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Angela Bandy
Cleveland, OH · 9 months ago

Why not? Men do it "ALL THE TIME" mind ur business that's all

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Brenda Richardson
Atlanta, GA · a year ago

As a nurse. I stayed at my girlfriend house her first night home after surgery. My man understood as she had been there for me as I recuperated from a past surgery. We were secure enough for a 12 hour absence.

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Tasta Cherry
Duluth, GA · a year ago

Yes she can. A man is not a husband.

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Kay
Phoenix, AZ · a year ago

I UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE'S SAYING BUT WHAT U HAVE TO REALIZE IS THAT THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND IS DIFFERENT FROM THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MAN... THERE ARE TIMES WHEN A WOMAN JUST WANTS GIRL TIME WITH OUT MALES BEING INVOLVE....I BELIEVE IN SPACE I DON'T HAVE 2 BE UP UNDER MY MAN ALL THE TIME.. AS LONG AS HE KNOWS WHERE IM AT IN CASE HE NEEDS TO PULL UP AND THAT IM OK..IS WHAT MATTERS... ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER

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Swan Raymond
Houston, TX · a year ago

Say it louder for the stupid heffas in the back! 👍🙏

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miss means
Brooklyn, NY · a year ago

If I got a man at home, why would I even want to stay over at my friend's house??? Ain't nothing like curling up under you man at night

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mistracy39
Rosemead, CA · a year ago

You're gonna come home one day a find another woman in your bed .. Take care of your man and don't take him for granted

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BRATZ LIFE
Muskegon, MI · 10 months ago

adults having sleepovers naw that's thot activity

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Anthony Clark
Sherwood, AR · 10 months ago

there's a lot of single and about to be single women in these comments

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lydia
10 months ago

Stupid women would ask why she can’t do stuff like that.

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Hova powell
6 months ago

Preach

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Teresa Wyatt
Fort Worth, TX · 7 months ago

Message to my friend “ Hold on,stay strong. I’ll see you in the morning”.

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The1MostLikely!
Castro Valley, CA · a year ago

Cause they DON’T know about respect!!

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Starr
Elyria, OH · a year ago

She is on point baby, Why when you have a man at home that can hold you caress you kiss you on the forehead, love me yea I'm going home...

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dojo
Pompano Beach, FL · a year ago

I had one that pulled that on me, when she came back, I immediately showed her where to pick up her belongings. She thought it was a joke until I had her escorted off of my property. I didn't want to hear none of the " I'm sorry, It won't happen again ." Just go. The peace is priceless.

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Frankie Mack
Charlotte, NC · 7 months ago

Society as people all confused! If I have a man at home, there is no reason for me as a grown woman to spend the night with a friend. If that's the case, stay single and you can stay the night with whoever you want. It says that as a child, you do child like/childish things. But as an adult, you put childish things/behavior behind you!👍🤔

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Von Carr
Houston, TX · 9 months ago

Dam they stupid. it takes a older woman to teach them something they should already know

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T Tarver
Albuquerque, NM · 9 months ago

I like her, true talk.....

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Adam
Ballston Spa, NY · 10 months ago

Thats Ho behavior

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Brownderby 134
Jersey City, NJ · 7 months ago

Because she wants to sleep with him. That’s the only reason why she wants to go stay out all night with him.

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Lisa
Detroit, MI · 7 months ago

she's right 👍 if you have a husband at home 🏡

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andre
Los Angeles, CA · 7 months ago

Men NEVER do nothing like that that's weird

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Georgia Forrest
Swissvale, PA · 7 months ago

right

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Yvette Taylor
9 months ago

Teach m.

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Alicia Thompkins
Rochester, NY · 8 months ago

💯💯💯💯

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Gale Green
New York, NY · 10 months ago

and you got a whole man at home

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Brenda Wylie
Aurora, CO · 10 months ago

Man man man man act like one

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William Gravely
Roanoke, VA · 10 months ago

true 👍

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Marcus Coston
Annapolis, MD · 10 months ago

💯💯💯💯💯

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Eric Hayeos
New York, NY · a year ago

immaturity still Yung in mind

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Bethany Rash
Decatur, MS · 10 months ago

honestly I'd rather be layed up with my man watching movies then to be out with females... I don't need any female friends bc all they do is cause drama... I'll take cuddled up with my man for 500 Alex

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Arnold Morales
10 months ago

That’s right my mother always told me when you were in a relationship a serious relationship or if you’re already married and committed to each other they ain’t no such thing as no damn friends I mean you can have friends. It’s just not like that because there’s friends and then they’re friends. You just gotta know how to separate the good ones. The ones you can trust with the bad ones the ones you can’t trust but for the most part, you’re in it for the long run so enjoy each other love each other respect each other so that your relationship can be a beautiful example to others starting out or going in. God bless everyone.

