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Denise Lenoire
Colonial Heights, VA · 8 months ago

you can get him fired you can not show up on his job sit the boss see that he can lost his job I did that before once and packing his lunch he don't want the guys to start drama he might not even want anybody knowing anything about him at the job

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Grip
Houston, TX · 9 months ago

this has to be fake ur story has inconsistent things

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Alice Garcia
Oakland, CA · 9 months ago

You are not too bright. I’m sure this behavior began a long time ago yet you’re still there!! And you’ll probably stay!!

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Marie Elliott
Leander, TX · 8 months ago

F him! what you did was so thoughtful and you put your heart into it! You should be ashamed of him! You are a beautiful person inside and out!!

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James
9 months ago

keep your head up girl

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loafOFbread
9 months ago

I tell you what .....fix you a stiff drink and make no fuss when he gets home ..go on about your day every time he gets paid get you some money and put it up and when you got enough money go level up go do you take care of you go fix your hair .your teeth new clothes and go find you something to do a job a hobby get out of the house and live .....live not cheat I'm not telling you to go lay down somewhere else and I'm not saying he doing it either you need to love yourself and make sure you good too ....

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Ladyegypt Thomas
Philadelphia, PA · 9 months ago

Your husband probably talks to you about your teeth. So just go get your teeth fixed.🤔

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Naomi Gero
Hartford, VT · 7 months ago

baby girl you did nothing wrong And I am so sorry for his shitty treatment and disregard for your feelings. No I don't think you're being a baby at all. I'm just at a loss of words. And I'm so sorry, truly so sorry. You seem like a sweetheart and you deserve better

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Rose Ann Newbold-Dewitz
Massillon, OH · 9 months ago

Teeth can be fixed!!! You’re a pretty lady. 7 kids whew! I had one that was enough! Take care of yourself. It’s hard sometimes.

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Shirley Covington
Petersburg, VA · 9 months ago

Hold your head up high for you are beautiful in Gods eyes🌸

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The Piney Woods Auction House Ben Morris
Florence, MS · 9 months ago

Please tell me this isn't true and you are making this up for content!! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you & you are beautiful the way you are! You need to leave that loser and be with a man that appreciates you! You are not a baby & you damn sure don't need a mask! There are men all over this country that would do anything to have a woman as thoughtful as you! Your husband is a fool that doesn't know what he has! You hold your head up high and don't ever allow a moron to make you question your self worth!!!! That's the truth!!!!!

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deborah shaw
Atlantic City, NJ · 5 months ago

H8R if you're on a construction site my husband was on the construction site and he took his lunch in the morning put it in whatever he needed to put it in I didn't have to take him to lunch

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Sl “No-trust” Dobson
Duff, TN · 9 months ago

You r pretty woman! Dont let a dumbass man bring you down. !! You do have a right to b upset at him. !!

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Tom Hickney
Barnwell, SC · 9 months ago

I think your nice looking but for health reasons you need oral care. Don’t be to hard on your husband because he wouldn’t still be there if he didn’t care. I don’t agree with his actions, but let him know how it made you feel.

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Karen Shaw
Marysville, WA · 9 months ago

that's abuse. there is nothing wrong with you, 🌸 leave him

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Kristin Pahl
West Pittston, PA · 9 months ago

Don't be sorry you didn't do anything except to try and do something nice for your husband

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esmeralda morales
Yuma, AZ · 3 months ago

your beautiful 🩷

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LaTisha Fisher
Ponca City, OK · 9 months ago

Sometimes, I know from experience, that you're not the PROBLEM. Apparently he is embarrassed by who he is, not by what you look like. Remember, he PICKED YOU out of everyone else. Look deeper, you might find something you're not going to like, or something that you need to know. I hope you have a better evening.

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Helen Amaral
Fall River, MA · 9 months ago

You are a beautiful woman!!! He is a jackazz! Start taking money for yourself and fix your teeth , since they bother you . In the meanwhile tell him to find a place to stay!!!! You deserve a man who is proud of you!!!! 7 kids God Bless you!!!!🌸💕🙏🏼

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gin
Bonita Springs, FL · 7 months ago

Yea that's messed up

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Crystal Christensen
Vancouver, WA · 9 months ago

I'm sorry you had to go through that. You are worth more than that child made you feel. Let him know how that made you feel and make your decision based on his response to your feelings. Deep down, you will know what to do. He could apologize and mean it. It might not go how you hoped. That decision is yours to make. Just know you are beautiful, with a giant heart. You glammed yourself up to surprise your husband for lunch on his birthday. He should've been so happy! Just know that strangers are sometimes nicer than the ones we give our hearts to. I hope for the best outcome for YOU.

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wowvids
St. Louis, MO · 7 months ago

He's most likely a union worker and has dental insurance. Does his plan not cover the dental work? 🫶🏽⚘️

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Corrine Long
El Paso, TX · 9 months ago

I'm sorry that you had to experience his lack of self confidence but dont allow his negativism and egotism lessen your worth and your beauty!! There is nothing wrong with you and the fact that your even nice enough to go out of your way to make someone else's day makes you even more awesome.. there is something wrong with him deep down inside ...for any man yo worry so much about what another man likes..huh 😳you might wanna pay attention to him and his extra curricular time he spends with his buds or by himself just saying... there is definitely a hidden issue there..and its obviously not on you

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kat
Pikesville, MD · 9 months ago

He was incredibly rude and I’m not trying to be mean. But for yourself and your children please go to the dentist. Bacteria that you could be swallowing can go to your heart and it wouldn’t be good. Also if you were to get an abscess that infection can travel to your brain. So think about being here many yrs for your kids and take care of yourself. 😊

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Gwen Snow
Montgomery, AL · 9 months ago

No you have a right to be upset, cry before he get home, let him tell you way, love hurts, next lift your head up, fix up, and put the love you have for him give it all to yourself.

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FortyFourAndFiltered
Concord, NH · 9 months ago

Thank you so very much to everyone who had kind words and helpful advice, it means more to me than you could ever know. I will make an update video soon 💚

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