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Debra Bond
Jackson, TN · 7 months ago
HOT

And white man will hurry up and hold the door for a black woman, that has been my experience

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Kimberly Charles
Wilmington, DE · 7 months ago
HOT

because he hates the skin he's in.

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Bo Myers
Phoenix, AZ · 5 months ago

thank you for putting that out there because you right we as black men should not just treat our women with respect and dignity but all women with that same energy an yes we need to do better a lot more better

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Ebony Stacey
Peoria, IL · 7 months ago

we've been wondering for centuries luv

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Kathleen Marable
Wallingford, CT · 7 months ago

I, being a Black Woman, don't understand this behavior either. I've said this before; it's hurtful. Do these men feel this behavior is to prove something to us? Well, no!! It only shows that there is something psychologically missing from these men. They have a poor self image.♥️🌹

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Iloveapplepie
Buena Ventura Lakes, FL · 7 months ago

she wants to be a black woman so bad 😭

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tara bracey
Baltimore, MD · 7 months ago

self hate they haven't dealt with

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Carrie Wuw Power
East Hartford, CT · 6 months ago

stay with me I want everybody to see it what a man mine is. he's going to hold the door for children women even men. because that's a real man with values and morals.

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Greg Crider
Cleveland, GA · 5 months ago

White men do it, too. If you minded your own business, you wouldn't have to worry about everyone else's.

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lastinline
Salt Lake City, UT · 4 months ago

I open the door for anyone

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Daniel Arrington
Philadelphia, PA · 4 months ago

Well as a black man who has dated all types of women.....the best I can come up with is those men has probably been thru so much with the black women that they hold resentment towards all instead of whom they dealt with

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Kenzleigh Kay
Mesquite, TX · 7 months ago

🤨 well let me tell you to pause real quick, why is it that every white woman that's married rather any kind of race they're with why do you poison your man's food why do y'all kill them for insurance money I wait?

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Jason Williams
Plymouth Meeting, PA · 6 months ago

That’s bull I have a white wife and treat all women the same

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Anthony “1/2Man 1/2Amazing” Heyward, Jr.
Hawthorne, NY · 4 months ago

he's probably been disrespected by black women in the dating scene. It happens, just keep it moving

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TIFFANYZ SHIIDD 2
Nashville, TN · 3 months ago

talk yo shiiiiddd 💯

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Baddie
Memphis, TN · 3 months ago

RESPECTED RESPECTED RESPECTED 💯

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Michael Rice
Milledgeville, GA · 4 months ago

I date white women and never even thought about treating a black woman like that. I love women. And I love to treat women with respect. Everyone deserves respect. I don't know why you are seeing disrespectful men doing that. I love black women too. My mom raised me to respect everyone

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Izaiah Groves
Pittsburgh, PA · a month ago

Everyone should treat everyone good…we all struggle

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Izaiah Groves
Pittsburgh, PA · a month ago

Preach

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Gina Canedo
North Attleborough, MA · 5 months ago

You go girl. One hundred percent the truth.

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Montae Henderson
Santa Clarita, CA · 5 months ago

Facts

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gospel music Brooks-yates
Romeoville, IL · 5 months ago

THANK YOU FOR CALLING HIM OUT RATHER BLACK OR WHITE WOMEN ARE WOMEN RESPECT IS RESPECT ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Wilma Warner
New Orleans, LA · 4 months ago

so true! some talks about us bad. but they be forgetting about their mom's and sister being black.

