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Ruger Ruler
White Stone, VA · 8 months ago
HOT

1st guy a pimp. 2nd guy a simp

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Just North
Kansas City, MO · a month ago

I dnt blame the first guy if you that irresponsible then you need to replace the money you spent. The 2nd guy it's her idea, her plans and she should be using her money not yours💯

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David Brown
Las Vegas, NV · 3 months ago

Going out and paying rent are 2 different things. A man will easy take you out but ask that same man can he cover $2600 rent won’t be the same talk 😂

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H Evans
Dickinson, ND · a month ago

I don’t know about other situations. My situation I pay the mortgage I let my girl stack her cash. It works for us we have been together 26 years. Ever since high school. If I lost my job my girl would step up until I get back up

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Eddie Crisp
Broken Arrow, OK · a month ago

this man need to get a job 🥺

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Doug Rozyle
Ridgway, PA · 25 days ago

that's a sad azz man, as long as my wife is ok with being away at work I'd be the one working extra hrs ! second bro is the type of MAN we all should be !

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Edward Vallieres
Orlando, FL · a month ago

liberal democrat lazy worthless pos

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Carrie McCarter
Elizabeth, CO · a month ago

1st guy is a loser !!! RUN

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Kid Kris
Rincon, GA · a month ago

the lazy man is the one they cheat on you with while u doin the best you can while they lackin

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Mark Black
Middle Point, OH · a month ago

that's sad that he really said that. I would have left right there on the spot if I didn't have the money to give her and went to find a job.

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Daniel Fox
Portland, OR · a month ago

Not sure what’s lamer, the first guy being a complete puss or the 2nd guy calling his girlfriend bro.

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Michael carver
Paramount, CA · a month ago

guy said he just didn't want to work basically? Did I hear that right ?

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Don Keatik
Dayton, OH · a month ago

Has nothing to do with lazy. The first lady said fuck the budget I'm gonna leech of him cause I'm cute. the second lady said I'm short on some extra cash I wanted but can I spend time with you at home anyways? Totally different. short on bills after making a budget.

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Quincy Allen
Los Angeles, CA · a month ago

If you separated from your husband what would be the thing you would want to take the most? If you even thought about an answer to that give him back his bank card... you're not it. 😂😂😂

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butterball40
Menasha, WI · 2 months ago

so the first man isn't a man because his woman made an agreement and fell through on it (I get it it's staged)?

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Michael
Portsmouth, OH · 2 months ago

what a worthless man

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William Pearson
Piedmont, AL · 2 months ago

wtf

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Billy Anderson
New York City, NY · 2 months ago

wow

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Joseph Woodard
Tulsa, OK · 2 months ago

Who calls a woman bro

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Robert Walker
Lansdale, PA · 2 months ago

sad

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Rebecca Richardson
Hampton, VA · 2 months ago

rubbing on his nose trying to keep it in,lol😂😂😂

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munchies82
Greensburg, PA · 2 months ago

the second guy is REAL 🥰 he's a keeper.

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munchies82
Greensburg, PA · 2 months ago

DROP HIM 🤨

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Aaron Washburn
Newfane, NY · 2 months ago

I will tell people right now do not go by what he said at the end with my money is your money LOL that is completely false. I made that mistake once and I regretted it and then in my last relationship I made that mistake again and I ended up in debt and I'm actually still about $8,000 in debt cuz of "my money being her money", I will never go by that again. I will ask what she wants and get it for her, do not ever give your card to a woman, you buy that shit for her cuz your money is your money and you bust your ass for it

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Jeremy Dougherty
King George, VA · 2 months ago

Liberal vs republican in a nut shell

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The Baron
Lebanon, TN · 2 months ago

a woman made this.

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Mr Keep It A Buck
Merrillville, IN · 3 months ago

Not true. It just depends on the dynamics of the relationship. Most guys have to be involved in 50/50 relationships because they’re unable to afford paying all the bills on their own. If they could, they would 🤷🏿 It’s amazing how women claim to want to be treated as an equal in a relationship… until the bill comes. Then they wanna play the chivalry game. Does she only want equality when it benefits her? Paying rent and paying at a restaurant are two COMPLETELY different things

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Eric Rodriguez
Tampa, FL · 2 months ago

married 32 years my wife and I have never ever either argued about bills money or anything of that nature it's always been us not me not you us we are a team until death do us part richer of a poor. love my wife my best friend entire world.

