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Commuter
Brooklyn, NY · a year ago

This guy is such a fool. lol.just look at him. Fucking Clown

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Lejune Johnson
Timonium, MD · a year ago

My husband is not wealthy but he has the whole package.

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Nocountryforleftists
7 months ago

👍

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Herm317
9 months ago

ok so I'm not trying to be rude in anyway.... honestly trying to figure this out... I've never understood so don't get mad please. I mean it I'm sorry if I upset you but please explain. what type of white privilege am I supposed to have? I grew up poor. my dad killed himself when I was about to turn one.

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Dianne Punch
Houston, TX · a year ago

Women , who in their relationships prioritize income over character, will not find men to date. However, as these women age and are faced with reality, women get desperate and will accept most men regardless of age, education, and income.Women with all these relationship stipulations are making life, and the possibility of a relationship complex. Ditto for men as well.

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Adrian Brown
Lewisville, TX · a year ago

Tell em Big Brother. You always make sense and that’s the truth

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Annie McGill Weeks
Lake Butler, FL · a year ago

Black men, some of them, do the same thing.

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alster a watters
Chelsea, AL · a year ago

It's a cultural difference, not a financial difference. Building wealth and filling your life with name-brand items such as a Mercedes, name-brand clothes, etc., is the biggest difference between White men and Black men earning the sane amount. Whites will treat their wife and children better than themselves. Most Black men, especially young Black men, care more about themselves than their women or children. A White man will do without to make his woman happy.

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Joshua Parrish
Reidsville, NC · a year ago

victims of the orange boogie man.....

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Tacha Lee
6 months ago

.,. and that part

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Robert C
Chicago, IL · a year ago

not a fan of this brother, but he spot on with this one

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manny cruz
Laurel, MD · a year ago

I'm sick and tired of this bullshit

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Scottie Helms
Monroe, NC · a year ago

No such thing as “white privilege”

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Brown Kendall
Nashville, TN · a year ago

Nope! I know several black women that are happy with a black man not making six figures

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Secret Agent
Atlanta, GA · a year ago

Preach brother, preach! He is 💯 on point. When the sistas can't find that brother with the financial equity, they end up with the white man. Unfortunately, sometimes the white dude doesn't have that equity either, but she thinks it can be attained because he is white, but in the meantime, he uses that opportunity to elevate himself financially.

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Prinsceilla Coulter
Laveen, AZ · a year ago

women you dont hv2 tone it down. date in your league. Men you dnt hv2 tone it dwn either. date in your league also. that will keep majority of problems dwn

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Tabatha
a year ago

Hell, all I ever wanted was a man to go half. I failed.

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Hawk
a year ago

My sister is alone today because of this mindset 🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿

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Felicia Zinnerman
Boynton Beach, FL · a year ago

I think you got a lot of black men out there that can hold it down just as well as a white man and don’t mine handling his business. Yes a good black man.

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Joseph Barber Jr
Carthage, NC · a year ago

what are load of horseshit

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Jeff Owens
Lancaster, TX · 7 months ago

black men have every opportunity that a white man has there is no such thing as white privilege

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Dsaf NYC
New York, NY · a year ago

Well, if she can become a doctor, so can he if he tries to do more than being a rapper or drug dealer. Get his lazy ass priorities in order. There's not anything one can't achieve if they apply themselves. So, how did you become a so-called therapist?

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yre
Los Angeles, CA · a year ago

Stop lying n smoking weed n go to school

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Mary Elam
Pontiac, MI · a year ago

Please stop putting all black women in the same category sir ! Untrue! The first thing a lot of black men do when they do have the money is go get them something me broke snow ! Especially most basketball players , I swear the jobs come with broke snow that don’t have anything to contribute to the relationships if I’m wrong please name five that have snow bunnies that work and contribute to the relationship !

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Joseph
Ashburn, VA · 8 months ago

Dr. Umar is 100 percent correct

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Addison 55
Zachary, LA · a year ago

He needs to bring it up a bit. Don't settle for less. Men need to step up and stop expecting women to step down. Both genders have the same opportunities. If black men don't take advantage of those opportunities, don't expect black women to accept their lack of success. Because successful black men do the same thing. This so-called therapist is not providing the best message.

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Bella
Los Angeles, CA · 7 months ago

Can’t believe this man is a therapist for couples.

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Pascale Cajuste
Cary, IL · a year ago

Women /men don’t ever lower your expectations,standards, self worth . This is garbage.

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Robert
Forest Park, OH · a year ago

I like this man he always keep it 1000

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Pamela Thomas
Oakland, CA · a year ago

lol I am not Toning down a Damn Thang, I stay in my lane Brut I definitely don't need you being a spoke model for me..

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Nasty. BO
Holland, MI · a year ago

shut the fuck up racist .maybe go to school get an education ,and it might surprise u what u can make

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R H
Edmonds, WA · a year ago

As a black woman, I completely agree with him!

