango therefore it takes those 2 to make sure that baby has the life it deserves. Abortion isn't birth control. It's murder and inhumane. On top they pluck that baby out in pieces ALIVE. Watch an abortion video people so you can see what these babies go through. 🥺

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Karyn Sporzynski
Rimrock, AZ · 8 months ago

How about educating people re. birth control.

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Terry Temples
Pharr, TX · 8 months ago

that's right a man can't tell a woman to have an abortion and a woman should be able to tell a man he has to pay child support

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Lonnie Grant
Hollyvilla, KY · 8 months ago

its wrong

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Rick Jenkins
Monticello, IA · 8 months ago

Keep your pecker in your pants- problem averted.

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Barry*Allen
Iowa City, IA · 8 months ago

the one just wants the $$$

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Call me Miss Sassy pants
6 months ago

We need to send out more support as communities on bringing back the nuclear family. Why is there more talk about rights to abortion versus the right to have a loving husband along with a new life. This negative talk does no good. We need to encourage love. Encourage relationships. Encourage marriage. Encourage babies and families. God Bless Everyone. 💕💕

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Anthony Hernandez
Kankakee, IL · 4 months ago

double standard, it's an income for weman why would ever see it that way? why do you think blacks have no less than 5 baby daddies? because even if just 1 or 2 pay childsupport that woman's living free along with welfare,food stamps,ebt,free medical,free rent in section 8 housing, why would the slave owners ever change it? the government ain't they get their cut too from it off a man's labor.

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Hardhead23
Claymont, DE · 7 months ago

He’s not carrying the being😂😂😂 if he did it it’s murder. And plenty of men opt out

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Chippkane Chippkane
San Antonio, TX · 6 months ago

The majority of women will not agree even if they know it’s the truth.

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K Anoka
Minneapolis, MN · 6 months ago

Good point

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James Hansgar
Spokane, WA · 8 months ago

At age 2....Can that child decide who they live with..

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Jennifer Calahan
Houghton Lake, MI · 8 months ago

a dad can fight for the pregnancy if he knows about it, he can also sue her for emotional distress and other things if he finds out she does it anyways or he finds out after the fact. he does have rights if he wanted or wants the baby and was able to take custody and care for the child. Washington state the dad's have rights. the mom can complain all she wants but if she isn't dying and the dad wants the kid she has to carry it most of the time.

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Manuel Ochoa
Metairie, LA · 8 months ago

That's exactly the same reasoning that Dave Chappelle used in one of his comedy concerts! If the woman has the full right to kill the baby if she wants to, then shouldn't the father have the right not to pay child support if she decides to keep the baby??? That's a "gotcha" reasoning!!!😅😅😂😂😂😂

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Veronica
Seattle, WA · 8 months ago

A man has a choice when the semen is in his body. As soon as he leaves it in someone else, he no longer has the choice of what happens to it.

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Charles Anchez
Elmendorf, TX · 8 months ago

I'm betting the one on left never needed an abortion bc she choose right actions and behaviors. the one on right wants that child support or has needed to abort babies before.

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CC
Timberville, VA · 7 months ago

I’ve had the father of my children treat me like garbage over and over again but I would never try to take his kids away, as long as they are safe, of course. It’s crazy that men don’t get a say anymore.

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Georgia Threeper
Midway, GA · 5 months ago

it's a business now,get a man,get a baby with him,put him on child support then go get another man with a job so you get two checks for no jobs

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Dbulk
Butler, MO · 8 months ago

courts don't allow the guy to sign off unless somebody else takes the rights and agrees to it it's a double standard as she puts it

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monie196
Cedar Rapids, IA · 8 months ago

We as women can't get men pregnant. it's men that get us pregnant. Is ultimately it is in their hands and it's their decision.

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ChevyNova Scotia
Suitland, MD · 8 months ago

women can work better jobs now as before we couldn't get great paying jobs. In today's world a man should be able to opt out.

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NEON BANGS
8 months ago

You can tell when a woman only wants to be able to control a man, those are the ones that men let anything happen too also

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Money Moves
Marietta, GA · 8 months ago

smh. idk why people pick the most expensive way to avoid becoming parents instead of birth control and Plan B

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Joshua Crook
Canton, NC · 8 months ago

That’s the kinda thinking we need! All situations are different smh so that is why it is what it is.

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Brandon Gerue
Chicago, IL · 8 months ago

the fact that women are so protected in court is why you have men not dealing with them anymore.

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Stephanie Michalski
Marinette, WI · 8 months ago

He just doesn't want to pay for a 5th,6th,7th child. Poor guy who can't control himself, boo hoo

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LetsBeReal
Emporia, VA · 8 months ago

Fathers should have rights too. However that baby’s rights should trump both of their rights!

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Britney Goff
North Little Rock, AR · 8 months ago

if they sign their rights over in my state the father is not obligated to pay child support

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ChevyNova Scotia
Suitland, MD · 8 months ago

I had a relationship where the man knew I wasn't on birth control and took his condom off.

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Nathaniel Barrett
Fort Mitchell, KY · 8 months ago

it is not right but it won't be corrected because there is to much money in child support

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Tyler Martin
Schulenburg, TX · 7 months ago

Just the way it is.... No. Yall have so many double standards it's rediculous

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Washablejunks
Drexel Hill, PA · 8 months ago

American courts are so bad they will make male rape victims pay child support

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Chad Butler
Houston, TX · 7 months ago

She is bold lady I like her spirit fr🥰😍

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Chad Butler
Houston, TX · 7 months ago

Facts

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Richie Mitchell
Tuscaloosa, AL · 7 months ago

Goggle the movie Idiocracy 🎬 in 2006 It's coming to life.

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Richie Mitchell
Tuscaloosa, AL · 7 months ago

I bet all the ones who are commenting wasn't born in the 70s or 80s. I feel sorry for the future in 20 years if Jesus comes back before then. It's like watching that movie about the future where they used gatorade as a source of water to grow food. I can't remember the name of that movie in the 90s but that how it's becoming.

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Matt Scott
Kingsland, GA · 7 months ago

yesss

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Gibbytheedestroyer
Miles City, MT · 7 months ago

As a man if u don’t want that baby u could have made that decision before u came an pulled out or rap it

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Kristen Kensington
Pensacola, FL · 7 months ago

if they sign away their rights, they no longer pay child support.

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Brian Yeager
Pensacola, FL · 7 months ago

A MAN CAN NOT SIGN HIS FINANCIAL OBLIGATION AWAY... HIS RIGHTS YES, BUT NOT HIS FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY. THIS WOMAN IS A BLITHERING IDIOT!

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Anthony O'Connor
Roxbury Township, NJ · 7 months ago

the other knows it's not right and just deflects!

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Melinda Kerley
Chattanooga, TN · 7 months ago

no it's not right whatsoever and I agree completely that men should be able to opt out 100% they should not be bound to a child they don't want if they look don't want the child just like women should not be bound to a child they don't want if they don't want the child it does work both ways well it actually doesn't but it should work both ways!!

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