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Alicia Morning
Paisley, FL · a year ago
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When men have been told they are shit, not needed, a nuisance, everything they do is wrong, but you want them to stand up and give you their seat. Got it. 🖕🏼

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Katt
Benson, AZ · a year ago
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Well, we are reaping what we sowed. We have been talking crap about men and saying we don't need them. I completely understand why this is like this now.

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Gray Gamer 777
Pendergrass, GA · a year ago
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What happened to it? Feminists killed it for everybody. Men got tired of being berated for opening doors for women do you think men are gonna give up their seats for you after that

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Robert Locke
Sacramento, CA · a year ago

they want equal rights until it's not convenient you can do anything a man can do right so stand your prissy ass up like you are equal

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David McIntosh
Spring, TX · a year ago

maybe don't say men are not needed and you can do everything that men can do! that's how men treat men ! the fact that you are complaining about something y'all created 😭

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letsgb
Henderson, NV · a year ago

If you don’t need a man and can do whatever they can then open your own door, get your own seat!! My woman gets treated like a queen cause she knows I’m the boss and treats me like a king!!

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Jennifer Beck
Rossville, KS · a year ago

Blame feminism. Why should they stand for you when you call them creeps and incels??? You don't get to treat men like shit and then expect them to treat you like a lady.

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Nohana Matt
Los Angeles, CA · a year ago

You guys have accused honestly well-intentioned men of being "creepy" one time too many. Find your own damn seat.

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Lauren Davis
Moreno Valley, CA · a year ago

These women have selective equality.. They want to look like the weaker vessel when they want to gain something but strive for equality when they want to push something.. every one of these men's have a right to comfort and relaxation as they travel JUST LIKE THIS WOMAN WHO IS EQUAL TO THESE MEN.. I wouldn't expect these men to stand up for another man who is able-bodied.. However, if someone is disabled or elderly man or woman I would be the first to offer up by seat but not simply because YOU'RE A WOMAN!..TF

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Jenn
Fall River, MA · a year ago

I agree with the men. You want equal rights, well there you go! I would never expect a man to give up his seat. I wouldn’t even notice it! Always the “feminist” who wants to pick and choose.

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sandra church
Mundelein, IL · a year ago

Well, let's just remember all these wemon yelling We don't need a man, I'm a strong, independent woman. Women use men just for money or status. Well here is your result.

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Kenneth Waters
Fernandina Beach, FL · a year ago

If you would like a man to get up for a woman, then stop telling nen are worthless POS. Stop telling men you don't need them. Woman can't have it both ways

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T. Justice
Max Meadows, VA · a year ago

You don't like standing? Then go find all the females that bitched and whined wanting to be equal to men and the ones that said we wasn't worth the air we breathe.

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Rachel Elisabeth Smeltzer
a year ago

dam it girl you need to decide if you want to be equal to a man or be a lady to a man dam it we woman was not made to be his equal the good lord made him stronger bigger and better at most things so man and woman would pair up correct dam it is as simple as mud pie

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Maru_Chan
a year ago

Your rights to be treated like a lady and a woman have been revoked due to the feminism movement. Chivalry and courtship is dead... women have spoken for you and said that you don't need a man in order to feel like a lady or a woman. That you can do that all by your own lonesome self, you can buy yourself flowers and hold your own hand, write your own name in the sand and love yourself better than any man. Enjoy being alone.

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Cheryle Lozada
Reno, NV · a year ago

That’s because we women told men that we didn’t need them to open doors for us nor hold chairs.Women have cursed men for doing all those things for them so we are equal and just the same as them soooo welcome to the world of equality….enjoying it yet???

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Rudolfo GAR
Yakima, WA · a year ago

Chivalry is about a man going out of his way to show a woman respect. When someone forces a man to show chivalry, it becomes harassment by the female. There is nothing wrong with the woman's legs, she can stand.

