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Savanah Tiemann
Richmond, IN · 7 months ago

well then mine must be cheating, cause its been months

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ShaNitra Gray
Denton, TX · 5 months ago

Um never!!!! We going 24hrs if I can help it. He gone need that lil blue pill some Addie, all of that!!!!

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Kisha A. Jones
Milwaukee, WI · 6 months ago

when u start questioning it, then its been too long..no bs😳😳

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James Hairston
Birmingham, AL · 5 months ago

if more than 3days go past and y'all live together and nobody hunching it's a problem 🤷🏾

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DeAnna Dawn Mullins
Knoxville, TN · 10 months ago

I have a legit reason...my man is in prison...🥺

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Cbrown Brown
Indianapolis, IN · 5 months ago

Exactly 💯✌🏿🔥

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Youseeit
Gainesville, TX · 8 months ago

3 maybe 4 days but me every day if I can

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Kevin
Charlotte, NC · 5 months ago

some man can't go a good week with no sex Kevin blye from pawleys Island SC

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Calvin Goodman
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

hit me up shorty.

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Ali Stewart
Detroit, MI · 5 months ago

2 days

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Christopher Barton
Baton Rouge, LA · 5 months ago

yeah

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Necole Bing
Punta Gorda, FL · 5 months ago

Depends on the situation talking disrespectful is one,crossing boundaries is two,taking accountability for their actions and being undermined for our reaction gone on keep hurting you in the same matter so NO SEX IS NOT HOW YOU APOLOGIZE IN REAL LIFE

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GA. Boys dont play
Dublin, GA · 10 months ago

you beautiful ❤️❤️ just need some brace's 🥰

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Jay Matthews
Abilene, TX · 6 months ago

that's wtf I'm talking about!!!

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Moniek55
Belle Glade, FL · 9 months ago

When I had this problem with my baby father I found out someone else was feeding the dog

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Russell SMITH
Philadelphia, PA · 10 months ago

an unnecessary nasty attitude will kill a mood and attraction😅😅

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marcus walker
Rochester, NY · 6 months ago

😳😳😳😳😳If you gotta ask how long is TOO long, it's already been TOO LONG!!💯

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stretch
Minneapolis, MN · 6 months ago

if u live together once a day if not... shit whenever u can 😂

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Rick Pach
Orlando, FL · 6 months ago

Facts. I'm a man that I understand that women are emotional and alot of times they don't "feel" in the mood but, the truth is that married or dating couples should have minimum 2 times a week. There's no excuse for no doing so. Unless if she has her red friend visit, then that's totally understandable. But making excuses like I'm tired or I have a headache, etc.. It's just saying I don't desire you, among other things.

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Tavares Legette
Charlotte, NC · 7 months ago

u got 3 days after that we roommates. After 7. Days we broke up. Two weeks I want a divorce

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Daniel Weber
Charlotte, NC · 6 months ago

id say more than 3-5 days is pushing it. I want that kitty every night if not multiple times a day. 100

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SirBrian Gibbs
Newnan, GA · 6 months ago

Shiiiid 2 days play sleep u want slime gone slide in an wake some functions up. Like to see your heels on the ground then. More like you can't feel your legs 🦵 😆😆😆

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Steven Boswell
New York City, NY · 6 months ago

40yrs married, have 5 kids all grown, my wife and I are empty nesters, at 54 we almost had 3 more. Then 1yr later almost had 2 more,I got the procedure, train comes with no passengers

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Randy
New York City, NY · 7 months ago

I love to have sex all the time love and I don't care were I am at let's get it on love 👅yummy baby so sweet

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Clenard Simmons
New York City, NY · 7 months ago

their is no in the world my wife would be on here like this especially for this reason absolutely not😭😭😭

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Keke Muah Booski
Bamberg, SC · 6 months ago

not even 7 honey...2 days and u dont atleast try..u tripping...shoot looka me man no

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Dewayne Winsle
Sacramento, CA · 7 months ago

so I sayed cool is all good I'm not going to ask her for sex no more I'm do me.

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Tanya Gray
Columbia, SC · 7 months ago

I ain't going a day without it, and he better be ready all the time

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Jack Luck
Dayton, TN · 7 months ago

yeah usually its men that have this problem

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Alex Nieves
East Hartford, CT · 6 months ago

She surely tastings bacon chat...😳

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jhon
Ann Arbor, MI · 6 months ago

few days this coming from a man

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RC1045
Columbus, OH · 6 months ago

1 night if u live together.

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Llucii_Goatt
Louisville, KY · 6 months ago

Protect her at all cost

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James Bell
Paris, TX · 5 months ago

is 3 years to long?

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Saerah
Charlotte, NC · 6 months ago

frfr🥰 great wife

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R obert VanWyck
Johnson, NY · 7 months ago

Been 3 months

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hefner28
Virginia Beach, VA · 5 months ago

get braces🤔

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Thomas Cook
Forest Park, GA · 7 months ago

amen 😳😁

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Nick
Lexington, OK · 6 months ago

2 days

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Lisa Mack
Athens, GA · 7 months ago

oh

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Kenny Sawyers
Aberdeen, MD · 10 months ago

nasty attitude and being disrespected kills it for me a couple need good communication skills and to talk it out and being there for each other is big

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Amber Sansaone
New Castle, DE · 7 months ago

ok I want it at least 2 a day...start role playing..meet each. other at a bar or sumthin...Spice that shit ups

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the risk
Los Angeles, CA · 7 months ago

What you mean, minus the Time of the Month?😳 It is Very healthy for a Man 👞♂️ to Keep His 🍒 Red Wings On Point!😋

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Damost Flawless
Gainesville, FL · 6 months ago

2 days is too long. Matter of fact, 1 day is too long. Oh I wouldn't let you breathe. Yet alone wait 7 days.😁

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Mrs Sepulvado
Noble, LA · 7 months ago

im 36 with 5 kids and married for 11, I don't really care about sex at all. Just me, I might get in the mood every once in a blue moon but if it was up to me I wouldn't have sex for maybe idk at least every 3 or 4 months. im over it 🙄 😂😂😂

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jacob murphy
New Orleans, LA · 6 months ago

if u sharing the house bed bills married have kids or just been together long enough 3 days max. unless its that time of the month for ladies. if both working then when u have a off day together 2 times that day in the morning and before bed..

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Maurice Haitian Mac
Fort Lauderdale, FL · 7 months ago

1.. that's 1 day. anything over that is too long

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Darnell Irvin
Detroit, MI · 6 months ago

2mins for me 😂😂😂

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Maurice Petersen
Wilson, NC · 9 months ago

3 day's

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Santiago Diaz
San Bernardino, CA · 6 months ago

Seven days, there must be something wrong with you. or your man.

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