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Allen Jeffries
Albany, KY · 7 days ago

Because I put 25 years of my life into a marriage, raised a great son, kept the bills paid, and food on the table. Just so she could meet a guy at work and leave me for him. He turned out to be abusive, and their relationship ended in less than a month. She then had the nerve to say she never meant to hurt me and wanted to come back. My answer was short....NO! Tell me what the point is to work 80 hours a week to provide for someone else? Just be tossed aside when the grass looks greener only to find out it was painted.

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crazy
Washington Crossing, PA · 22 days ago

my peace is priceless. i will never let a woman destroy my peace ever again. Also, there are ZERO loyal women living.

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QDough 88
Tacoma, WA · 7 days ago

happily married 20yrs she's my world without her I have no meaning

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Mac Poppamac
Dallas, TX · 3 days ago

What’s in for men? Nothing. They all sell the same old worn out spell that theirs is the hottest and their love undying. It’s a con job. Dating has even become a form of prostitution. Females want compensation for their time. Marriage has always been now a casual date has a dollar sign attached above and beyond the money spent on the date. Naw. MGTOW. There’s a massively growing number of ladies who’d appreciate a friend with benefits.

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Logan
Hanover, PA · an hour ago

Girls cheat more than boys and I’ll never do that to a woman, but they will do that to me

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jim johns
an hour ago

look at yourself

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Michael Whiteside
Graham, NC · an hour ago

i married by best friend and soul mate . very lucky and I would not sell her for a billion dollars but I wouldn't pay a dime for another just like her . 😁

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Sam Carini
El Cajon, CA · an hour ago

it's all about choosing the right woman , if there are any signs of infidelity you've got to see it. sometimes men are deluted by beauty instead of character, and morals. I've been married for 20 years but had to learn what a good woman is. found it thank you Lord.

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Mac45
Taylorsville, MS · 3 days ago

divorce.... they get everything.... first hand knowledge

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Bill Price
Buffalo, ND · 5 days ago

because we know how to listen and we didn't eat the apple

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Jacob Gosnell
Chicago, IL · a day ago

because the ones I want don't want me and if I can't have them I don't want anybody

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Jimmy
Maitland, FL · a day ago

it's because most woman only want you to give them a life that there not willing to give you they want everything and if you can't give them that they look for it else where and the fact that most woman now days want to be with other women or want to be men is just another factor in this world and woman are not loyal no more that only want things giving to them and they want you to be the soul provider but don't then complain about having to either work or be home taking care of the house most woman want to lay around and do nothing in a relationship and expect you to do everything for them but don't feel like they need to bring anything to the relationship if I work all the time and pay the bills and take care of my woman I expect my woman to at least take care of my home and children but that's a rare thing now days and don't get started on the fact that when you do marry and she leaves you she takes half your stuff

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Salem Nightahrt
St. George, UT · 2 days ago

Well if I didn’t have my unicorn that would be an easy answer. Women are so worried about being independent these days but also want a man then they don’t let the man be a MAN and gotta be doin to fuckin much. Not worth the stress. My queen is the only reason I’m not single. She wanna partner not a man to boss around. She knows her place as a woman and I know my place as the man simple as that. We both work our jobs and when we come home she does her work at home and I do mine. It works because we fulfill our duties as we should. There’s no gender war between us. If I didn’t have her it wouldn’t be worth the fight with anyone else.

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Thaddeus Lares Thomas
Aurora, IL · 3 days ago

no communication are dedication within the conversation loyalty truthfulness against you further

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Stephen Van Zant
Clarkston, WA · 18 hours ago

this is my opinion ( and not ALL women, but good luck finding one that isn't, soon enough you both aren't too old )... a lot of what I see in this day and age is MORE money, I get you need a house to raise the family in, the car to pack em around in, but that costs TIME to make, away from home away from family, soon the woman says you don't spend enough time with us... try to make time...make less money ( revolving door )...soon..duh duh duh... Divorce...court costs, no more wife, maybe some split time with kids, no home, ect.