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Tealstrong
10 months ago

truth

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Jerry Butler
9 months ago

Again old school.mom telling it likr it is. its really common sense. how would she like it if he came home and said he was spending the night out. would that be ok?

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Howard Hills
Sacramento, CA · 8 months ago

Sleep that's the part that they don't get when you got dude you can't go and spend the night at at another guy house in another city like mine did the other night claiming that she's gonna go see a car , please

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Dugguh
Moraine, OH · 10 months ago

this happens more than you know...it's a personal sexual encounter with her female friend or with a male work husband or a 3sum...this hidden hunger for more sexual fun in her over sexualized life...

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Willie Taylor
Clinton, SC · 9 months ago

Amen what you going to do when he with his friend come home crazy and crying 😂😂😂😂😂

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ΞŁ BANKO
Stafford, VA · 8 months ago

she's from the generation when they made real women who were worth marrying

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brolly 247
Union City, CA · 9 months ago

straight up cuz why you want to lay next to somebody else in the first place

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Teresa Wyatt
Fort Worth, TX · 7 months ago

I know you’re my girl for life, but I promise my husband a lifetime.

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Sharee Long
Chicago, IL · 9 months ago

Say that momma. You trying to keep him or not

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Jahman Washington
Houston, TX · 9 months ago

Women be the reason why women are single 😂😂😂

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pro me
Orlando, FL · 8 months ago

Man, what happened to these type of women?

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Valerie Mars
Muscle Shoals, AL · 10 months ago

EXACTLY ❤️ 💯 if you have a MAN, there's no spending the night with friends!! 😆

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Tim Wilmer
Charleston, WV · 9 months ago

missing father in her life.

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Darin Keith
Coalinga, CA · 9 months ago

because they messing around

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T Tarver
Albuquerque, NM · 9 months ago

I like her, Tru Talk .

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Lisa Tartt
Elizabethtown, KY · 7 months ago

It’s called respect

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Deuce
High Point, NC · 6 months ago

Women of today!!! Weird as hell!!!

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Jameela Ferguson
Miami, FL · 6 months ago

K

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BMWSAABBLACK2012
Decatur, GA · 6 months ago

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

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Yolanda McCollough
Baltimore, MD · 6 months ago

Man do it all the time and then get upset when the shoe 👞 on the other foot

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BlackLionKing
Charlotte, NC · 6 months ago

A friend 😆😆 yeah some other man

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Burl Harper
Lansing, IL · 6 months ago

WISDOM!!!!💯

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Hova powell
6 months ago

Young

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Willie nichols
6 months ago

that is sister right here is preaching the gospel tell these young people that just ain't the right thing to do it's cause it's conflict couldn't get even worse you never know what a person is going through if you don't want to be in a relationship just leave I'm sure he would be hurt but a real man was just accepted except the hurt and one day he'll wake up it's going to all be gone be back fresh again me and himself that is pride back it's all it takes been there done that !!!

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Khali Rico
Merced, CA · 6 months ago

do you know how many people wish they had someone at home so they wouldn't have to go out worry about her face all the issues in the dating pool do you understand that and you know the fact of the matter is you want to go spend the night with your friend and you do have a man at home you must will tell the man at home that you no longer want to represent him and then going about your business and let him go on about his business because that's not fair for you to have him and then you want to step outside of that you pick that you pick that man and now you want to step out on them I wish that would somebody about to get hurt

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Vincent Miller
Philadelphia, PA · 7 months ago

facts my bro can't get me to stay at his house overnight when I have a whole women at home not acceptable

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Dayle Crayton
Chattanooga, TN · 7 months ago

facts

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prodigalson
Orlando, FL · 7 months ago

Sounds like he has a little girl..

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Mike Jones
Fort Worth, TX · 7 months ago

she click bumpers

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