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Stephen Sparks
Aguadilla Pueblo, aguadilla · 10 days ago
HOT

women are selfish and stupid. it's not right but that's just the way it is

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Reality Speaking
10 days ago

His choice is before letting sperm leaving his body. Both their choice is using birth control. After that it’s not a choice it’s murder.

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Craig Bruner
Ragley, LA · 5 days ago

The ONLY way to eliminate this Double Standard is to BAN the mother in every state from being allowed to get an Abortion. Because there are to many financial, moral and societal repercussions let's the father opt out of his responsibility. It's not fair to society or taxpayers letting a father opt out, this pushes the financial burden onto taxpayers to financial raise his children, we see enough of that now where mothers keep spitting out kids by different deadbeat fathers to collect more and more welfare, SNAP, Section 8 housing, ect. and believe they are entitled to these paymants like their coochie is some kind of generational business to freeload living off taxpayers ..

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Rosie Wessinger
North Liberty, IA · 15 days ago

Men have always had the choice to be a father or not, it’s not my kid or they just leave and never be found again

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Lulu Lopo
Jacksonville, FL · 11 days ago

I'm all for father's rights.

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Valeria
Miami, FL · 12 days ago

arguing with an idiot is like talking to a democrat

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Amber Cameron
Royston, GA · 15 days ago

when she broke it down like that.... I agree. I don't think it's right. Definitely double standard.

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steve Hebert
Queensbury, NY · 7 days ago

some women, after having a few kids just look at child birth as income and they deliberately keep cranking kids out !!!

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Derek Clendening
5 days ago

I had a son at 17 years old. was not taught right and wrong. the grandmother was all for an abortion. me, thinking I was doing the right thing stood against it. (the mother was NOT part of the abortion conversation) grandma asked me in the car when it was just her and I. of course I said NO! first year, baby and mom lived with me. I supported both, she cheated, we split up, bam $5,000 back child support right away. 10 years of fighting with mom to see my son, so many fathers days, left waiting only to be crushed and told no I could see him. numerous other boyfriends claiming they were his dad now. fast forward, 10 years, she....

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justin herrick
Pittsfield, MA · 11 days ago

There needs to be a way to make it fais on both sides, of the mother wants to have a abortion thats her choice but if she wants to keep it and the father doesn't there should be a way to sign over his rights and obligation to pay support. Same for the mother if she doesn't want it but agrees to have the baby but then signs over to the father, again not being obligated to pay support as long as there's some kind of legal agreement.

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howard
8 days ago

it's coming down to signing contracts before screwing. if woman keeps child and man doesn't want to. then no child support. here's an idea. Stop acting like dogs in heat.

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T smooth
Manns Harbor, NC · 10 days ago

cause if woman gets rid of baby then it doesn't cost anything but a living breathing child will financially break someone so no it's not the same. also I'm conservative and they are looking at this the way libs look at things. the day conservatives start arguing like libs is the day the conservative party is truly gone.

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Lydia Jones
Greenback, TN · 11 days ago

watching as a child support clerk

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Tanya Hemmerly
Upper Sandusky, OH · 11 days ago

oh yes, he can sign his rights away.. and yes it is fair that if she can abort he can chose to walk. however it shud be a choice made by both.. big enough to have sex ,big enough to have tough conversations and decisions.

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Antoinette Ortega
Santa Fe Springs, CA · 15 days ago

YES!!!! A man should have that right..

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LeeLee
Pittsburgh, PA · 14 days ago

If these disgusting women are killing babies then men should be allowed to get off too.

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jenni520 linares
11 days ago

Ridiculous that woman are so stuck on the fact that they can opt out but men can't. Doesn't matter who got pregnant it takes 2 tango therefore it takes those 2 to make sure that baby has the life it deserves. Abortion isn't birth control. It's murder and inhumane. On top they pluck that baby out in pieces ALIVE. Watch an abortion video people so you can see what these babies go through. 🥺

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Karyn Sporzynski
Rimrock, AZ · 11 days ago

How about educating people re. birth control.

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Terry Temples
Pharr, TX · 8 days ago

that's right a man can't tell a woman to have an abortion and a woman should be able to tell a man he has to pay child support

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Lonnie Grant
Hollyvilla, KY · 9 days ago

its wrong

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Rick Jenkins
Monticello, IA · 9 days ago

Keep your pecker in your pants- problem averted.

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Barry*Allen
Iowa City, IA · 11 days ago

the one just wants the $$$

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James Hansgar
Spokane, WA · 11 days ago

At age 2....Can that child decide who they live with..

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letsgb
Henderson, NV · 11 days ago

Put it on the calendar there is one logical woman in this world!!

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White Stagg L.L.C.
Grants Pass, OR · 2 days ago

I think she was saying a woman can't be forced to have an abortion but the man can sign his rights away and she can still have the baby. I feel like they were on the same page almost but kinda fumbled the feminism at the end.