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Marc Brennan
Keyport, NJ · 20 hours ago

cause women can't be trusted. I'd rather live alone then go through the ringer again

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Rully
Yuma, AZ · 19 hours ago

Crazy women period

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Max Carrillo
Encino, CA · 4 days ago

A Marriage Contract Now a Day's Favors and pays the Women to Divorce and All Women Are Materialist .. Marriage NO THANKS 😡👎

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wylie84
Sand Creek, MI · 4 days ago

I'm not done!! I would give anything to find the right one. Im Just not sure there out there. so not all of us are single because we want to be and honestly half those men that say they are done probably just can't find the right match and are in the same boat as me. we are men so saying we're done is just our way of being 💪

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Quincy Hevel
Glasgow, KY · 4 days ago

woman want men to have the traditional role of being a provider but don't want to act like a traditional woman. y'all will expect us to put 100% of our time energy and money into the relationship and then will entertain 9 other men why should any man subject himself to possibly losing half of everything for that kind of treatment.

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Robert Yzaguirre
Burton, TX · 4 days ago

I'm 62 and I can tell you that most women have been told that they don't need any man to do anything for them ,but the problem is that most women just want to have there cake and eat to with out responsibility

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Rob diesel
Chicago, IL · 4 days ago

better to be single cuz you could choose what girls you want to hook up with and not have to see them ever again you can get up and leave the country and go on vacation at any time or sell your place and move somewhere else at any time so unless you're trying to have kids and settle down there's no point in having a girl if men need to take care of an urge they can handle it themselves or hire temporary love

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Bradley Ashley
Silver Creek, GA · 3 days ago

a peace of mind is way more important than having a woman disrespect you cheat on you and argue about every little thing , stay single guys it's the only way you can wake up with a smile and go to sleep with a smile

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William Conaway
Saint Clairsville, OH · 4 days ago

because women cant just be happy with what they have they always want more and if the man she is with cand she steps out and blames him

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FYBIYA
4 days ago

because women never make a man happy their only concern is to their happiness

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Floyd Welsh
Forney, TX · 4 days ago

bc woman want! until that want is gone! then its off to her wanting more!

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Terry Payne
Hutchinson, KS · 5 days ago

women these days cheat more than men and are actually better at it .

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Eric Reagan
Denton, TX · 4 days ago

because you need to have money and or be very good looking

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Kevin Russell
Lakeland, FL · 4 days ago

most don't want to be a partner they want to be an owner

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Matthew Raymond
Des Moines, WA · 4 days ago

they're not good partners and they can't be trusted

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Donnie Gibson
Covington, LA · 4 days ago

well first of all get rid of social media

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Red Beard
Cincinnati, OH · 4 days ago

cuz yall dont need us remember?

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Richard Gibson
Meridian, ID · 3 days ago

We don’t want to talk about it

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Kashius Salazar
Pueblo, CO · 2 days ago

you're erratic

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Lerry Dowell
Prairieville, LA · 4 days ago

18 yrs married working in the oil industry refinery business so working turnarounds to provide for my wife and kids. they never wanted or needed nothing in life. growing up my kids had the best iphones or androids clean clothes nice shoes they picked out. my wife slept with my so called friends a brother and her coworkers husband she had a 9 yr love affair with.

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ashley stevens
Saco, ME · 4 days ago

I stay home cook clean kids are taken care of hot plate when he comes home never ben married the men I find don't want to come home to a family thay want the goodies to go so now im just chilling half do drugs of can't be trusted so I stay alone in my bubble 🙃

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Curtis Minard
San Antonio, TX · 4 days ago

I put my blood, sweat, and tears into my marriage and I was hurt severely and not sure if I want to chance going through that again!

