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Kathy Perkins
Detroit, MI · 8 months ago
HOT

You have to step away from always providing financial assistance, and love these people from a distance. Your love for them does not have to include. financial backing. You won’t feel used and if they have attitudes about it .Oh well😒😒that’s their true feelings about you. You’ll be okay🤗🤗🤗🤗

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Shawonda King
Birmingham, AL · 8 months ago

My sister da same way. She don’t like me 😢😢😢😢😢😢

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Ling ¥ Year
8 months ago

Her sister is jealous. Because of the decisions that she made. Clarissa dodged the bullets as far as having babies too early. Sometimes you have to love family from a distance. Because a lot of times they are your biggest haters

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I-is-I
Northglenn, CO · 8 months ago

People want you to do good in life. But never better than them

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Roylean Davenport
Detroit, MI · 8 months ago

I feel every word she said.

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Johnnysuicide
Waukee, IA · 8 months ago

i hate it when full grown adults call their parents momma and daddy so creepy

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LayLay Russell
Wilkinsburg, PA · 8 months ago

I would never do too much for people because then they start expecting it and feel entitled to it, even though they didn't work for it and couldn't really maintain it if they did have it. Nope. Jealousy is real

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Marquis Roberson
Shreveport, LA · 8 months ago

god bless her jealousy is a powerful drug

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Gus Mickens
Columbus, OH · 8 months ago

it's called jealousy and envy.

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Iamafoodie “Spunk” Freeman
Georgetown, TX · 8 months ago

They are jealous of your success

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Bobbie Sims
Mundelein, IL · 8 months ago

The ones you help the most is the ones who will respect you less.

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Roderick Manning
Atlanta, GA · 8 months ago

My parents taught me and my siblings that when they are gone we are next up to hold the family together look after eachother and teach that to your children because blood can be thicker than water if you allow it

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Yolo
8 months ago

People don’t want what you give them, they want what you have. Love yours

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Tee
Yuba City, CA · 8 months ago

"Some people don't want what you give them. They want what you have. " So sad

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Hazelene Young
Pikesville, MD · 8 months ago

It’s important to understand You Can’t Buy Love and You Should Never be the Support System for able bodied Grown Folks 😱 !

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Lolita Maria
Jamaica, NY · 8 months ago

People dont want what you give them..They want what you have!PROFOUND Statement!..Soo True!

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Anthony Singleton
Fayetteville, GA · 8 months ago

I really respect her

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Brittany Taylor
New York City, NY · 7 months ago

they don't want what you give them, they want what you have 🔥🔥🔥😎

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Regina L. Wofford
Odenton, MD · 8 months ago

💯

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Bonita Fisher
Ferris, TX · 7 months ago

Back up baby they don’t appreciate you

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Dynester Bolar-Speights
Maple Heights, OH · 8 months ago

It’s resentment 🙏🏽

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Marie Daniels
Minneapolis, MN · 8 months ago

gotta move the safety net ....they will be pissed talk about you....smh

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MySaviorJesusChrist
Bensville, MD · 8 months ago

Jealous sis

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Sherifa Moma
Detroit, MI · 8 months ago

facts

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Johnnie Prather
Newnan, GA · 8 months ago

Sometimes we do too much!! And, by the way you’re absolutely right! Back off, and don’t worry!!

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Dawn Rhodes
7 months ago

God bless you. Sometime’s you have to step back. Stop giving so much of yourself.

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Pamela Evans
Norfolk, VA · 8 months ago

You have to love them from a distance!!!!

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Phyllis Little
Wildwood, FL · 8 months ago

I'm sorry for you just take care of yourself Amen

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gold dust
Memphis, TN · 7 months ago

You're right... your worst foes are those of your household.

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Janice Cass
Watertown, NY · 8 months ago

Sibling rivalry is real. God bless you. Take care of YOU.

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A R
Harvey, LA · 7 months ago

Toxic family moochers!! Stay away from them! JEALOUSY!

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Tonya Stief
Rochester, MN · 8 months ago

you don't appreciate what you don't work for

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ANNETTE MASON
Emporia, KS · 8 months ago

walk away... been there 😭

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Pamela Hill
Windsor Mill, MD · 8 months ago

Jealousy, stop giving

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Queen E
Detroit, MI · 8 months ago

It seems like her head doesn't fit onher body.I understand what she talking about.I wish her the best.

