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Niki Niki
Los Angeles, CA · 5 months ago
HOT

GIIIIIIRRRRRRRRRLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!! This triggered my PTSD! Let it go now it only gets worse it will

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Christine Allen
Greenville, SC · 5 months ago
HOT

leave him

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Jennifer Watkins
Los Angeles, CA · 5 months ago
HOT

He trying to break you baby. You looking good. Leave him you will be better off later. Hurt now/Better later.

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Ciera Satchell
Johnstown, PA · 5 months ago

You are beautiful queen

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Deborah Blake
Cleveland, OH · 5 months ago

Ur too young to waste urself on him. You will look around in 10 years will have passed full of abuse and beating your beauty along with your confidence. You have the world laid out before you choose this day which path you will follow baby girl u are worth more than you know. Children are sent to save us embrace your motherhood protect your child and love yourself.🙏 for you

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MiiMii
Summerville, SC · 4 months ago

this is not normal even after you have 20 babies with him. he doesn't want you to go and he's messing with someone else or trying to. leave and be a good mother to your babies. get to know the next guy better before you have babies!

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lonewolf
Minneapolis, MN · 14 days ago

nope bye 👋

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Brenda Joseph
Macon, GA · 2 months ago

GET OUT ASAP. PRAYING FOR YOU.

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Christine Wright
Yonkers, NY · 15 days ago

So greatful my son is not going through the toxicity god is good all the time 🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽 pray queens and tighten your armor remember you are a queen!!!!! Represent yourself to the fullest

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Mildred Jordan
Memphis, TN · 17 days ago

Leave him now! Run 🏃

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Andrew Long
Baltimore, MD · a month ago

Sorry, but you not listening she said, you changed after you had the first baby and she is pregnant now with another one .

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Tonjia singleton
Columbus, GA · 4 months ago

please leave him ...abuse comes in all forms

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Shenada Henderson
Decatur, GA · 24 days ago

you are beautiful babygirl

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Santi Panti
New York, NY · 24 days ago

them words gonna hurt when his ass is locked up. he's gonna be like in the beginning all over again 🤣

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Sabrina Sharrow
Charlotte, NC · a month ago

So cruel

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TahLiyah Heard
Atlanta, GA · a month ago

hope yall know this a skit they always do this

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Manda
Wilmer, AL · a month ago

Baby girl love urself more than that get a man that will love u and those kiddos

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Netrease Smith
Florence, SC · a month ago

Naw, you knew, you just ignored the signs hoping he would change

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Just Mikala
Worcester, MA · a month ago

Queen, that's not a man, that's a boy.. A true Man, would respect you and not treat you bad and would love on you and would even offer to pamper you sometimes and offer to brush your hair for you, because he loves you!

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ShuggaMama
2 months ago

shiiiiiiieet couldn't be me😳

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Karen Harris
Las Vegas, NV · 2 months ago

REALLY SAD

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none ya....
Louisville, KY · 2 months ago

baby girl take your beautiful baby and run matter of fact when he leaves take his clothes and throw them out trash belongs by the curb not piled in ur house your beautiful and he has a ugly soul

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giddy gidhet
Knoxville, TN · 2 months ago

I would take them braids out grab my flat iron and make up wash my hair blow dry it pull out the keratin by the time I finish 2 hours later and whaaaaat

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Timothy Grate
Jonesboro, GA · a month ago

she's going to go through a stage where she's tired of guys in her age range and some older guy going to show her how much he appreciates her...

