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Niki Niki
Los Angeles, CA · 3 months ago
HOT

GIIIIIIRRRRRRRRRLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!! This triggered my PTSD! Let it go now it only gets worse it will

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Christine Allen
Greenville, SC · 3 months ago
HOT

leave him

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Jennifer Watkins
Los Angeles, CA · 3 months ago

He trying to break you baby. You looking good. Leave him you will be better off later. Hurt now/Better later.

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Ciera Satchell
Johnstown, PA · 2 months ago

You are beautiful queen

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Deborah Blake
Cleveland, OH · 3 months ago

Ur too young to waste urself on him. You will look around in 10 years will have passed full of abuse and beating your beauty along with your confidence. You have the world laid out before you choose this day which path you will follow baby girl u are worth more than you know. Children are sent to save us embrace your motherhood protect your child and love yourself.🙏 for you

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Tonjia singleton
Columbus, GA · 2 months ago

please leave him ...abuse comes in all forms

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MiiMii
Summerville, SC · 2 months ago

this is not normal even after you have 20 babies with him. he doesn't want you to go and he's messing with someone else or trying to. leave and be a good mother to your babies. get to know the next guy better before you have babies!

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Charrah Jones
Miami, FL · 5 days ago

they will never understand what we go through as women especially after having their children. I'm so glad she didn't act childish like him. Baby don't take the abuse

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Mickey Cocks
New York, NY · 4 days ago

this is why most men would rather have a side chick than a wife because it's a side chick doesn't get too comfortable and when she does it's time to find a new one

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Paulette Stegall
Augusta, Georgia · 4 days ago

yea great job bring a poor innocent baby into that hell hole. ever heard of birth control

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Mrs Sepulvado
Noble, LA · 11 hours ago

you beautiful baby. as long as you taking care of your baby and taking a little time for yourself, which he's supposed to help you with that part, taking care of lil one for a few hours so you can decompress. he damn sure not supposed to be demeaning you and making you feel bad about yourself. girl believe it or not a healthy relationship does not look like that. my baby's father to my 4 would never speak to me that way. like I said you gorgeous mama and I pray he realizes that, and stops how he's acting before you decide to get rid of his 🍑 and looses you for good. 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

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Mickey Cocks
New York, NY · 4 days ago

😂😂😂😂😂 Man don't become cruel after you have your baby, You just change after you have a baby because comfortable kick in

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Charrah Jones
Miami, FL · 5 days ago

you are a beautiful woman

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Madam2mom
Sacramento, CA · 5 days ago

Man!!! OMG! This is SO FAMILIAR!! 😢 I’m sorry he treated you this way. I’m almost 50 and I PROMISE you, he will NEVER change!! He is selfish and doesn’t want you to feel worthy of a 20 min shower and enjoying yourselves to get ready. All that hollaring kills all the joy of going out. He doesn’t love you or appreciate you. He is clearly insecure and AFRAID of you looking good to go out!!! He KNOWS you are beautiful after them babies! He knows he is not enough man for you so he has to tear you down! Please make sure you take time for yourself. I bought headphones and stopped speaking to him completely until I Finally got rid of him!!! Then I stopped speaking to him completely and he harassed me and begged me to come back. My cut off game was STRONG!! Stay strong, don’t justify anything you do for yourself, you don’t owe him an explanation at all!! Tell him to leave!! You will be so much happier. I🙌🏽💕

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pepsi4ever89
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

he's a scumbag leave him u deserve someone better and she's not even ugly

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Tony Hawes
Evansville, IN · 8 days ago

The baby💕💕

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Remy Forté
Memphis, TN · 21 days ago

Omgsh that just gave me chills & My PTSD I know how that be I left mines 😭😭im sorry u got to go through that u look amazing nomatter what

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Janelle Talley
Philadelphia, PA · 2 months ago

Sweetie. Boyfriend or not, you have to think of your mental health. He’s not good for you. You need think hard because you may have to make some tough decisions in the immediate future. So sad😞

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Erica Wesley
3 months ago

I don't understand why you young girls tolerate that.

