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Nicole Vahai
Paso Robles, CA · 10 months ago

Your beautiful

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tami vingara
Herrin, IL · 4 months ago

hey you're trying and that's more than a lot of people you're beautiful sweetheart don't let what some ignorant person with no brain says matter to you.

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jena
Kissimmee, FL · 3 months ago

my friend was making fun of you so she's not my friend you are 🥺

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jena
Kissimmee, FL · 3 months ago

you know it doesn't matter what's on the outside it matters on what's on the inside and Wich is your not fat you are just pretty the way you are ok god loves you and please don't cry cuz I have feelings for you and it's like friends feelings and I have that for you so always remember god loves you and bless you all with love and kindness so just please don't cry cuz your going to make me cry but it's ok I act the same way when my grandma died of heart surgery and she'll always be bye my side and I'll be by you side I believe you god always loved you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🙏🫵🫶🫵🌸

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Pamela Turner
Albuquerque, NM · 3 months ago

hey ,you are beautiful ,own it , don't doubt yourself at all, hold your head high and your out there doing the hard work,and you Need to know you are beautiful, Right now!!!

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Kim Hargrove
Belton, TX · 9 months ago

Kindness is free ..kind words can make someone's day and put a smile on someone's face ..we should all do it more..thanks for the reminder..🙏🙂❤️

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Jeanette Weaver
Oroville, CA · a year ago

Your so beautiful you keep doing you, sound like teenagers had little D energy!

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Tori Krejce
Springfield, MO · a year ago

you are beautiful

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Kevin Sanders
Asheville, NC · a year ago

keep doing your thing girl,Hard work pays off!!!

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Napoleon Sullivan
Augusta, GA · a year ago

you are so beautiful inside and out. don't let negative people ruined your day. you rock

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Lizzie Payne
Gainesville, GA · 9 months ago

I understand girl in highschool I get made fun of for the same thing though I am the quite kid and I don't say much I get bullied for being a big person and I tell myself everyday I'm fat because of my insecurities and everything but I have my bf, my BSF telling me not to worry about what they say because it's not true we bigger people always get made fun of and it's not fair but we can't do anything about it and if we confront them they say no I never ever said that your not fat and then they talk about you and laugh and it hurts deep down but not everyone shows their feelings like me I just stay to myself and don't talk to anyone so don't let no man tell you what you are and your gorgeous the way you are ❣️ love you girly

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Ed “ShopRag”
Great Falls, MT · a year ago

we are all proud of you..stay strong

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Michael Webber
Evansville, IN · a year ago

look beautiful to me

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Carmen Carlton
Castlewood, VA · a year ago

You met a real man

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Heather Steele
Buckley, MI · a year ago

I think you're really beautiful and you're sweating you have a nice smile nice teeth pretty voice that probably sounded gay sorry not sorry

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BTSSLAYER!#btsfan
Trenton, OH · a year ago

That is so rude wait until she gets skinnier then see when your fat would you like to be called ogre

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Bryon Nichols
Jacksonville, FL · a year ago

wow she could of got to the point faster good job though qnd keep it up

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Anna Walls
Waynesburg, KY · a year ago

I stopped going to the gym because of this reason. I went to the gym trying to better myself and my lifestyle and all I got water hateful looks. Two girls in particular kept staring and laughing at me. Yes I'm a big girl but I was trying. Now I don't go to the gym because I don't want people to make fun and be mean.

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Kane Holmes
Frankfort, KY · a year ago

do a home gym first.

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Papa Joe
Kings Mountain, NC · a year ago

keep your head up , God has your Back. Don't let anyone make it otherwise

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Tim Vance
Vancouver, WA · 9 months ago

you're a 10. God only made one of you, so there's nothing to compare you to. you're unique and perfect.

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Zach Blakey
New York City, NY · a year ago

just got out of the gym that you go to all the time?? NO!!

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Nic Willis
Lawrence, KS · 10 months ago

Good for him!! More importantly good for you!! The part you said just one more thing to add to my chart…. Man I felt that!! Keep it up love may you find many many more positivity come your way

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another human
8 months ago

I’m sooooooooo glad that ended positively!! She seems like a super sweet lady. I’d be your friend and I’d love a gym buddy! 🤗💙

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Haley Warlick
Lincolnton, NC · a year ago

You should be proud of yourself too take what he said and hold it close to your heart and remember it when you doubt yourself

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Cynthia Thomas
East Saint Louis, IL · a year ago

Well the fact that you went back after being insulted shows how strong u are. I could never because of the negative comments. Ppl always think u over eat. They don't consider thyroid or steroid issues. I'm proud of you

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kay britton
Okemos, MI · a year ago

Good job for trying to get healthy. It's a difficult journey, keep going! You will get there! Slower is better!

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Ash todora
Las Vegas, NV · 10 months ago

sweetie never take anything personal, when people hate on u it's really about what they hate in them selfs an truly has nothing to do with u

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Travis Scott
Champlin, MN · a year ago

you there everyday shows you yourself is a good healthly person good job g

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Victor Cortez
Tucson, AZ · a year ago

remember, your beautiful to the one that smiles on you every day. God blessed you!

