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William West
Beaver, OK · 6 months ago

Seems like the one that wants the break-up was already seeing someone else in most cases

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Michelle Rocha
Kyle, TX · 7 months ago

No. both go and move on. The "perfect "one doesn't tell.

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Hussell De la Ghetto
7 months ago

disagree best way to get over someone is to get under someone , im not about to sit around and cry because I got dumped

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Breyon Frazier
Columbus, OH · 3 months ago

wow😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

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Leah Estes
5 months ago

say that again so the one it was intended for can hear it! Ricky embry!

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Dmitriy Kirilyuk
4 months ago

the noise ring says it all

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cookiemonster
Lexington, SC · 5 months ago

Gotta move on. Life is very very short. No reason to be unhappy. Go find what makes you happy. Unfortunately in marriage it’s not always the first or second one. If you don’t get butterflies every time you see your mate then go find one that will. That’s what it’s all about

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Arturo Garcia
San Antonio, TX · 5 months ago

that is sooo true .

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Mike Kimbrue
Peoria, AZ · 7 months ago

been there suffered that

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Don Bidwell
Ann Arbor, MI · 6 months ago

exactly

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Timmay Lars
New York City, NY · 7 months ago

incorrect

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Adam
Ballston Spa, NY · 6 months ago

do something about those lashes woman

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Zac Vaughn
Collinsville, OK · 5 months ago

yep actually the one who didn't care is already in a new relationship before the old one ends

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Tron legacy 69
Independence, MO · 6 months ago

yeah I know that's why I will never get married again

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Alex Draper
Valley, NE · 5 months ago

damn she never loved me. oh well how's it going sarah

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Lil Duke
Clovis, NM · 6 months ago

she crazy yoy.can look in them eyes

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Jimmy Lee Holt
Richmond, VA · 5 months ago

whats up with that eye lash.

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Lee
Cayce, SC · 5 months ago

lady you are absolutely true

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Frances O'Sullivan
Homosassa, FL · 5 months ago

Always 😰

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BOOBOO BROWN
6 months ago

But if anyone ever pushes some one so far and the other is so lonely they can't help but to fall for the first thing that gives them positive talks hugs listens

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shoop
Temple, TX · 6 months ago

yes. it's been five years and I've been raising my boys alone and have not pursued a relationship. she on the other hand has been in 3 relationships since. poor dudes lol

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Bev Martinez
Federal Heights, CO · 6 months ago

of course always der!!

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Eric Bennett
Manchester, NH · 6 months ago

yup

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Rudy Avelino
Glendale, AZ · 7 months ago

The one in a new relationship so fast is gonna throw all the drama and stress, and depression on the new one.

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Alex Stone
Cayce, SC · 7 months ago

very true

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Brian Shadden
Minneapolis, MN · 6 months ago

I'm the run to something to immediately make me feel better then struggle with dealing with the emotional damage right after that stops being fun....

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Brilliant minds Production academy “BMPA”
Houston, TX · 6 months ago

I'm sorry it's called moving on you know I mean we're broken up you go your thing I do my thing you go your way I go my way there you go I'm not going to sit there and reflect on oh my goodness it was so good I miss her so much and then and then cry I'm going to move on so it's not about I don't care it's about hey you don't want me I don't want you got to move on it's like this say you went to an ATM machine and it said out of order Just stop going to ATM machines or would you find another one

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The Relax Central
Hartford, CT · 6 months ago

This is not always true. The one that has cause so much damage rather stay single because he is able to do his dirt with no one questioning or asking permission or having to answer questions. I have been with a narcissist

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William Hoffman
6 months ago

nope she had 20 in 3 months 11 years divorced and have not been with no one tired of the drama that comes with a new one happy being by myself peace to all men going through any cheating wife's

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Petronila Casanas
Bourbonnais, IL · 7 months ago

gave him 14yrs he cheated it's been 6yrs he has a whole new life and a kid while my son and I are still picking up the pieces

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Paul Grondin
Warwick, RI · 7 months ago

that is so true I lost mine because I wasn't willing to share her with another man and now she's dating three

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Y2JOE Sr.
Medford, OR · 6 months ago

get therapy, this is a little true but there's more than one reason that men and women do that

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Jhe Babii
Denver, CO · 7 months ago

that's carrying to much on others tho what that got to do with the life you living

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Bridget Oxendine
7 months ago

Ok hear me out. Maybe the ones who stayed single are really the crazy ones. Maybe.

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Tony Scott
Brooklyn, NY · 7 months ago

That's why I stayed single not ever going through that again

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Roland Bishop
Albuquerque, NM · 7 months ago

Ya there off ruining someone else's life

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Carl Roy
Warwick, RI · 7 months ago

Fore your lash girl immediately.

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Barker Dakoda
Mattoon, IL · 6 months ago

this cuts deeper then you know

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da muffin man
Morris, IL · 7 months ago

your eyelash is walking away

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happy me
Shelby, NC · 7 months ago

I guess I'm the loyal one

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Larry Hackleman
Streamwood, IL · 7 months ago

been there done it.

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Michael “Milkwheat” Miller
6 months ago

straight up facts

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Catalina Lopez
The Bronx, NY · 7 months ago

loyal, for who.

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Lala Chenault
Dallas, TX · 7 months ago

Not always.

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buddysmooth
New York City, NY · 7 months ago

true that

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Ali Ali
Marcy, NY · 7 months ago

So true

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Sean Middleton
Jeffersontown, KY · 7 months ago

facts

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