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Gkkj
Poughkeepsie, NY · 6 months ago
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I see a lot of people can’t read because hs is chronic skin condition featuring lumps in places such as the armpits or groin. The skin lesions develop as a result of inflammation and infection of sweat glands. This condition features pea- to marble-sized lumps under the skin that can be painful and tend to enlarge and drain pus. They usually occur where skin rubs together, such as in the armpits, groin, and buttocks. Medications, corticosteroid injections, and sometimes surgery can help manage symptoms.

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BeautifulMay
Newark, DE · 6 months ago
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He's a great husband! Hope this condition is released from your body, in Jesus Name. Amen🙏🏿🙏🏿

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#walkaway95
Cape Girardeau, MO · 6 months ago

Attention is a hellava drug. There was no reason to post this

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LOVEY
Buffalo, NY · 6 months ago

You have a loving and patient husband. He understands the assignment when it comes to caring for someone you love. God bless the both of you. 🥰

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tosha oliver
Danville, IL · 6 months ago

My daughter suffers from h.s. It is a horrible disease. She is in pain whenever she has a breakout. It is hereditary in people's families. It is an allergic r reaction to something? And when she takes antibiotics for it, she has to take them for months.Her husband is a godsin

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Angela Chambers
Greensboro, NC · 6 months ago

I’m happy for you please ignore the cruel comments of others you are blessed happy you found a great husband and for the others judging her If you don’t have anything good to say please keep scrolling

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Chri Schultz
Gardner, KS · 6 months ago

some couples are just totally committed, thru the good times and the bad, No judgement is a beautiful thing, i have no doubts that he loves his wife

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Sturdy@Harris
Fayetteville, NC · 6 months ago

Wtf is this 🤦🏾‍♂️😩

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KittyKat72
Charlotte, NC · 6 months ago

I have HS it’s a very painful disease I have been battling all my life

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Kim Vanorden
Rochester, NY · 6 months ago

my daughter too it is very painful an leaves scars. takes antibiotics can't wear deodorant I took her to a surgeon. said they couldn't fix til she got older

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Janessa Cooper
6 months ago

it sucks it's painful and it's mentally exhausting. my husband is the same way as hers. girls when you have the good one be proud not many out there anymore. the hs also makes tunnels as well I been dealing with it since I got pregnant with my oldes

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Elitess
6 months ago

HS? Hot skin?? Hot Sweat?? Herpes?? Hot Shingles?? What is it?🤷🏽 like everyone is suppose to know what it is. Explain the damn issue or what it is cause it just looks like your man is putting a bandage on your inner thigh. Waste of time.

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Brandy Lawson
Knoxville, TN · 6 months ago

My daughter has HS also it is very painful and it affects her mentally and emotionally bc she's so embarrassed by it when it's broke out. She said the smell alone will keep you from wanting to date..

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Red Denton
Edmond, OK · 6 months ago

if anyone has this problem one amazing thing to use is dial soap. im not saying she doesn't take shower or is nasty!!!!!! but what i am saying is her skin produces to much staff (everyone has a healthy amout of staff on their skin) but as I do she produces too much and dial soap helps cut that more than half and prevents too much being made. I really hope this helps 💜 blessed be

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Linda Morotti
California, MD · 6 months ago

There are ways to take care with this condition i think.its kinda,to much for me i would have a doctor do this im sure they do or a dermatologist it's alot for anyone especially my man like nooooo the kitty is right there like yuk embarrassing

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Pauline Diggs
Chesapeake, VA · 6 months ago

Lots of people have HS and yes it's very painful. Doctors really don't know that much about it, I pray that they can do more studies to get the right meds. to fight it. It's horrible and painful.

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vermell arriaga
Greensboro, NC · 6 months ago

thank you for taking the time to explain because I had no and I mean absolutely no idea what it was and what he was doin down there. so thank you for enlightening me

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Tynisha Jordan
Bakersfield, CA · 6 months ago

I see a lot of hate comments but I see here sharing awareness and that her husband is sticking by her side no matter what that's real true love God bless both of them

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viola nelson
Minneapolis, MN · 6 months ago

it's nice to have someone to help you with them because I'm 65 and I've been having them since I was 16 years old and my daughter inhered it after me and those things are so terrible and nobody knows the pain we be in when they come thanks to that I found a dermatologist that gave me something to use when they first start coming up to rub on them to make them go back down and you don't have that much pain I wish you the best with this and it don't go no further than there because I have them all over my stomach I've had them on my back I've had them in my face I've had some under my arms and on my breast I've had so many surgeries to have some of them removed God bless you and people on here saying things please be respectable because if you never had it never know when someone is going to be mindful because please believe me we be uncomfortable when they come on us just pray that he gets better for her I pray everyday for me and my daughter

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James
Orange Park, FL · 6 months ago

My wife has had this.Its not an STD but it is sore.The places it comes up on can be very hard 2 reach so I would help my wife it is really tender & sore my wife said

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Joy Samples
Las Animas, CO · 6 months ago

I have a friend that has HS. it's so painful for her to and yes it is wonderful that you have somebody that does love and supports you.

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Rita Adams
Dallas, TX · 6 months ago

I think it's great that you found someone who understands, but I don't understand why people post. Such private and intimate things

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Justina Tanner
6 months ago

omg ur amazing... first real hs video I've ever seen and it stuck a cord...I'm so happy you have such a great man in your life. 🥰🥰🥰

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D. Skief
Village of Clarkston, MI · 6 months ago

better applied laying on your back legs spread. the extension gives maximum area of "flat surface" to better apply the bandage. 😂

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Branden Webb
Kaysville, UT · 6 months ago

Thank you, I thought it was that I was just dirtier or sweat more while working construction but this makes way more sense...

