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THIS is not your man, he's just enjoying you while he waits on the woman he really wants to walk into his life! The dead woman is a piss poor excuse and he ought to be ashamed of using her memory this way! YOU'RE RIGHT, IT'S BOGUS and he's using it because it's worked for 9 years!! !
First of all, you shouldn't BEG a man to marry you, he has a deceased wife, understood. Maybe 9 years ago you should have asked him if he would consider marrying again if that was your goal. Now God's word allows a man/woman to marry again if their spouse is deceased. But at the same time,you have to ask him his deepest feelings about this instead of pressuring him. Move on if things are not going the way you want it to.
He just does Not want to marry you. I say don't waste you time and your life on him.
She died 9 yrs ago but he been wit her for 9 yrs he could move on fast but not commit
Look im not going to disrespect is wife I'm sorry for your loss but your with him why are you making him do something he is not ready for you are with him just enjoy life! God bless you all
Until you lose your husband or wife you can’t speak. Maybe he just don’t want that attachment anymore, maybe one time was enough for him to not ever do it again. Like wtf y’all ppl are nuts.
You're calling him a "ninja" and posting it like that's ok. This shows a huge lack of respect for him and the relationship. You might not be the one for him either
Sweetie what are you doing? Frfr why are you begging a man to marry you. Life is too short for that nonsense. Go live your best life
you begging for what leave and go heal so God can bring you a man you don't have to beg to marry you
Girl leave him! He is still in love with his deceased wife! He needs to see a therapist!
Begging for marriage from anyone is stupid. Learn to love yourself and move on to find your king
why are you begging a man who has been with you for a long time to marry you young lady where is your self respect loving you comes first it's called self love you don't need a man to validate you if he hasn't married you by now it looks like he is not going to anytime soon he looks very upset at you for even mentioning marriage you're too codependent on him I hope you find the strength to leave him and start working on your self as far as healing goes
young lady move on Beyonce didn't have a dead spouse he does. if he is not ready to move on then get your ass up and do something else
He says he can’t get remarried because he’s married. He’s a liar. His wife is dead so he’s no longer married. He has to get over his ex-wife and that’s what he has to do, but he is not ready yet and you to move on. He ain’t gonna move on. He still is in the past, the minute you move on he’s gonna realize that you’re gone and he’s gonna start changing and that’s what you want. You want him to change and get over his ex…!!
Boo, the first thing you did wrong was beg him, move on, begging boo is not cute, you are, get another man
Spillin the beans and drinking in the am. Looking for validation outside your relationship is wiiiild. I’m sure he has his reasons 😩🤦🏽♀️. Grief has no expiration date 🤷🏽♀️. Just move on.
Could be several reasons. He has gotten over his widow. He may be receiving benefits and dont want to give it up. You don't beg anyone, move on dear.
Move on sista , he doesn’t want to marry you. You are a beautiful young lady .. stop wasting your time. BTW , his wife died 9 years ago , were you his mistress before she died. If so his conscious will never allow him to do it. Just asking?🥸
Why are you recording a private conversation a serious conversation with your boo-boo people gotta stop doing this cause it really looks bad. He don’t wanna marry your ass. He ain’t gonna marry you and that’s what it is.
girl go get you a nother man let that shit go you sound like a broken record. he don't love you. if he did love you he will married you he don't want to because went he turn 62 year old he came get her social security check if he get married he cannot get her check. he could get married again she is dead🤮🤮
he just don't want to get married again can't you see that? he doesn't want you like that he wants things to stay the way they are you need to be smart 🤓 and move on!!!!
ladies don’t lower your standards by begging soneone to marry you and most of all keep your legs closed until you hear those words “ by the power invested in me by this state i now pronounce that you are man and wife. Stop giving it away
Unfortunately you're not the one he wants to marry, you're what they'd call a lay over, you're good enough to have play wifey but not completely the package to be his wife sincerity trust financially intelligent supportive, he knows how badly you'd like him to marry you, but you're not his marring type for him, move on hell keep you until he finds that female, he wants for his wife
real marriage is meant to be in the after life aswell!! if he's anything like I am.. I will never marry again!! I'm waiting to be reunited with the one person I love with everything. my heart, my soul belongs with her! I get it my bro.. prayers
The Math Ain't Mathing... 9-years His wife died either before they started dating or shortly thereafter. He didn't have a chance to grieve properly and may be subconsciously blaming her.
That’s your fault. Why would you let someone waste 9 years of your life knowing that he didn’t want to marry you. Move on . Get you some solid therapy…so that you won’t keep making poor decisions. Newsflash never beg a man to marry you. This is sad.
girl if he hasn't gave you a ring after 9 years it's because he doesn't see you as the one he wants...If I man wants to trust me,HE WILL
leave 9 year's boo boo. you do not wanna pass up that free life. I don't have to answer to you or no one else.Move on boo boo
He don't want to marry you and it don't have anything to do with his deceased wife. You was just a resting spot for 9 years.
Girl please, this man does not want to make you his wife for whatever reason. Move on and stop wasting your precious time
Yeaaaa sweetie he got with you not even a year after his wife died. You are just a comfort because he’s scared to be alone.
