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Hah!
10 months ago
HOT

Stop explaining. If you have a certain preference, do you. You owe no one an apology or a reason.

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ClevelandChris
Shaker Heights, OH · 10 months ago
HOT

Sounds like she saying if we want someone pretty from America, expect to pay. And what he’s saying is I can get someone fine from somewhere else and not have to be a trick.

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I Bland
Denver, CO · 10 months ago

He sounds dumb

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Kim Jade Hill
New York, NY · 10 months ago

This isn't True about All of US!!!👍🏿

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Young
Houston, TX · 10 months ago

Men, please only give reference to the type of women that you chose to date. Nine times out of 10 you did run into an appreciative black woman but because she didn't look like what your preference type is you didn't give them the time of day. As an appreciative black woman I wouldn't care if we went to Denny's or the cheesecake factory I will be glad to be out and about with my man no matter where he takes me. Not only that If we are building together and making investments then yes we are absolutely going to have to live on a budget. A lot of these men don't even take women on dates anymore in the black community so going somewhere on a budget is fine with me. There is nothing wrong with going somewhere that is not high in price or extremely extravagant. Just take accountability for the type of women that "you" chose to date because not all black women are in the category or group that a lot of black men put us in. Now say it with me class a-ccount-a-bility

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Dat Yankee n Trinidad
Oklahoma City, OK · 10 months ago

I will go ahead and say it. I've dated plenty of black Americans from 13 to 43 and I married a Trinidadian. I can while healthy say that our black American women have lost the reality of what to do and/or how to keep a man. These other women in the world ARE doing better. sorry but the truth hurts. I go to other countries and yes, they treat you better.

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Quill$
10 months ago

did our mannerisms keep you making tubi movies?

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Anthony Leid
New York, NY · 10 months ago

😂😂😂💪🏿☝🏿🔍👑🔥! Most men don't care about BBLs or boys parts. We care and invest time and money on a woman that we have something good in common with , she keeps the peace and can solve problems to be in a happy place again !

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Maylee Foster
Inglewood, CA · 10 months ago

I use too think this way till I realized I can't live without a sister.. there amazing find the right one tho

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Shannon Jackson
Denver, CO · 10 months ago

For as old as this man appears it boggles me how he’s going to say it’s black American women no honey it’s all women. There are gold diggers in every culture in every race. If that’s the type of woman you keep getting hooked up with it’s because that’s what you are attracting.

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Ri
New Orleans, LA · 8 months ago

Date who makes you happy

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Elmer Mckinzy
10 months ago

well that's to bad if men stepped up and played the part as the head black women wouldn't so call loose the reality of what to do they doing what they must to do there is no excuse for dating outside your race but true love has no color I consider it weak he's was to weak for her standards and can't control her my opinion

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R. R. STITH
Columbus, GA · 8 months ago

that isn't all type of Black Women, Sir.

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Larry
Las Vegas, NV · 7 months ago

facts he cooking

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Lionel Robinson
Modesto, CA · 10 months ago

Well I can say my American Black wife does the same as the Mexican ladies Damenican too you just need too know how too stand with them all our sisters is not like what you say and hell naw not better brother get a good one and find out for your self 👈🏽

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Terry Fields
8 months ago

he ain't lying

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Hot Rod
Atlanta, GA · 10 months ago

O wow I didn’t know that he think like that, but everybody do have their own opinion

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Wendy Davis
South Bend, IN · 10 months ago

he he got them all in his stomach

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RockDogginthehouse Safe
Bridgeport, CT · 10 months ago

I leave all women in America 🇺🇸 alone threat to your life proof right there 🤔

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Annette
Philadelphia, PA · 10 months ago

Those are the women you men pick!

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n turn
Muskegon Heights, MI · 10 months ago

Exactly what Claudia said

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Musa German
Jacksonville, FL · 10 months ago

Facts are facts……like it or not it’s true.

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Captn Johnywalker blk.
Las Vegas, NV · 10 months ago

I dated outside of my race. They all the same.

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KinggRedd
Daytona Beach, FL · 7 months ago

tryna find my foreign woman 😂

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Amanda Clark
Durham, NC · 7 months ago

We are all NOT THE SAME.

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Njemile Monk
Raleigh, NC · 10 months ago

American women so called are gods. and the other races no it. and we demand respect 😆

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EDDIE HUNTER
New York, NY · 10 months ago

what the hell is he talking about

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Dimitrius Taylor
Fair Oaks, CA · 10 months ago

get you a girl from Eritrea Ethiopia Uganda Somalia Sudan trust me 😂 my wife is from Eritrea and she does things American women won't do ,she was raised to be a wife , she won't even shake another man's hand. mad respect for me .

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Amy Geer
Pontiac, MI · 10 months ago

And American men stopped being men!

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Robert Taylor
Carmel Hamlet, NY · 10 months ago

it's so sad that we as a people has so much separation in our communities. Black looks for validation from white parters

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Vangie Dew
Minneapolis, MN · 10 months ago

He's right I'm a Proud Lesbian. and I feel the same way . I want one who doesn't know the ways of American women particularly Black Women. They have their own hair one less bill💯💯💯

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Rican Rebel
New York, NY · 10 months ago

So what I hear is… yall want someone to take care ofYou while you do nothing ????