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Joshua Sollenberger
Altoona, PA · a year ago

that's right girl haters will hate.use it to motivate you don't let someone's opinion hold you back

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Vape Morgan
Florence, KY · 10 months ago

hey honey, you worked up a sweat most men today forgot how to work hard enough to do for a living. keep it up and damn good job

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Dale E
a year ago

you look great, it love big girls. Keep doing what your doing, and the hater's. Can fuck, off

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Frank H.
Weaverville, NC · 10 months ago

I wished I cared enough about what people think of me I might be more driven to do better.

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David Clayton
New Martinsville, WV · a year ago

People are ignorant I believe in you and you are beautiful inside and out 🥰

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Carmen Carlton
Castlewood, VA · a year ago

I think you are amazing and don’t let anyone tell you differently

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Trent Standing Rock
Miles City, MT · 10 months ago

Keep it up, don't let insecure childish fkheads get to you. You're working on yourself and that's so that matters. You're doing what alot of others only wish they could do, which is actually get off their ass and hit the gym. Rome wasn't built in a day. You'll get where you want to be. I'm proud of you, too.

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briana b
Lilburn, GA · 10 months ago

I can tell she's a genuine person with a good heart and for that reason I hope next time someone tries to make her feel that way about herself that she feels confident enough to say something back. I know that killed her inside and I want her to know she doesn't have to take bs from people just because she's bigger. Insecurities, weight, and all you're better than those two assholes who took you for a joke.

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Gabe Francois
Albany, OR · 10 months ago

if you see a heavy person working to change there life , and you have some negative shit to say about them... kindly go fuck yourself the people who think losing weight is easy are fucking stupid. keep going keep pushing and keep trying and at the end of your journey you can sit back and laugh at the clowns 🤡

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Kathy Baker
Inola, OK · 10 months ago

turn everybody's got something wrong with them ask for them boys that was behind you I would say mama spoiled them too much you just keep up the good work and don't let what people say about you bother you when they start feeding you and putting clothes on your back and they want to say something then maybe they got the right but right now you're doing it on your own so come kiss off

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Vickie Palmer
Cairo, GA · 3 months ago

What an AWESOME dude. Girlfriend you are AWESOME to.🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Floretta Cash
Nashville, TN · 3 months ago

you are beautiful sweetheart dry them tears up keep pushing forward cuz you are that one you better clock that tea and don't worry about what nobody else got to say and that's on big God🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Manuel Cabrera
Phoenix, AZ · 4 months ago

GIRL YOUR BEAUTIFUL OKAY KEEP GOING AND STAY 💪 YOU GOT THIS.

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Robert Cruz
Corpus Christi, TX · 4 months ago

cool

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It’s PAT!!!!!!
Bradenton, FL · 4 months ago

You are a beautiful girl and you are trying which is what makes you a go getter. Keep it up and as to the tough looking guy, you’ll be amazed they are the coolest guys, never judge a book by its cover. Keep up the good work girl and keep your head up. 💕💕

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Dean Hassan
Memphis, TN · 4 months ago

if you love yourself it doesn't matter how much you weigh if you want to change yourself you change it for you not for others but you got to love yourself first and that's what he saw

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@ToeStepper
Richardson, TX · 4 months ago

Good people still exist

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Todd Green
Alexandria, IN · 4 months ago

go girl

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Nicole 💕❤️😍😘
Sherman Oaks, CA · 4 months ago

🥰🥰🥰🥰 your amazing keep up the good work and stay positive and kind because your are beautiful

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Alvin
4 months ago

I go to gym everyday, I see women working hard all the time good for them and you. Don’t worry about the losers!!!! Keep up it will pay off

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Jeff McBee
Bridgeville, DE · 4 months ago

you do you and only you you got this

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Jessica Pereira
Pawtucket, RI · 4 months ago

he has a small 🦐. he is insecure it's not you 💕

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Hector Nonaya
Westland, MI · 4 months ago

lady, we are all proud of you. as I lay here and see your video about the gym. I know your doing better than I am.

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Lefseboy
Jamestown, ND · 4 months ago

I actually started to cry when I heard when I watched this. You are an amazing person. You are the exact kind of person that everyone should look up to. When they go to the gym. And you are so correct, you never know about people. And if you're a person in a GM or anywhere in the world, you never know how powerful your words can be even a passing statement. God, bless you, you keep going. And I can tell right now, even though i've never met you, that I respect you as much as anybody I know, because you have yeah, the right heart for going in there.Every day and doing what you're doing, you keep it up

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Christopher Pitman
Greencastle, IN · 4 months ago

😍

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Christopher Pitman
Greencastle, IN · 4 months ago

honey there's a lot of us men that love heavy women like me

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Mickey Coots
Smilax, KY · 4 months ago

it's not a shame if you're putting forth effort, your clearly doing that. don't give up and keep on keeping on. you are motivated and you are trying, way more than anyone else usually does. your amazing keep up the want to......

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