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Cynthia Heyward
Wadmalaw Island, SC · 5 months ago
HOT

now you got no husband, who paying now??

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Tammy
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

The way y'all dogged her out. My mother never had to pay a bill. I guess those manages don't exist anymore, so she's wrong for something that men used to do as standard. There was no conversation about it. It's over with these comments. Definitely, let you know, but to each his own

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Schanette Campbell
Sacramento, CA · 5 months ago

She sounds all kinds of dumb. Guess she’s paying the bills now and without a man..

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Sharon Bellamy-McCarthy
Brooklyn, NY · 5 months ago

luckily he getting out that TRAP! what happened to we are one a team. I will, when you can't?? DIGGER OF GOLD!!! NOT wife material 🙏

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Elizabeth Mba
San Francisco, CA · 5 months ago

If my husband loses his job I will still support him and pay the bills because relationship is 50/50 You have each others back

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Walnut
Charlotte, NC · 3 months ago

I bet she won’t find another fool to support her for life. Women of today aren’t looking for men, they’re looking for fools.

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James Bell
Baltimore, MD · 4 months ago

She going to die old ,alone and broke with that mind set ….

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Anthony Hernandez
San Antonio, TX · 5 months ago

she's trash of a wife

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teddy ball
Burnsville, NC · 5 months ago

I lost my job once.. my wife had my back the whole time .. I've got another job but she was there .. now we have a baby in the way and I'm making more money 💰

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D. FQ
Atlanta, GA · 4 months ago

A bird brain under all circumstances. . She did that man a favor. That’s a fact.

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Reap070
Penn Hills, Pennsylvania · 4 months ago

these whoes are delusional so sad cuz there's some men that really want good women this is the mentality of the woman out here

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NormaJean DeSpain
Saint Joseph, MO · 5 months ago

I pay electric water, and my phone bill. my husband fills my tank, buys the groceries, the trash service, he buys car parts and does the labor himself, he pays for household items we need, car insurance, pet supplies, vet visits, clothes, school supplies. maybe not put it all on his shoulders. maybe help him pay. be equally yoked. not codependently relient on him. you're grown too.

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Tara Thompson
Lancaster, CA · 3 months ago

A Marriage under the law of Jesus Christ thick and thin that’s why a marriage will never work because you keep Jesus Christ out of the marriage the vowels of Jesus Christ and that you’re accuse when you face Jesus Christ face to face that won’t fly you suppose to respect the marriage making your own rules Jesus Christ is the ruler of everything now you just made the devil happy really my parents been married since I been 5yr old and I’m 56 they still married because Jesus Christ is the head of the relationship period people just Need to grow and grow up because Jesus Christ is coming back ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

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Blue Dog
Evans, CO · 4 months ago

My marriage is a partnership. We both contribute. And if one looses a job, the other picks up the slack. It goes both ways.

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Donald Foster
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

A woman is cut from a man's rib which is his backbone you supposed to have his back

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Isabel Butler
Las Vegas, NV · 5 months ago

it sounds like she wants to be a kept woman

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renee eugene
Bowie, MD · 4 months ago

Now you have to pay all the bills. Being married is for better or worse. You don't sound like you understand the point of being in a relationship. You sound very transactional. I don't hear love in this partnership. I have been married for 30 years. We both enjoy what we built. I got his back and he has mine.

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Lawrence Evans
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

She just exposed herself. If any man wants her now, he's a fool. She disregarded all her vows or was lying when she said them. #forbetterorworse.

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neetbug
Pittsburgh, PA · 5 months ago

My husband was a heavy equipment operator, and would get laid off, I would never have divorced him, man she's delusional

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William
Tulsa, OK · 4 months ago

Where is your job

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Jeffery
White City, OR · 5 months ago

kick that female dog 2 the curb

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Katreina Thomas
Atlanta, GA · 2 months ago

That man probably left her You paying them now 😲

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Tommy Washington
Sacramento, CA · 4 months ago

the sickness of a golddigger now pays all the bills, what value can she bring to a man but drain him smdh

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Kimberly
Jackson, MS · 4 months ago

When you took your vows it said better or worse. You should have been women enough to hold him down until he got on his feet. You left a good man and now I doubt you will do better.

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Kay Goodman
Melbourne, AR · 2 months ago

bruh this is why ppl don't get married

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Jacob Guerrero
Bronx, NY · 2 months ago

Everyone who see this now you know what she expects so only simps must apply real G’s leave her alone

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Michelle Harden
Wytheville, VA · 5 months ago

shameful for this woman to do this you are soppose to stay good or bad. you should raise him up when he cant.

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Carolina Doll
Charlotte, NC · 2 months ago

You always have to make sure the person you married. Will be there no matter what happens. This right here just pissed me off.

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Jasmine Harding
Maple Shade Township, NJ · 5 months ago

eew, what she wants is her father. she is not finished growing up... cause wtf🤔😞

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Amy Jackson
Buffalo, NY · 4 months ago

this younger generation of women are sad 💯

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Spencer White
Durham, NC · 2 months ago

She's not in a marriage contract, she's in a strictly Business contract??? I'm pretty sure she will be single for the rest of her life!

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William Stephenson
Augusta, ME · 2 months ago

shes a POS

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Salems mom
Yonkers, NY · 5 months ago

Her husband escaped that situation by the skin of his teeth! I don't suppose any of those bills were incurred by her...