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Debra Williams
Buffalo, NY · 8 months ago

Stop doing so much when you do a lot more will be expected you don’t have to buy them a car you can give them some money they can buy their own car and keep it up your sister should be taken care of our own children if you buy your mother a home that’s OK But you have to have a cutting off point and don’t worry about them not liking you they like your money.

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terrance Martin
Decatur, GA · 8 months ago

do for yourself keep loving yourself

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KD Lewis
Douglasville, GA · 8 months ago

#insatiablespirits

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Glenda Oden
Chula Vista, CA · 7 months ago

JEALOUSY! You hold your head up Queen! 💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜👑👑👑💜💜

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Tiffany McMillan
Wilmington, NC · 7 months ago

Yeah, Her being a giver in a family of takers, I know what that feels like. You can hear the pain in her voice.🥹

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Eileen
Houston, TX · 8 months ago

EXACTLY !!!!!

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Verletha Winters
Pittsburgh, PA · 8 months ago

Step away from that. it's jealousy

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Hugo Simmonds Jr
Grand Prairie, TX · 7 months ago

You don't owe anything to anyone except God Almighty...

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Tricilyn Ramsey
Albany, GA · 8 months ago

this is truth. givers are taken advantage of.

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Loretta Freeman
Baton Rouge, LA · 8 months ago

I know my sister's r the same way.Just love from a distance .i didn't do anything to mines either love them from a distance it's jealous

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Beverley Harris
Columbus, OH · 8 months ago

Let them fend for themselves. They will appreciate you after you've stopped trying to help them.

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not a republican or democrat
Chicago, IL · 8 months ago

the more you give the more they expect

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Hugo Simmonds Jr
Grand Prairie, TX · 7 months ago

a lot of you women don't get it when the men tells you, let them children and family live their lives, you live longer, ungratefulness is always a negative affect...

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Nicole Fishburn
Tallahassee, FL · 4 months ago

Savages and and selfish and greedy and they will pretend that they love you and will do anything for you and it appreciate it all and it will stop working let's stop doing for yourself because they know that you will

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KittyKat72
Rutherfordton, NC · 5 months ago

This is so true 😭

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Theresa Carter
Erwin, NC · 5 months ago

I'm going through that with my 2 daughters this is coffee

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UriyahDaFire
5 months ago

Besides the kids, stop feeling guilty about your success. Stop supporting them. You've done enough.

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Dwayne Dawson
Detroit, MI · 5 months ago

that's how it is.please open your eyes. some people only love you for what you give them.

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BigNellz2
Baltimore, MD · 6 months ago

She’s absolutely right it’s rough out here for us folks with Big Hearts.

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Percel McCollum
Newark, NJ · 6 months ago

if you walk away from all of them I bet you they appreciate you more. I can not see how you raise your sisters kids and her hands are still out.

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Shauna brisueno
Halethorpe, MD · 6 months ago

💯💯

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Susan Bentley
Atlanta, GA · 6 months ago

It’s call jealous…

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Melanated Beauty 32%
6 months ago

jealousy is real especially in a family dynamic. And really if you all have the same resources but 1 or 2 of them figure out the blueprint.

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Desmond Smith
Grosse Pointe, MI · 6 months ago

💯😮‍💨

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John Wade
Fairburn, GA · 6 months ago

you are so right. someone on the street will do more for you than family

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Deliliah Tuck
Dayton, OH · 6 months ago

Move on🥰

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Denise Thompson
6 months ago

💯

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Anthony
Rochester, NY · 6 months ago

papoose lucky you are so beautiful smart sexy strong I would never mess up if I was papoose

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Glenn Evans
Cleveland, OH · 6 months ago

That right ppl dont want what you give the. they want what you got and that is something they can't have why because God didn't give it to them so they become jealous,hater envious of you.

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Gloria Alford
Delran, NJ · 6 months ago

Stop

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Joycefreeman Lamb
Pink Hill, NC · 6 months ago

you r so ritè but u hav to.put a. stop 2 to all u. r doing

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Janay Johnson
Thonotosassa, FL · 6 months ago

facts

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