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Harriet Arnold
Greenville, SC · 5 months ago

God bless you you are one in it in a million that feels that way,

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Desiree Sistrunk
Pennsville, NJ · 5 months ago

He doesn't love himself 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

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ring ring
Corinth, MS · 5 months ago

i agree with you

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Mary Martin
Cincinnati, OH · 5 months ago

facts

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Michelle Johnson
Washington, DC · 5 months ago

PREACH

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Jim Clarke
Forest City, NC · 4 months ago

now, I try and be honest. then and now we are forced by manners and good parenting to give a false narrative to not hurt feelings or make others feel hurt. but, in this case strangely I think the short hair or shaved head doesn't matter. the beautiful eyes and confidence she shows just speaking surprised me. I hope she knows that she is just beautiful. I know looks can't really encapsulate the person but when knowing her only through video she is just a pretty woman. no offense to your partner whomever they may be but she just seems to be a keeper. white, black, brown, or any other kaleidoscope of people today

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Natasha Brown
Sacramento, CA · 4 months ago

That happened to me before. I didn't understand it either. But my feelings were hurt, when I thought about it

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Kory Brown
Tacoma, WA · 4 months ago

it's definitely a low self esteem issue within himself no other reason than that

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Duane Clemons
Lansing, MI · 4 months ago

you have a right to be pissed off cuz I would have been pissed off to see it too

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Thomas Cook
Forest Park, GA · 4 months ago

preach girl preach and say one more time for the people in the back 😳😁

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Tommie Hanson
Las Cruces, NM · 4 months ago

I experience that too. why be rude and disrespectful to me??

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Carmen Delgado
Savannah, GA · 4 months ago

Shows how he treats his mother or sisters

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Barbara Taylor
Gary, IN · 4 months ago

she telling the truth 😠

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Rhonda Stokes
New York City, NY · 4 months ago

Facts

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Nicole Thomas
Erie, PA · 4 months ago

Ty🥰🥰🥰

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Lynda Ragsdale
Lawton, OK · 4 months ago

Amen

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Maria Allen
Plainfield, NJ · 2 months ago

Let's talk about it...bc i ask the same question. Just bc you decide to date other ethnicities doesn't mean you treat your own kind like crap and be disrespectful 🗣‼️‼️‼️‼️

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Niabrown Brown
Ludowici, GA · 2 months ago

U sound like you are always around Blk ppl...your slane of words come out like your Blk. I LIKE IT 😊🫶🏾 AND UR ABSOLUTELY CORRECT ABOUT RESPECTING THE BLK WOMAN...CAUSE EVERYONE IS MADE FROM ONE1...NO MATTER THE COLOR U R TODAY.🥰

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Strike Vyyper
Graham, NC · 2 months ago

i hold the door for any woman, cause that's how I was raised...not about race, it's about courtesy and upbringing....

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black people
2 months ago

part truth just don't say outside your race !! cause we all are one race human race

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Donte Jennings
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

My aunt is married to a white man he doesn't do what she saying but thats who he is

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Eddie Jackson
St. Louis, MO · 2 months ago

A Woman is a Woman and should be treated as such!!! Much respect

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Tsedkeyah Pittman
Chicago, IL · 2 months ago

To prove something to the white woman, wife girlfriend, whatever

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Tyhesia Sharp
Williamstown, NJ · 2 months ago

Thank you and we really don’t care y’all can have them type

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George Graham
Scranton, PA · 2 months ago

girl go to sleep you look tired

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Dollface Barbie
Houston, TX · 2 months ago

Facts spppppeak the truth

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Allen Richardson
Terre Haute, IN · a month ago

I haven’t seen it sorry never will I disrespect a woman period

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Chan
Indianapolis, IN · 2 months ago

preach 😍😍😍😍

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Aishia Landers
Syracuse, NY · 2 months ago

Thank you sister 🫵🏽🙌🏾💯

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CumPlay 🫦
Raeford, NC · 2 months ago

I don’t believe u !!!! Ppl just don’t do that

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Van
Chesapeake, VA · 2 months ago

it's really not all men. my momma raised me better than that

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Edward Henderson
St Louis, MO · 2 months ago

All women of every color should be treated with honor and dignity

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Dewitt George
Sanford, NC · 2 months ago

I hold the door for anyone, it's just a small kind gesture to my fellow human being.

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Orlando Thomas
Rock Hill, SC · 2 months ago

because they treated us like shit when we was with them

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Aven Monaghan
Des Moines, IA · 2 months ago

ion do ts gng

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