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GanGsta
Jackson, TN · 2 months ago

her and her man is getting paid off this app. they got so many skits of toxic relationship problems. I'd mad at yall get that bag

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Yolanda Harrod
Baltimore, MD · 2 months ago

toxic relationship u need to leave him soon as possible 🥺🥺🥺he not a good father at all🥺🥺I been there years ago take my word

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Níshíáá Pägéé
Tulsa, OK · 2 months ago

You’re Beautiful , You Don’t Need Him Leave Him He’s Verbally And Emotionally Abusive ! Let Him Go

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Ke c
a month ago

run 🏃‍♀️ Get away from him ASAP!!! your peace is more important 🙏🏾

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AnnaMae Castillo
Columbus, OH · a month ago

Girl you don’t need that in your life you can do better

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C Rich
Franklin Township, NJ · 2 months ago

Be pro choice sleeping with these dudes first

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sachi Adams
Grand Rapids, MI · 2 months ago

That’s a boy

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Lafaye Howard
Salinas, CA · 2 months ago

please LEAVE u are beautiful young lady u can do better..... dude needs to go BYE ... YOUNG LADY UR BEAUTIFUL PROTECT U N UR BABY PEACE🥰

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Liz Gillhespy
White Cloud, MI · 2 months ago

girl you're beautiful. if he don't see that let him go. it gets so much worse

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Darren Spivey
Silver Spring, MD · 2 months ago

he wrong for that ,should be more supportive

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Charrah Jones
Miami, FL · 2 months ago

you are a beautiful woman

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Remy Forté
Memphis, TN · 3 months ago

Omgsh that just gave me chills & My PTSD I know how that be I left mines 😭😭im sorry u got to go through that u look amazing nomatter what

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Erica Wesley
5 months ago

I don't understand why you young girls tolerate that.

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Mickey Cocks
New York, NY · 2 months ago

this is why most men would rather have a side chick than a wife because it's a side chick doesn't get too comfortable and when she does it's time to find a new one

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Mrs Sepulvado
Noble, LA · 2 months ago

you beautiful baby. as long as you taking care of your baby and taking a little time for yourself, which he's supposed to help you with that part, taking care of lil one for a few hours so you can decompress. he damn sure not supposed to be demeaning you and making you feel bad about yourself. girl believe it or not a healthy relationship does not look like that. my baby's father to my 4 would never speak to me that way. like I said you gorgeous mama and I pray he realizes that, and stops how he's acting before you decide to get rid of his 🍑 and looses you for good. 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

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Linette Dickey
Lakewood, CO · 3 months ago

OMG. I PRAY YOU GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP ASAP. BLESSINGS TO YOU I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD 🙏🙏🙏

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Madam2mom
Sacramento, CA · 2 months ago

Man!!! OMG! This is SO FAMILIAR!! 😢 I’m sorry he treated you this way. I’m almost 50 and I PROMISE you, he will NEVER change!! He is selfish and doesn’t want you to feel worthy of a 20 min shower and enjoying yourselves to get ready. All that hollaring kills all the joy of going out. He doesn’t love you or appreciate you. He is clearly insecure and AFRAID of you looking good to go out!!! He KNOWS you are beautiful after them babies! He knows he is not enough man for you so he has to tear you down! Please make sure you take time for yourself. I bought headphones and stopped speaking to him completely until I Finally got rid of him!!! Then I stopped speaking to him completely and he harassed me and begged me to come back. My cut off game was STRONG!! Stay strong, don’t justify anything you do for yourself, you don’t owe him an explanation at all!! Tell him to leave!! You will be so much happier. I🙌🏽💕

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Charrah Jones
Miami, FL · 2 months ago

they will never understand what we go through as women especially after having their children. I'm so glad she didn't act childish like him. Baby don't take the abuse

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Mickey Cocks
New York, NY · 2 months ago

😂😂😂😂😂 Man don't become cruel after you have your baby, You just change after you have a baby because comfortable kick in

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Paulette Stegall
Augusta, Georgia · 2 months ago

yea great job bring a poor innocent baby into that hell hole. ever heard of birth control

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pepsi4ever89
Philadelphia, PA · 3 months ago

he's a scumbag leave him u deserve someone better and she's not even ugly

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Tiffany Crowder
Halifax, VA · 2 months ago

People only do to you what you allow I need you to stand up for yourself immediately he got me mad and I don’t even know you like that

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Karm Anderson
Springfield, MA · 2 months ago

Sorry have deal this u find someone treat u princess u are

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Danyetta Davis
Charlotte, NC · 2 months ago

Young lady, you need to let this man go

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