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Miguel Garza
Lebanon, OR · 9 hours ago

It's simple and it works both ways the only one that suffers from this is the child cause the parents only see the benefits of having or not having the child a child didn't ask to be conceived & be brought into this world

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Dbulk
Butler, MO · 6 days ago

courts don't allow the guy to sign off unless somebody else takes the rights and agrees to it it's a double standard as she puts it

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Joshua Crook
Canton, NC · 2 days ago

That’s the kinda thinking we need! All situations are different smh so that is why it is what it is.

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LetsBeReal
Emporia, VA · 5 days ago

Fathers should have rights too. However that baby’s rights should trump both of their rights!

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Washablejunks
Drexel Hill, PA · 4 days ago

American courts are so bad they will make male rape victims pay child support

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Stac!e
Staten Island, NY · 16 hours ago

I love how people think you can just terminate your parental rights 😂😂

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daisy duke
4 days ago

its called a damn condom

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Mind Child
Lubbock, TX · 2 days ago

I like her

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Kenneth
Rockford, IL · 7 days ago

so that's the problem most women are hypocrites if they don't want to baby they can kill it but if she's pregnant and I kill her I get charged with her murder and the murder of her unborn child so how come she don't get charged with murder for telling that same child

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I hate stupidity
Charlotte, NC · 6 days ago

first off I want to get it clear as a man I don't believe in abortion unless it's an extreme cases you know like forcible rain everything so forth on like that I can understand that obviously I don't quite approve of killing babies but I can understand situations where the mother just can't have the baby but the first lady's right we have no say so and whether or not you choose to get an abortion cuz this has happened to me my child was aborted and I had no say so in at all I feel like the men should have the same choices to women and the women shouldn't have no voice in their choice at all I feel everything you eat when did she get the same rights to me and get and vice versa

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Jim Whaley
Overland Park, KS · 5 days ago

So sorry for this but I agree 100 percent. I hate to say this but there are so many woman that do this to trap us men. I've been working my knuckles to the bone for over 30 years and will never catch up financially. I love my 3 children to much but it's the mother,my ex-wife,that barried me financially.

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Colton Loyd
Hartsville, TN · 5 days ago

as you get older you realize fairly quickly that we are bound by endless laws and regulations and you recognize that you live in the most corrupt system in the world. The sad part is these laws and rules only apply to the peasants and all the politicians are allowed to commit literal crimes against their own people and nothing is done about it.

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jama king
Springtown, TX · 7 days ago

Yes. Hopefully you use protection and don't have to make that decision because it will haunt you if you make the wrong one. Trust me. 🥺

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Devon Purse
Albuquerque, NM · 4 days ago

I love how she said its just different but still couldn't give an answer like tell me why is it different dont be shy 😂

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Andy Kronillis
Auburn, ME · 6 days ago

they technically didn't have mens birth control until 2015, and no snipping isn't birth control

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Dustin
Hedgesville, WV · 2 days ago

but if anyone was smart child support is civil matter think about that

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Lamont Houser
Jenison, MI · 3 days ago

Then it should teach MEN to be more responsible and use Protection..

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Samuel Smith
Fletcher, NC · 6 days ago

no he can sign his rights away. and then he isn't responsible

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John Elkins
Mystic, CT · 6 days ago

Smart woman. It’s discrimination against men’s rights

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Jamie E.
Metairie, LA · 4 days ago

that is a thing. it's called signing over your rights

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tha munk
6 days ago

same with fetal homicide.

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David Nix
Leesburg, GA · 2 days ago

I love her honesty

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holymoly
La Porte, IN · 11 days ago

that other woman wouldn't answer the question. hahaha, she Luke to take advantage of having children and treating men like slaves

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LCJC FAMILY
Collins, MO · 7 days ago

if you play like sdults then you have to pay for the children to live in this world. but I do not believe a man should have to pay alimony when the female is perfectly capable of getting a job.

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texasguest
7 days ago

I think both the man and the woman need to discuss the possible outcomes of unprotected sex before anything happens honestly if the both don't want a baby then use protection if one wants a baby and the other dosnt then don't have sex period

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Bluekrypto
Passaic, NJ · a day ago

I like how this was discussed

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MAFIA FPV
a day ago

I want all that mo eye back thanks

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FLAMMENWERFER
Westborough, MA · a day ago

the shit I had to go through with child support, 100% destroyed something that should have been a blessing. it's all in the past now, but it's a legitimate jail sentence for 18 to 26 years. soured my entire view of the world, now I'm all burned up, forgotten, and just waiting to die, because I was good for absolutely nothing except making damn sure that 1800 a month as a carpenter was paid. All you young guys, never get married, think LOOONG and hard about laying down with someone, when maybe 10 minutes to rub one out was all you needed.

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hellnah
Martin, TN · 2 days ago

w woman

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Josh Fornwalt
Phoenix, AZ · 2 days ago

not true. men can actually forfeit rights and not have to pay child support. But, that's no longer your child.

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Charles Roque
Houston, TX · 2 days ago

ty that is the way it was before child support... it's not right

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