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sweet Reese
10 months ago

He just wanted to fuck everything get him outta here 🤨

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Dream
Syracuse, NY · 10 months ago

I don’t date black women at all. I do White or Latino. They don’t throw stuff in my face or have unresolved problems. They love me for me and don’t expect much. They Treat me like a man and not a boy👌🏾

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Kendra Smith
Rock Hill, SC · 10 months ago

he's right tho

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William Blairë
10 months ago

The way you treat people dictates your outcomes. What's inside of you is what you will attract.

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KimiVee
Hollywood, FL · 10 months ago

Good conversation, Toodles 😌

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Chinared1579
East Orange, NJ · 9 months ago

look baby boy we good they can keep you ✌🏽😎 I haven't looked in the mirror lately boy bye🙄🤦🏽‍♀️🤭😆🤣

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S.O.A.P
4 months ago

FACTS my guy✊🏽💪🏾

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Adam French
10 months ago

The media sets the standard for how young men and women present themselves. Rap music, social media, movies, and reality television promote bling, money bags, and promiscuity. This behavior can be found amongst all nationalities however it is more prevalent in the black culture because they are viewed as the example.

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Guest
Wake Forest, NC · 10 months ago

Sirrrrr you were just dating the wrong type of women fromAmerica... don't put us all in that basket

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cj davis
10 months ago

dont hide from these people tell them the whole truth its 1000 times BETTER

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anthony silva
Edison, NJ · 10 months ago

bait ??!!??!!wtf

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River Parish
Baton Rouge, LA · 8 months ago

Sounds like the internet algorithms are intentionally pitting the black man vs. the black woman, and in the end, everyone loses. Stop playing them people's game.

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Callie Duval
Las Vegas, NV · 10 months ago

please allow him cause

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LaTonya
Freeport, IL · 9 months ago

just say the money gave you a different selection.

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Tabatha
10 months ago

I totally understand both sides, but Claudia hit the nail on the head. It's where and what types you are looking for. Stop making it seem like a certain group of people are a certain way because it's just not true. Like Cat Williams said; It's just something about you that attracts these kinds of people.

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Leroy Marshall
Orlando, FL · 10 months ago

making an excuse to have what he prefers stop saying our black woman doesn't do those he making excuses just to be comfortable for his choice

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Tosh J
Cincinnati, OH · 10 months ago

God men (not black) were victims #1 to the European Americans. In my opinion, God men stayed blinded to the conditioning being done to them. Goddesses became what was lacking.... the providers, protectors (the men) and AUTHORITY! All the while being judged by our own. As a whole we were all hoodwinked, and never came back together as a unit, family. 😢

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Shawana Hubbard
Cincinnati, OH · a month ago

You just uncomfortable about yourself no need to argue 😆

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JW
Kernersville, NC · a month ago

I prefer all the races but I just want one of them!

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dah0001 Jane
Little Rock, AR · 2 months ago

Its the type of black woman you encountered that watch too much T.V. and in this fantasy world. So, I would agree with you up to a point, with some. everything has to be this that and the other and that type of person will never find true love and stability. Thats her choice to live in fairytale world, but there are plenty out there thats not like that. Again, you date who you want regardless of color, whoever make you happy. 🙏🌸

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RanDaMan
West Lake Hills, TX · 2 months ago

So why is he still single?

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Antonio Ramos
New York, NY · 2 months ago

Passport Bro's.

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Alfred Pannell
Columbus, OH · 2 months ago

He is right American women are spoiled

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Jeffrey Hilliard
Fayetteville, NC · 2 months ago

Why they act like a lot of black women don’t act like what he talking about. They know a lot of women are like that or have male friends or relatives who say the same stuff. It’s not just one, two, or a few it’s many especially on SM.

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Ronnie Bey
Detroit, MI · 2 months ago

Islam brother Race & NATIONALITY are two different things its only one Race subdivided which are Asiatic or European.

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Meyoshi Henderson
Albany, NY · 2 months ago

Say what you mean and mean what you say.

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Nat Turner 2.0
Houston, TX · 2 months ago

Facts 🤷🏾‍♂️😏

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Victor McClain
New York City, NY · 2 months ago

my sistas got to much attitude not enough respect for the black man,

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Sandra Bizzell
Euclid, OH · 2 months ago

Jamal Willard, please watch his movies!🥰

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Dr Kems
Baltimore, MD · 2 months ago

I don’t mind interracial relationships as long as they are heterosexual…..God will definitely bless heterosexual relationships

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Nette Jones
Buffalo, NY · 2 months ago

When you are attracted to low quality individuals then expect to get low quality results. That goes for men and women. Men expect women to do all of these things when they not putting out just as much in return. Boy bye!

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ilooksleepy
Mullica Hill, NJ · 2 months ago

I’ve dated a lot of different races and it’s the same no matter. Women are going to be women just like men will be men no matter the race.

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Jameela Ferguson
Miami, FL · 3 months ago

And you didn’t marry neither one of them all the dates you talk about

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Richie Blevins
Detroit, MI · 3 months ago

What you trying to catch a gold digger what do you use as a bait for a gold digger money?

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Richie Blevins
Detroit, MI · 3 months ago

Bait no not bait

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.....
Brooklyn, NY · 3 months ago

MLKJ taught us to be as ONE who cares of who and what he wants or WHO he dates....

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Debbie Bailey
Suffolk, VA · 3 months ago

He must be talking about the women he have in the Tubi movies…

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