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willie wonka
Rome, GA · a year ago

What gets me is Black men and women who have money can't wait to marry a white man or woman so that their money never leaves the white race.

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Peah Johnson
Hickory Hill, TN · a year ago

I date in my league - I love my Jamaican man. He is a dump trucker driver - make decent money but when I met him, I didn’t know anything about his finances. I don’t expect him to take care of me because I make decent money myself.

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Deme
Atlanta, GA · a year ago

I like that! I met a guy who turned out to be a gold digger. He wanted a woman to be his provider, and I provided him with the finger! Read them before you waste your time!

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J wall
Michigan City, IN · 9 months ago

here we go with privilege bs there wealth in all races and poverty miss me fr

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Tonya Mccluster
Jefferson, GA · a year ago

Facts

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Gwen Gage
Katy, TX · 7 months ago

I love to hear him and Charleston White speak you might not like the messenger but I love their message they speak the truth

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Texas67
Mansfield, TX · a year ago

Now that is true

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MaTDe
a year ago

So true….Dr Umar speaking 💯

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Jamie Kennedy
Pembroke Pines, FL · 9 months ago

women want to be taken care of and it's not all of them it's most of them though I have 2 jobs a full time and a part time and my wife has a full time we put our money together and live very nice not rich but damn sure ain't broke a lot of women don't wanna be a team they wanna be a trophy wife but if you got a good guy in your life you better pour into him like he do you

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Dwayne Gates
Philadelphia, PA · 6 months ago

You’re the clown bruh he right on point.

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Gregore Johnson
a year ago

💯 💯 💯

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Kemet Goddess
Alpine, NJ · a year ago

What he said is absolutely 💯 Truth. Thats why there's alot of Black women successful and alone. If we can't accept our Kings because they don't have as much financially as we do? our men will be accepted by other races of women and then we become bitter because that woman took one of our men and saw him as the diamond in the rough. She made him a diamond and now we are mad about it. Yall better get off that high horse and get your King. I got mines 22yrs and counting. He didn't have as much as I did but now he makes 6 figures and treats me like a queen because I accepted him for who he was not for what he had.

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Patricia Banks
South Holland, IL · a year ago

drop the mike!!!!

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Jason Edwards
Charlotte, NC · a year ago

bullshit

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Jason Guzman
Edison, NJ · 9 months ago

Does anyone know the name of the therapist in this video? Thanks in advance

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Faustina Green
Oak Park, MI · a year ago

👍🏿

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Sean Brown
Bogalusa, LA · a year ago

He is absolutely correct 💯.

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Doris Taylor
Elizabeth City, NC · a year ago

Say it again-young man say it again 💯💯💯

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Victoria McDonald
Dallas, TX · 7 days ago

✊🏾💯

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Douglas
Wetumpka, AL · 9 days ago

you look like racism hurt you 😅when I'm fine clothes

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Fredeick McDaniels
Summerville, SC · 15 days ago

Ummm…true

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Eva Ferguson
San Antonio, TX · 24 days ago

shut the front door

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Justin Vaughn
Hickory, NC · 2 months ago

that's the problem he's a therapist

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Nicole Lynn
Detroit, MI · 2 months ago

boy stop im white af from detroit 😂😂 do you really think if I got to the mf burbs that they gone see me as a white girl? he'll naw? they just gonna see that 313 zip n I'm d.o.a my G

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Michelle Lawonn
Ellsworth, ME · 3 months ago

sad

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Ethan Struble
Tulsa, OK · 3 months ago

😂

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Rosa Terry
Baltimore, MD · 3 months ago

Real truth🥰

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Dakota Weaver
Woodville, TX · 3 months ago

A white man deals with black racism more than yall deal with white racism this video is racist

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Luis Santiago
Hornell, NY · 3 months ago

Amen. no sence in going to work too come home and go to work. All we want is a shower a bear dinner then Family time.

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Eileen Otero
Palm Coast, FL · 3 months ago

I agree 💯

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T&A'S BIG ADVENTURES
Tucson, AZ · 3 months ago

what white privilege? please tell me what a white person can do that a black person can't.

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Pernita Andrews
Minot, ND · 3 months ago

I want the everything else. But, our dilemma is the black man will run to Becky with the good hair, and we are out here just looking desperate because we want to be with our own, but they don't care about us (the Black Women) the same.

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angela Sites
Fayetteville, NC · 3 months ago

OMG 😳

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Trina M Morgan
Hyden, KY · 3 months ago

That's a load of Bull 💩, if you work hard you can have anything you want and color doesn't have anything to do with it, stop listening to this man he don't got a clue 🤨😤

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Saphire Star
La Mesa, CA · 3 months ago

Same with brown people don’t forget !

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Ed Mcquade
Olmsted Precinct, IL · 4 months ago

dude you are racist

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