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Zuri Jones
Philadelphia, PA · 8 months ago
HOT

the young lady learned a valuable lesson laziness gets you dumped

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Jeremy Williams
Goldsboro, NC · 8 months ago
HOT

she wanted to win that argument so bad she talked her way right out of the relationship. He needed to hear her being accountable.

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Phresh Williams
Milwaukee, WI · 5 months ago

I love how he broke it down to her like a gentleman she can't say noting. great job sir

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Shannon Mann
Washington, DC · 5 months ago

I think this went over a lot of your head it’s not about her doing the dishes is the principal if I’m putting in all this work to satisfy your family, I shouldn’t have to ask you to do nothing especially if we a team And when I speak my mind, I shouldn’t feel like I’m bout to be misunderstood because she misunderstood everything. This man said that’s exactly why she got dumped.

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Sherri Mchenry
Mesquite, TX · 8 months ago

she should have been right there with him getting shit together for HER family ain't no way he should have done that alone plus do the dishes GTFOH...ion play that my man don't have to do shit unless he wants to

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Davita Thompson
Euclid, OH · 8 months ago

He has poor communication skills so move along.

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Levinda Grimes
Brooklyn, NY · 7 months ago

WOW! He shut her down real quick. 😭

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Lyndon Johnson
4 months ago

She’s just lazy and think he’s her slave and ATM

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edward harris
Sugar Land, TX · 4 months ago

Yes sirrrrrrr

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Carlmelo Johnson
Louisville, KY · 5 months ago

👀 a text crazy 🤧 wat da text say 🤔

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David Jackson
Oakland, CA · 8 months ago

he giving up to fast,got the pussy cat, now he out 😳😳🥺

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Joseph Arredondo
San Antonio, TX · 4 months ago

end it now before kids are involved, when I person is selfish and entitled, they will never change and when things get rough....they gone for greener pasters...sad but true😳

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DadeCoDirty
Opa Locka, FL · 4 months ago

When ladies come to realize there are ladies who have the same holes, life gets better instantly

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Tonya Mitchell
Austin, TX · 4 months ago

He shouldn't have had to tell her ignorant ass any of that!

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J Porter
Lawrenceburg, KY · 4 months ago

Go ahead leave that man alone and get u a good f boy!

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Regula Guy
Phoenix, AZ · 5 months ago

That's the best breakup speech I've ever heard.

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Dirty Harry
Wilson, NC · 5 months ago

he is absolutely right leave now bruh

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Carol Muhammad
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

damn he let you know

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De$hon
Denver, CO · 5 months ago

🫡❕️👀

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Candence Cotton
Milwaukee, WI · 5 months ago

🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Fatima Curry
Columbus, OH · 5 months ago

❤️

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Patricia West
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

He's Right look at her and tell she's not wife material

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Vanessa Hassell
Virginia, NE · 6 months ago

His eyes are open, to her n now y'all can go your separate ways.

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Thomas Cook
Forest Park, GA · 6 months ago

well at least he is being truthful and honest with her 😳

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Denito Moore
Charlotte, NC · 6 months ago

wow least he was being honest

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Mona Klugh
Greenville, SC · 6 months ago

💜💜💜💜💜👌

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Tania Prosser
Seven Springs, NC · 5 months ago

I used to do everything before my heart failure and now my husband has fits because I can't be that same person. he doesn't make any effort accept to heat up my dinner for me. I have to beg him to clean up his personal items. im not lazy but im sick of him not loving himself enough to not make it harder on me as he intentionally drops his socks on the floor when a laundry basket is right there.

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Maria Harris
Savannah, GA · 5 months ago

what she should have taken from that is it should be in a woman's nature is cleaniness we learn this from growing up chores prepare us for self and when you get involved with a man some women be very offended when the business of keeping a house unkept no man should have to tell a woman about her duties if they were having company over the house should have been clean grocery list completed and she could have even started the meal

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Evelyn Cruz
Queens, NY · 5 months ago

Actually, it's not because of the dishes or cleaning or doing it's because that is who is as aan and she is who she is and amyman that can be honest to a woman and tell her that he feels that he is not the one is the kind ofan I respect. instead of cheating and mentally abusive he was clear concise and honest yes that may hurt but at least it is not at the expense of betrayal and watsed time

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Catherine Mcglaston
Milwaukee, WI · 5 months ago

I am an older woman I read a lot of readers opinions. What we don't know is how long you two have been together. most men I knew considered setting up grill and grilling the mens part of barbequing. But his complaints is not about that he did you a favor by moving on now not wasting any more of your life. Be happy you will find Mister Right

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mdotcom88
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

it's not laziness people become use to things. in this video they both failed because he let something bother him without speaking to the other person. no one reads minds speak. but life together should be like being in a team or a well oiled work crew I suppose for you to succeed. and if you ever worked in a crew you know it doesn't happen automatically, roles will be assigned and a good crew is good cause everyone does their part and you don't have to worry about constantly pulling the slack, but if you do atleast you know it's planned and it won't be indefinitely

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Carol Alvarado
Worcester, MA · 5 months ago

OMG a real man there are some men who don't do none of that even communicate with there loved ones so appreciate him doing what he did

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Edgar Johnson
Los Angeles, LA · 5 months ago

Time to Bounce !!! She doesn't understand PARTNERSHIP , HE Cooked for ur entire family and not even a thank you or helping out ! BYE

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J Jones
Tyler, TX · 5 months ago

he just don't like yall. he like you he don't like them. HE WILL DO IT FOR ANOTHER WOMAN HE LOVES MORE THAN YOU.

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Eric Tucker
San Bernardino, CA · 5 months ago

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 That mouth will get you in trouble. Learn to humble yourself.

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Mythslayer
5 months ago

that's right there is what it's all about folks😁😁

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terry harris
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

you look at the look on her face at the end😂

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Niece 620
West Babylon, NY · 5 months ago

Hell I got it how come she didn't SMDH...

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Tom Estrada
5 months ago

I ❤️ this man's way of thinking!.

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Jesse Stephens
Lawrenceville, GA · 5 months ago

yeah no she's lazy and entitled

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KonaBoy86
Shafter, CA · 5 months ago

He's fed up with it. .

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Steven Edwards
Lorain, OH · 5 months ago

standing ovation

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Helen Owens
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

She look LAZY.

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Kaimo Dior Da Bo$$
Duson, LA · 5 months ago

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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Michael Gillette
Detroit, MI · 6 months ago

he was so respectful lol

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Doris Frye
Paris, KY · 6 months ago

you don't need her

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Rhonda Hockman
Eaton, OH · 8 months ago

she is ungreatful. 🥰

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Omg Bigfnb
Columbus, OH · 6 months ago

Nothing she said was relevant to what he said, he meant to say he would clean the dishes no matter what, if she did them or not.. He still going to do it because it's a mutual thing... Totally like how she spazzed over a conversation about dishes though... Arguing over anything and everything is toxic alone. 😁

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Lee Bennett
Columbus, OH · 6 months ago

And That is called the Art of the Response We have to teach our tongues to sit still and let our minds work out the most logical and MOST HONEST Answer using Patience as well, the more you practice this the less you React to others Narcissistic BS that they be lost in as they are probably just trying to justify they're Darkness in the world which is the natural home to Confusion. This is a man of high caliber and self restraint. Way to Go, You know you deserve better and GOD rewards those who put TRUTH first and Promote Peace where they can without letting others run them over

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