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Linette Dickey
Lakewood, CO · 13 days ago

OMG. I PRAY YOU GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP ASAP. BLESSINGS TO YOU I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD 🙏🙏🙏

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Brenda Joseph
Macon, GA · 5 days ago

GET OUT ASAP. PRAYING FOR YOU.

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Brixx
Lyndhurst, OH · 24 days ago

It’s not worth it honey. Leave and don’t return 🫤

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Danyetta Davis
Charlotte, NC · 9 days ago

Young lady, you need to let this man go

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Fatimah Thompson
Philadelphia, PA · 9 days ago

Girl leave before it’s to late

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Guest
9 days ago

gurl you are beautiful

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Karm Anderson
Springfield, MA · 8 days ago

Sorry have deal this u find someone treat u princess u are

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Mom me now
Bunker Hill, IL · 9 days ago

his has to go, he has a problem. you are beautiful, and he wants you to have low self-esteem. leave as soon as you can .he's a yn .

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Tiffany Crowder
Halifax, VA · 8 days ago

People only do to you what you allow I need you to stand up for yourself immediately he got me mad and I don’t even know you like that

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Sotorya Johnson
New York City, NY · 10 days ago

This dude ain't shit 😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

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Sheronda Simpson
Nashville, TN · 19 days ago

🥺

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Lisa Hodges
Newport News, VA · 8 days ago

You look beautiful !!! Leave his azz alone he don't love you sweetie!! please get out of that relationship

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Angel Sadler
Dallas, NC · 7 days ago

Dang that’s sick to hear. He rude asf

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Flora Louis
Phoenix, AZ · 7 days ago

baby girl run baby run

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Need more Sax
Davenport, FL · 18 days ago

You look beautiful

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Renie L.
Community, VA · 24 days ago

🙏🏼…..honey, you will figure it out. God has you and your babies. This is not how you want to live - being told you been looking like nothing since the first baby! Having to worry about him “crashing the fk out”!

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Yolanda English
Cincinnati, OH · 2 months ago

All your blessings will fall into place when you leave him! Trust God and leave him alone!

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Shuntaya D
Newark, NJ · 24 days ago

I'm assuming he's ready to go somewhere and she was taking a long time. If he wanted to speed up the process all he had to do was take care of the other things for her like make the baby's bottles, pack the diaper bag, lay out her clothes on the bed, install the car seats, and turn on some beat music to get her moving to the beat! Fellas, women literally sacrificed their bodies to give birth to your babies. Women go thru emotional rollercoasters on top of bleeding like crazy for 6 weeks. The least you guys could do is boost her self esteem and tell her how much you love her and how you appreciate her going through so much to have your babies! Lead her to love you deeper? Please Stop making it all about you?

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Shonnie Summerset
Dothan, AL · 24 days ago

what he looking like smash

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Shonnie Summerset
Dothan, AL · 24 days ago

leave him he to toxic

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Common Sense101
Moreauville, LA · a month ago

I hope you are okay. You don’t need that in your life. If a person can’t be patient until you are ready, he isn’t the one. TO TOXICCC!

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kane
Round Lake, IL · 25 days ago

He is in the background with his annoying ass voice just leave. You don’t have to say anything.

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Rosie Heaven Sent Binns
Fraser, MI · a month ago

Did she say after their first child. 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Shatara Ewing
Northridge, CA · a month ago

He wrong girl get on

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Ty
Buffalo, NY · a month ago

Run for da hills

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My Truth
Seattle, WA · 25 days ago

if he's treated her this bad during postpartum, it's just going to get worse and worse. I feel sad for her. I'm sure she deserves better than this treatment💕

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laddyred
Loganville, GA · 23 days ago

Leave This Clown!!! He’s disrespecting you!!!

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Barbara Kaufman
Frederick, MD · a month ago

I'm sorry!🙏🏽

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Andrea Barker
Kansas City, KS · 3 months ago

I was single after I had my second baby and postpartum depression is real it be days where I would cry myself to sleep because I was really going through depression bad and I was times where I felt like giving up so you know what I did I got on my knees and ask god to help me and guide me in the right direction and when I did that things started changing for me in my life.

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