I'm not divorced from my dead wife ...but I got a girlfriend... make that make Sense... Girl move on why should he marry you when you giving away the milk and cookies for nothing
girl leave him alone he's not ready for another wife you waiting on his is not gonna happen soon after four years he just not ready and maybe he just don't want to marry you
NEXT! He is NOT for you!! let him have his dead wife!! he is USING YOU!!! DEATH IS THE ULTIMATE DIVORCE! The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 7:39-40 Til death Do Us part...this is also used in the marriage vow. If he loves you so much get a Minister or lawyer to explain it to him. at this point he is holding onto a SPIRIT SPOUSE. it's not about Beyonce, it's about the word of God and the TRUTH. so to him it's okay to fornicate for years but not remarry after spouse dies 😳..... LET HIM GO WHY ARE YOU WASTING YOUR LIFE AND TIME???
Girl, after the third year he he don’t marry me he would have to go first of all you know that’s why we tell women don’t give up the Coochie. You shouldn’t have to wait all that time. That’s your fault because he feel like he don’t have to cause you’re not putting no pressure on him. Nine years is a long time to be with somebody and let me tell you something I would move on he may flatter you with things to get you to come back to him, but I will keep him Moving save your energy because God has somebody out there within that nine years for you so move on.
he betting around the bush .he is playing you because he doesn't want to be alone. you need to leave him and see how long it takes to really feel being with you. Test your faith. if he loves u he will. Don't beg a man to marry u.AskGod to seed u a man that just for you.
Why in the name of God would she beg him to marry her? He's not the problem she is. She has no pride what so every. It's been 9 years, and she's still begging this man to marry her. He's never going to marry her because he doesn't want to marry her.
so his wife died 9 years ago and y'all been together for 9 years so as soon as his wife died he got with you?... 😂😂😂😂oh yeah he has no plans of getting married again
If you have to beg a man to marry, he doesn't want you in that position. What's wrong with you? What are you doing to make him not marry you? Do you talk too much or drink too much? That drives a man away when you do that. If you know he doesn't like you, leave! You just might be his fuck piece. In real time, when a man wants to really marry a woman, he will.
you the fool for staying for 9 years she's dead they're not married no more that's his excuse not to marry you
But do have to say men want women that respect themselves, not all that drinking and getting high useless he does the same. You know ow what's he's going to do go out and marry someone else find someone else A.S.A.P. If his wife past he's single sorry hun.
Never beg a man to marry you. You are beautiful and can get a man who loves you forever 🙏🏻💕 good luck, girl!
Run don’t walk away know your worth nine years the vows he made with his deceased wife was “until death do us part” …He needs intense therapy, please move on and get some therapy for yourself before you get into another relationship. I pray you find new beginning 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
Nah that sh!t on your lip is crazy..if he said he wasn’t gonna marry you,leave.. you stayed after he said he wouldn’t,you picked him..🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Plz don't stay another nine yrs.. Know your worth: (Know what you will and will not tolerate).. All the best!!
I'm sorry babygirl but he does not want to marry you. Now drink it out, cry , yell do whatever you have to do. Then pick yourself up shake it off and learn your worth and walk away with your head held high. You've got this
BOGUS AF! it's only till death do you part and she parted he know damn well.....so you just easily accessible for him to do whatever with, without the commitment
The young man’s not ready for marriage again. If he’s a good man stick with him, there’s hard to find a good person nowadays that you can enjoy life with. Being married to someone doesn’t mean you’re gonna be happy.. pressuring someone might cause you to lose them. If it’s that important to you then maybe you should move on.
what I don't get is your wife's been deceased for 9 years I don't understand why don't you pull your big boy pants on be straight up with this woman and tell her that you are still grieving why sit here and keep playing in This Woman's face and you being with her for also for 9 years this don't make no sense to me you still grieving your wife so you need to let her go continue your grieving and go on about your day man like really you playing with people and when you play with people's emotions stuff don't work out very well
Don’t beg. Believe me he will marry someone else as soon as you leave him. Unfortunately you are a placeholder. You’re too beautiful for that.
Maybe he’s not ready
9 years isn’t the point, you don’t like you…the studs in your lip, the eyelashes, the alcohol….cmon sis clean yourself up, start being realWith yourself and the clarity of a new updates you will reveal to you where you need to be…..
He hasn’t chose you! It’s ok! Time to move on.
Desperate isn’t attractive
Can’t force it
You drinking. You’re the problem.
Young lady, who raised you. Madea should have raised you
Lady, he does not like you well enough to marry you
If you got too beg a man to marry you , marriage is not for you in this relationship
Make it make sense, he can get the couchie like 9000 but he can’t marry her, and she let him get the couchie for 9 years. Both of you please get off my fight app and go back to TikTok with your shenanigans
The girl is an alcoholic. Take your stuff and let her go.
U told him to shut up!! That's why he's not marrying you, and the eyelashes
Time's up. How many times he needs to say you aren't marrying material. 9 more year's
Must be a Tubi movie
Fist mistake was the thought of you even wanting to beg him to marry you
move on sister.
don't marry a drunk let her go at 9am drunk
😂😂This is a skit 😂