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Mustard Killer '77
Kingsport, TN · 2 months ago

first is a liberal guaranteed

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Andrew Boyd
Thomson, GA · 2 months ago

the first guy looks like that one kid from liv and Maddie with a beard loll

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Michelle bowman
Detroit, MI · 2 months ago

First guy looser😳😳😳😳😳😳

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Mikkel
Kansas City, MO · 2 months ago

People in relationships calling each other bro is weird af

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Treasure Rivers
Fort Worth, TX · 4 months ago

The first man just gave some woman a dose of their own medicine

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Liz Gillhespy
Newaygo, MI · 2 months ago

that first men needs a reality check. girl quick paying for that man. he doesn't want to go back to work? lol me neither but I have to and he should too to help his women out. that is a disgraceful boy

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Teekay Johnson
Billings, MT · 4 months ago

First video is obviously that chick trying to paint bro in a bad light… they clearly had a financial plan and a budget, she was responsible for rent, he more than likely was covering other expenses (car, utilities, insurance, food etc.), She basically said, I can’t pay rent because I went ham on Christmas shopping… I didn’t stick to OUR budget. He’s obviously on Christmas vacation because he says, you fix, I don’t want to go back to work… after he said, “WE just made budget”. He’s not rewarding selfishness, irresponsibility, and immaturity by positive reinforcement. The 2nd video the girl makes an ass of herself be claiming to want to have paid while being broke just to be met with a laugh followed by “I always pay, when have you EVER paid”… 2 different girls with the same intention, to get a desired emotional reaction by recording their significant others reaction to unpleasant information.

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The Dude
Rochester, NY · 4 months ago

This is the perfect liberal. This is what socialism will bring us. Lazy clueless men who want to live in mommy’s basement. The second guy is a man who loves his girl and knows that’s life. Make more money later live now

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Brandon
Prospect, KY · 3 months ago

There’s a huge difference between paying the rent and going to McDonalds. Even though the 1st guy is a lame for not having a job. But I feel like they had an agreement for her to work instead of staying home and taking care of the kids an house. She knew she couldn’t do what she did but did it anyway and now their family is behind on the rent

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Jacob Phelps
Waxahachie, TX · 2 months ago

Both men are losers

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Joshua
Elma, NY · 3 months ago

Lol, a liberal man vs a conservative man.

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Montez
Athens, TN · 3 months ago

Sexist. the second guy is a real man.Let's show is the first guy. she screwed up she should fix it. i'm sure if I screwed up.My wife would want me to fix it.

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Jackson Klavan
The Bronx, NY · 3 months ago

2nd one a word for word copy of another one i just cant prove it

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River Crick
Oklahoma City, OK · 3 months ago

Leave buddy 😂

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William Sein
Indian Trail, NC · 4 months ago

wow 😮 this Guy is unreal ' a real man gets up every day and provides for his woman and family no matter what ' he gets out there and does whatever it takes regardless ' of course I'm old school but maybe these cats" need a refresher course in how to be a man. peace love and respect always 🙏

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ray palat
Springfield, MO · 3 months ago

niether is a "real man". real men comprimise, adapt to the situations and make sure what will be done leaves a sense of worth for him and her. dont play games here.

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Diane Sprinkles
4 months ago

She needs to send first dude back home to his mama. He shouldn’t have grown man privileges being a little boy. 🤨

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Wendy Smith
Baltimore, MD · 4 months ago

that first guy sure as hell wouldn't be eating my big ass sandwich telling me that he don't want to go back to work. he wouldn't want to be staying in a house with me asking me to do overtime on the weekend because he don't want to go back to work. THERE WOULDN'T BE A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE HE DON'T WANT TO GO BACK TO WORK.

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Jessica Lowe
Huddleston, VA · 3 months ago

Are you serious 🧐 please leave that man that don’t want to help with y’all’s bills that’s crazy because he don’t want to work. Don’t just leave run.

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Jayla henry
San Francisco, CA · 3 months ago

My Bf ..now fiance put me on his bank account and gave me the card ...I've used it literally once for myself to buy some vitamins I needed ...he still puts "My allowance " in that account ...like I dnt have a good job My darn self ....I just take it and save it or invest it ...he puts certain amount each pay period and I match it ...use the funds for vacation or family emergencies

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Madison Enriquez
Anderson, SC · 3 months ago

I’m so happy to have someone like the second guy. The first guy has his faults yes but there are plenty of women who do the same thing.

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ha voc
Copperas Cove, TX · 3 months ago

I’m a team kinda guy!! I will bust my rear end working and give it my all but if she isn’t matching my energy then we have a problem!!

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