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James Baker
Charlotte, NC · 7 months ago

at 25 years old I had a child I was not financially stable either however we did not get any help we made too much money daycare in 2004 was $150 a week plus formula that they threw away if the child didn't drink once they heated it up so you better have around $200 to $250 a week while the child is an infant that doesn't count doctors visits clothing diapers and everything else

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Sylvia Kinkle
a month ago

that's so true I have three daughters I'm telling you they had it hard we meaning myself and my husband were drug addicts I drug the them through hell when I should have left I stayed when my husband went to jail it saved us I'm saying these things as living proof that we survived

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Higherthoughts
Warren, MI · 2 months ago

💯

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Candice Shepherd
Fort Smith, AR · 2 months ago

The Lord dont put more on u that he knows u cant bare

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Michelle Jayne Broyles
Sikeston, MO · 6 months ago

I see what she's saying. The lady that said children are a gift from God, you are 100 percent right ! They are precious and a blessing. She isn't saying don't have children. I think she means until you are a little more stable w finances and make sure your mental health is good ,wait to have children and don't have multiple children that you can't afford and give a loving stable parent. God bless ya all

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Sheryl Warren
Macon, GA · 5 months ago

I did it GOD,JOB, DAYCARE

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Austin Jewell
Greenville, MI · 7 months ago

ok but it's not up to you and they are not selfish if they have children don't quit your day job

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David Johns
Jersey City, NJ · 5 months ago

😂😂😭😭😭

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Guest
Columbia, SC · 7 months ago

Yes Mam. You get it.

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Richard Helms
West Union, OH · 6 months ago

Birth control 1st

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Deborah Uhakheme
Atlanta, GA · 7 months ago

Children belong to get and if you gives you a child to take care of he will be there for you, just do the righteous things for yourself and your children because children are a Blessing! 🙏

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Latrista McD
Morgantown, WV · 7 months ago

not all parents put there trauma on there kids so your dead from if anything We know what not to do!

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Sharon Boone
Columbia, SC · 7 months ago

Parents try and tell you this and their children don't listen.

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Deborah Uhakheme
Atlanta, GA · 7 months ago

GOD

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