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Angel Reich
Portland, OR · 4 days ago

because we love are selfs when we're alone

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Bobby Spratlin
Salem, VA · 4 days ago

because, there's less drama

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RC “PHANTOMZEUS” ZEUS
Hurricane, WV · 10 days ago

I can't speak for myself, 33 years married, but my 34 year old son, tells me the only thing woman care about is what you drive and how thick is your wallet before they get into a relationship. im no expert but it seems like its some of that and also the control the woman want, they forgot what the definition of submissive is im guessing, dont get me wrong treat your woman like a queen but if she can't treat you like a king then it will never work out. woman today are looking for the next best thing around and dont want to settle for just ok.

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matthew walker
Miami, FL · 8 days ago

love is gone , all women want is a big bank account. work your whole life to make your business successful on your own and marry a woman only to be divorced , and she gets half of what you worked your life for.

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Possum
a day ago

Because 2025 Women want a strong man to lead, but don't want to be led. They want to be the victim, prosecutor, and judge all day but when the man holds the gavel, he is in the wrong. 2025 Women want men to live in their gender role and carry part of their responsibility as well. They're quick in conviction and complaint, but carry zero humility, compromise, or respect...and we're not talking about the respect a man gives another man. Not looking for a pushover...as we need to be challenged some as well, where it matters.

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Ian Tydryszewski
Shamokin, PA · a day ago

dating has become a money grab and an attention seeking hobby to most women. you see all this stuff online and in real life that some women want the man to pay for everything for them before they even go on a 1st date. most women just offer themselves to men and say why isnt that enough. get up and make some money, do your duty as a woman in a relationship instead of thinking your so dam good that you dont have to do anything to help.

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Eric Jones
5 days ago

u just said it. stop your research. women today don't want to be, have no idea how to be, or even consider, what a partner is. they know, protecter, provider. cover for me, pay for me. But partner? what u taking bout willis😭

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Christopher Shrader
Tulsa, OK · 5 days ago

Cause alot a women today have their back up in their social media. Why even have a back up?! Why not work problems out. Girls today can get up and tear a dance floor but can't spread peanut butter on a slice of bread. If I have to work a full time job, go home and clean, cook, and raise my kids by myself along with pay all the bills. No help at all. Then why do I need her. Time for her to kick rocks.

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HoZZiE109
5 days ago

for most men it's very simple. it is damn near impossible to even have standards in this dating climate because you can't find a woman who isn't ran through and respectful at all so if you can't even find a woman with those 2 basic qualifiers then you can't even begin to look at their other personality characteristics that you might be looking for in an actual life partner.

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Cole
Tuscaloosa, AL · 4 days ago

We’re passing down to our sons that women are the only ones coming into marriages with nothing and can leave with half or more just because the system says so

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Zek Moran
Farmington, WV · 4 days ago

Because, If i really like a girl and she says i like u to 4 months later you see her with your best freind, and then some men 18 through 28 don't make it to 30

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Brandon Bashaw
St. Petersburg, FL · 5 days ago

because these days they aren't partners. they are they until you (as the man) run out of usefulness.

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Shirley Settle
Nashville, TN · 5 days ago

it's cheaper, no drama, no cheating, no periods, no constant complaining, not being apperaciated

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KellsAtmosphere🖤🩶
Detroit, MI · 2 hours ago

I hate it when men just hate on women with no real reason.... Like get over yourself you aren't so great either 😂

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Keenan White
Johnson City, TN · 2 hours ago

you did the research, now lay in it

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Gabriel Ruelas
Avondale, AZ · 2 hours ago

because loyalty doesn't exist anymore

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Isaac Real
Ada, OK · 3 hours ago

Less stress, more money & longer life!!

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ghost of hieronymus bosch
Fergus Falls, MN · 11 hours ago

cuz 18-29 yr old dudes are smashing their hand with the help of pornhub . watched their parents split up , and would rather have money in their pocket than on their girls nails, hair , eyebrows , purses, clothes , etc ..just to have them end up holding out half the time , or involve the man in plenty of arguments and whatnot … long story short is women are getting so high maintenance while normalizing cheating on their guys , that dudes would rather have money in their pocket and jack off to pornhub rather than go through all that …

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