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Victor Rivera
Brooklyn, NY · 6 months ago

Where I used to work, there was a woman that suffered from that illness! And when those things burst! the smell was bad!😳

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Andrew Mitchell
San Antonio, TX · 6 months ago

Why do people put crap like this on social media we know he loves you the world don’t have to know!!God Bless

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Girlii Rice
Knoxville, TN · 6 months ago

No disease just bacteria,.. I haven’t had a boil in over 15 yrs. Since I stopped having unprotected sex

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Tivette Smith
New Haven, CT · 6 months ago

i used to get it in my armpits i got surgury and havent seen them in years i pray u feel better

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Ennis Millender
Moss Point, MS · 6 months ago

I'm confused..what is HS? I ask because an 83 yo cousin of mine shared with ne an outbreak of clear blisters that he had developed on his upper inner thigh, that as they burst they continue to multiply. The doctors dont what it is and are running tests...is this the same as what I'm seeing here? please advise asap...

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Will
6 months ago

my girl has dis and hates her body it upsets me she feels like that but I still love her!

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Callie Duval
Warner Robins, GA · 6 months ago

you thought this was OK to post gheez no shame we don't need to know everything yuck

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Janice CRAWFORD Thompson
District Heights, MD · 6 months ago

why do people put everything on social media isn't there any privacy anymore

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Joseph Genrich
Indianapolis, IN · 5 months ago

he helps your herpes ?? he give it to you or other eay around ?.

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Alston Holder
Hauppauge, NY · 6 months ago

difference between men and boys.......kudos sir my respect to you

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Danielle Hucko
Sheffield, TX · 6 months ago

I have it , and I love my husband he understands and I'm stage 4

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Nikki0507
6 months ago

Me too girl. An ex called them disgusting. Now my husband helps.

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Quentanetia Cannon
Detroit, MI · 6 months ago

I know how you feel I've been dealing with this my whole life

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momma K
Tucson, AZ · 6 months ago

HS is very painful . especially on your thighs or groin area.

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Loy VanBoxel
McKinney, TX · 6 months ago

My late husband loved me. I was his queen and he was my king

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Reece
Baltimore, MD · 6 months ago

thanks for explaining what HSC is cuz I really did not know

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Sky Walker
Suitland, MD · 6 months ago

Good Men are hard to find you get one you better keep him

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Janessa Cooper
6 months ago

I have HS as well and it's very difficult to live with.

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Reece
Baltimore, MD · 6 months ago

thanks for explaining what HS is cause I didn't know

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Mine
Boca Raton, FL · 6 months ago

when you love someone you'll do anything for them.

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Carol CJD T
Biloxi, MS · 6 months ago

He's one great husband for helping many would not

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Patricia Rodriguez
Houston, TX · 6 months ago

its so horrible. And sad for they suffer so much

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Kathy Ford
Huntsville, AL · 4 months ago

💯💯💯💯💞💞💞💞💞💞

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The Woman
Minneapolis, MN · 4 months ago

HS can be very debilitating. There is a great doctor at UofM Fairview on fulton St in Minneapolis that has done wonders. She started at Mayo Clinic with the infusions, but after about 2 years, her body seemed to not accept the treatment. Then, she was told by someone to try that clinic. He told her she had 3 different types of HS. 6 months later, She is moving like it was all a nightmare and she woke now.

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Kenneth Cooney
Daly City, CA · 4 months ago

he's in your corner when you are in pain he would do what it takes to help you fix the problem good luck😳😳😳

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Lau Harris
Pensacola, FL · 4 months ago

if u can't do that for each other why are u together. Two becoming One.

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Angela Hobbs
High Point, NC · 5 months ago

Ummm....I know ur grateful but this should be you guys "personal" business!! We dnt need to see that.

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Koko Busby
Anaheim, CA · 5 months ago

I appreciate you explaining because I wasn't sure what Hs meant thanks I appreciate you and way to go real love ❤️

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Michele
5 months ago

Good hubby

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Teresa B VB
Pittsfield, MA · 5 months ago

People post the damnedest things these days.

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Gabreal Ann
London, OH · 5 months ago

see I'm not the only one🥰 that is so sweet that's what you call helping prepare the entryway for the outer way for the baby keep it nice clean so you can have nice pictures if you do that detailed pictures like I did like everything coming out

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FancyNancy
Mobile, AL · 5 months ago

Omg! I'm so damn happy for you 💓

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Thomas Carey
East Durham, NY · 5 months ago

oh shit I thought HS meant Hairy Snatch😂😭

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Keely Payne davis
Washington, DC · 5 months ago

some people might not catch the hs,, doesn't mean they don't resd

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Michael Spencer
Cleveland, OH · 5 months ago

Ugh that seems so personal 😳

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Dawn Moebus
Bronx, NY · 5 months ago

This woman has a great man beside her she is one of the lucky woman .God bless her ,and her husband 🙏 ❤️

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Steve Lewis
Rochester, NY · 5 months ago

helping ONE and another 🥰

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Timmessia Pace
Memphis, TN · 5 months ago

stop eating pork 🤢 and put a lil apple cider vinegar in ur water bottle with honey and squeeze a lemon 🍋 this helps

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Tracy Harris
Murfreesboro, NC · 5 months ago

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Blackbeauty
Memphis, TN · 5 months ago

Detox 3 to 6 months…no meat

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Melanie Butz
New Orleans, LA · 5 months ago

I'm so happy you found someone who WANTS to help my boyfriend just asks a lot of questions and it feels judgy

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Francis Hall
Baltimore, MD · 5 months ago

that's what's up

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