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Ralph Douglas
St. Petersburg, FL · 5 months ago

this is most disgusting image of a mindset to say your in for the long journey. parasitic behaviors

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Nigel Williams
The Bronx, NY · a month ago

Best thing that happened to that man she released him from a life of misery to find a woman that is the opposite. he should be celebrating

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Gracie Ericksen
Boise, ID · a month ago

if they are my forever person, I will give them all the money in the world. I don't care.

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Met Carr
Dallas, TX · a month ago

for better she's all in. for worse he's all out

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Alissa Contreras
Los Angeles, CA · 2 months ago

she's gross.

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bigluvmaturebbw
Olympia, WA · 2 months ago

that's a no number one rule see that's why she sitting on these podcasts getting private 500 dollars a show broke as hell and just not doing nothing just stupid women man

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Chris J
Texarkana, AR · 5 months ago

sloopy bihhh

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T “Coltdaddy” Eagle
Wolf Point, MT · 5 months ago

broken woman so sad I hope her ex husband finds a woman worth being with this is sickening sad world folks she's a gold digging joke

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Khalil AsKari-Roberts
Fairfield, CA · 5 months ago

She is not a wife!

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Tyrone Morton
Keysville, VA · 5 months ago

girl stop because first of you not that fine in the first place 😳then you to live free...donkey of the day

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Amber Brown
Moses Lake, WA · 5 months ago

Girl... nothing wrong with helping out when he is down. just don't be like me. it's been 5 years now and he got to comfortable not working. now he basically refuses to work and has a drinking problem. I want a divorce

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Taylor 28205
Charlotte, NC · 5 months ago

She's doing her soon to be ex-husband a huge favor. He's definitely better off without her. There will never be a true feeling of love or support from her. We wonder why some men don't want to deal with women or look for love/companionship outside their marriage/relationship.

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Hennessey Akaya
Waterbury, CT · 2 months ago

she won't fine no one else that's gonna to live by her standards those vows are for in sickness and in health until death death us part.

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Eric Young
Oakland, CA · a month ago

She's the poster child example of why the passport bros movement exists. She's a horrible woman. And by no means is she wife material.

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Deathzap infinit
Providence, RI · 2 months ago

Absolutely, a relationship is a partnership.... you're supposed to hold each other down. NOT bounce as soon as things get hard smh

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Darryl At
Honolulu, HI · 5 months ago

The husband whether he knows it or not, God has set him free!

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Ray Pew
Compton, CA · 2 months ago

How do you expect someone to do something for you that you cannot even do for yourself smdh handouts

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Barbara Jullen
Lutcher, LA · 10 days ago

karma will get you,For Real

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Khadja Woods
New York, NY · 10 days ago

Exactly

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Ella Harris
Hyattsville, MD · 12 days ago

that man should have left you quick and in a hurry.

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Breverly Hunter
Dayton, OH · 15 days ago

The marriage is a give-and-take situation, and sometimes we do what it takes to take care of both of us. If he wasn’t trying, it’s a different subject completely but I wouldn’t expect him to pay me back because we’re in it together.

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lady4691
Lansing, MI · 17 days ago

Girl, you need to stay by yourself! When you marry, you become one. You're supposed to have each other's back. You're a team; be each other's helpmate 💯

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Suzan Montana
Tonawanda, NY · 17 days ago

She didn't love him you give what you get he was there for you how are you not there for him? That woman has no idea whatove and happiness is. My husband's love was priceless When he became disabled I worked double shifts when he got cancer I took care of him around the clock slept an hour a day and lost over 100 lbs in a yr. When he passed I was 87lbs. I would've given him anything and everything. When he held my hand I knew I was luckiest woman on this planet. He would get upset about not doing for me. But I told him everyday that he gave me everything every moment he was with me because he loved me.

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Guest
Temecula, CA · 17 days ago

she's right 👍

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Thomas
Interlachen, FL · 19 days ago

your expectations must include no loyalty

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Veronica Smith
New York City, NY · 20 days ago

The Bible calls a wife the help meet. And when a man finds a wife he has found a good thing. Not a leech your supposed to be a partner in this partnership. You are suppose to work together for the prosperity in this relationship. What has happened to the black woman's thinking.

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CartelCrew007
Whiting, IN · 20 days ago

she a foo

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Jean
North Myrtle Beach, SC · 22 days ago

She’s not getting another husband 🙈

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Sotania Bell
Brooklyn, NY · 22 days ago

🤔🤔😲😲

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Russell Golden
Tampa, FL · 22 days ago

He was a damn fool to marry you in the beginning. Marriage is a two way street.

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Doretha Miller
Spartanburg, SC · 22 days ago

He should have been running from her or just been friends with benefits and when his benefits ran out she would have dipped anyway 😂😂

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Michael Kirk
Wichita, KS · 22 days ago

she never loved him she loved the fact that he was paying bills very trifling she's one of those women that the Bible speaks of and with Jacob's Trouble On The Rise she's in trouble she's going to be screaming for a man to protect her in all this madness that's going to happen and she has no husband she's going to go to hell don't even know it yet

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Closed Lane
Baton Rouge, LA · 23 days ago

what kinda stuff is that lady you suppose to be with him through everything i see why alot of women are still single

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Monte Anderson
Thorndale, PA · 23 days ago

He couldn’t pay one month so u divorce him that’s wild whole story is a fraud cause I’m sure dude had 401 k or something

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Monte Anderson
Thorndale, PA · 23 days ago

He missed those red flags she’s on side chick material definitely not wife material

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Yvonne Carreau
Boston, MA · 24 days ago

what is wrong with these women? I just don't understand.😳

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Chris Blatcher
Durham, NC · 25 days ago

this is the type of woman we have today

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