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Troy Binger
Coral Springs, FL · 8 months ago

This guy is so true... 100% agreed

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avonski
8 months ago

a good hearted person has a cut off point, and once they reach that point the user should find their way away from them, quick fast and in a hurry

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Undead Zombie
Callahan, FL · 8 months ago

I used to be that person, but people ruined that.

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Ozella Hightower
Anadarko, OK · 8 months ago

🙏🏼thank you for sharing this message, I am trying to learn to love myself 🙏🏼

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Jennafer Palmer
New York, NY · 7 months ago

I agree with you Bro!

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Paula Starnes
Cape Girardeau, MO · 7 months ago

Amen. U Nail It On The Head.

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Tammy Wood
Gulfport, MS · 8 months ago

it's the truth I'm that person

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Rachel Foley
Bossier City, LA · 8 months ago

blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth

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Lisa Hammond
Fort Worth, TX · 8 months ago

oh my God I couldn't have said it better myself you are so on point

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Betsy West
Sacramento, CA · 8 months ago

That is so True i am she 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Maxine Thompson
Los Angeles, CA · 7 months ago

That is so true,I am always the helper, but where are you when I need somebody

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Kendrah wood
Brooklyn, NY · 8 months ago

ok that's what's going on in my life but I keep on giving. from the heart ❤️ 💙 💜 💖

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Qing
Milwaukee, WI · 5 months ago

Damn that hit home…

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Diana McCall
Houston, TX · 5 months ago

a person with a good heart that there for people don't get know respect from people that help people always love yourself he right and don't do to much

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Kathleen Melay
8 months ago

yup been then you finally wake up and understand your worth so much more 💕

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Linda Mckissick
Philadelphia, PA · 7 months ago

yeah good hearted people get hurt fast and alot cause people treat u like crap they lie they cheat they make u think u crazy when it's them all along cut all ties cause someone can break ur heart but so much

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Prentice James
Shreveport, LA · 7 months ago

That’s so true. But God knows your heart so you must remember that He is in control. So keep believing and living according to His word.

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Leslie Ammons
Southfield, MI · 8 months ago

Thank you for this advice.

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Sheila Milan
Nashville, TN · 8 months ago

AMEN 🙏🏼 But you keep Doing the right thing then in the end you will get yours from the man up above. Never miss out on your blessing.

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Karen Riggs
Waterloo, IA · 8 months ago

Wow, what you just said is me 100%.

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Gerald Carter
8 months ago

amen

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Jacquelyn Simmons
8 months ago

We never get what we give

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Ginger Love
Ashburn, VA · 7 months ago

OMG this person has truly read me and anyone that has been blessed to have a kind heart truly understands this message but he's telling the 100% true and it's sad to say people do think that some of us are stupid because we choose to stay or keep someone around that we love and maybe taking advantage or whatever the case may be but it's not that we just care about them a lot even about their well-being. basically care about the person more than their behavior at times 🙂

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Justo Calderon
Long Beach, CA · 8 months ago

TRUE THAT

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Live,Laugh,Love
Fayetteville, GA · 8 months ago

I have been feeling this for a very long time. I have a great compassionate heart. always giving to people, always helping people and I get nothing in return not even a " thank you" from many of them. I continue to think that they will change, but they don't it is hard for me to believe that most people are this way.

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Peggy Kennerly
Orangeburg, SC · 7 months ago

A good heart, so true. Leave the table. Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏

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Ruth A. Hilleland
Topeka, KS · 7 months ago

so true so freaking true 💕

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Barbara Cummings
Charleston, SC · 8 months ago

PREACH BROTHER 💕

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Lashonti Mciver
Washington, NC · 7 months ago

🙏🏾💎🤷🏾🦄

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Wesley Baker
Chicago, IL · 8 months ago

this is so very true I no this because it's me yes it's diffinetly me an I'm still God's choosing one 🙏 God blessings me Amen

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Theresa
West Palm Beach, FL · 6 months ago

hit me on the nose just being 💯💪💪💪💪

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Sky Davis
Missouri City, TX · 7 months ago

OVERSTOOD!!!💯🖐🏾guilty 🥺

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Lashonti Mciver
Washington, NC · 7 months ago

Say🙏🏾So🦄

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Anna Chiszle
Baton Rouge, LA · 8 months ago

🙏💕

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InViSiBle Me
8 months ago

absolutely me

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Drist Spencer
Hyattsville, MD · 8 months ago

Preach, sir, cause this is how I feel.

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Antoinette
Baltimore, MD · 7 months ago

Amen real talk 💥 💯 💕

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mandy
Weems, VA · 8 months ago

Well Said!!!!

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Kevin Harris
Natchez, MS · 8 months ago

Definitely 💯

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Laura Berrien
St. Clair Shores, MI · 8 months ago

true ! 🙏❤️🙏

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Amen
Kosciusko, MS · 8 months ago

Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Joan Williams
Jacksonville, FL · 8 months ago

so true

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Danielle Lawrence
Chicago, IL · 8 months ago

yes sir

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Itsmyopinion
Dallas, TX · 8 months ago

Tru 🤔💙

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Margaret Means
Rural Hall, NC · 8 months ago

💧amen

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M Ortega
8 months ago

💯💯💯💯

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Sparkles Ray
Fayetteville, NC · 8 months ago

💯👍🏾💕

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Darryl Matkins
East Palo Alto, CA · 8 months ago

Aman

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Garrett Howell
Lumberton, NC · 7 months ago

💯

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Ruthie Woods
Memphis, TN · 5 months ago

l agree 💯 % People take your kindness for granted this young man are telling the truth this is a cruel world 🌎 💔

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Gloria Holloway
Richmond Heights, OH · 5 months ago

So True That's How I Feel 💕🙏

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Jeffrey Glover
Odenville, AL · 5 months ago

amen

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Tell no lies
Carlisle, PA · 5 months ago

Know when to hold,and know when to fold.

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Warren Long
Atlanta, GA · 5 months ago

you are truly truly right

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Robert Turner
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

That's the problem with expectations, I have suffered greatly, I now know my value, I can love them for where they are, not where I expect them to be . I have never felt more at peace with my genuine self

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Melisa “Mel”
Charlotte, NC · 5 months ago

Ace-high heart flush

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Mary Higgins
Durham, NC · 5 months ago

Truth Spoken well said 👍🏼

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Marlyn
Bronx, NY · 5 months ago

I really know 💯

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SayItLouder🤷‍♀️💣
5 months ago

🌸🙏🏼🥰

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Ronald Dumars
Natchitoches, LA · 5 months ago

Amen bro

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Ricardo Orea
Hawthorne, CA · 5 months ago

amen that is so true

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“ShayMa”
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

They never see the bad in people!l 🗣️!! That 💩 got my nephew killed 😢 🙏🏾. A week before he was killed he was in the car with me and I told him “nephew,stop looking for the good in all people because everyone doesn’t have it there so you’ll never see it”. What this man is saying is so true!

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Sandy Winsor
Oro Valley, AZ · 5 months ago

Agree

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Richard McCall
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

sorry but true in the end of bodyself alone

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Michelle Williams
Jackson, MS · 5 months ago

true facts this fits me

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Latasha Birden
Fairmont, WV · 5 months ago

Mann that's me all day everyone tell me and I see it myself

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Shana
5 months ago

He said it all.

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Mary Kay
5 months ago

So true 🙌

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