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Marvin Jones
Salinas, CA · a year ago

well ladies you blew that. the last time I did that I held the door open for a lady and she proceeded to try to curse me out telling me she's not handicapped so lady look in the mirror if you want to know where it went

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Juice
Miami, FL · a year ago

😂

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Shirley Vuick
Aiken, SC · a year ago

probably because the Democrats keep trying to change all the women into men and men just don't know who are women anymore so who do you stand up for LOL

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Bobbi
a year ago

SOME of us women are definitely ladies. Don't count all of us out. I make sure to say that you when a man holds open a door for me letting him know by the tone in my voice that his gesture was very much appreciated.

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Michelle Barnes
Clackamas, OR · a year ago

Too many women have gone around and been hostile to men opening doors and trying to be polite. You reap what you sow.

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Michael Wesley
Canandaigua, NY · a year ago

that's why it's dead, cause instead of men WANTING to do it out of respect and enjoyment, cause yes ladies men do enjoy providing and spoiling their ladies or women in general, women started demanding and took the enjoyment and fulfillment out of men doing it.

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Michael Robb
Dayton, OH · a year ago

just like equal rights you have the right to stand. People made the choice. It's sad to see it leave, but it's what you wanted . I hear all the time we don't need a man. Now you want a man's seat.

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Douglas Northcutt
La Harpe, KS · a year ago

Women now days want everything but don't bring nothing to the table. They expect you to work your self to death for them and they do nothing in return

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Lark D'Auria
Bloomington, IN · a year ago

I agree with the man and I am a woman. Old , pregnant, with child, disabled are reasons to give up a seat. Just because you are a woman is not a reason.

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Konahawaiithoughts
Waikoloa, HI · a year ago

That is true chivalry is dead because woman wanted equality . Why should I treat you any better than myself ?

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Extortion Two Six
a year ago

Just another Karen who feels she is owed something. Because you have two holes and a heartbeat doesn’t make you eligible to get preferential treatment. Go cause some problems elsewhere.

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Bowtie
Detroit, MI · a year ago

giving up your seat would be toxic masculinity sorry silly liberals have ruined it for real women. men are damned if they do damned if they don't 😆

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Anthony Wilms
Helendale, CA · a year ago

liberal woman want equal rights all the way up until they are uncomfortable my wife knows I'm the man and I treat her like the woman we don't have these problems

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pgm_gee
Sacramento, CA · a year ago

You all did it to yourself, this is equality. Don't worry about the men, worry about the men who are now women. I guess equality goes both ways🤣😂🤣

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Lisa Pate
Memphis, TN · a year ago

Why should they offer you a seat. It's every man, and woman, for themselves. This is what the ERA brought you. Deal with it.

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Will
Barnegat, NJ · a year ago

Once women stopped behaving like ladies then they get treated like men have since the beginning of time. So suck it up !!!

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Susan Holly
Lewiston, CA · a year ago

ladies you made it like this I never agreed with equal rights to women it's b******* now we're being treated like men see what you've done to us

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Britton Taylor
Florence, KY · a year ago

why should we give up our seats up to you when you treat us like dog s*** like we're nothing more than a piece of meat as fathers you treat us like we're second-rate citizens we have no rights to our children unless it's given to us by a court of law it's almost impossible for us to to get custody of our children even if the mother is abusing them so give me one valid reason why we should still do stuff like opening doors and pulling out chairs and giving up our seats for you start treating us better and we might start doing it again

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Brenda Schroeder
Wapakoneta, OH · a year ago

well remember women don't need men anymore that they can take care of themselves that's equality lol Boom go dude

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K. M.
Olivehurst, CA · a year ago

Tough stuff, bim. There are equal rights for you. Being a woman myself. U stand, dear. You didn't get on the train to push men out of theirs. I dont feel for you at all.

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Pedro
Surprise, AZ · a year ago

A woman in a bus is standing and looks around and says there is no gentleman in this bus anymore, and one guy looks around and replies we have gentlemen in this bus. What we don't have is seats.

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Etick Sanders
New York City, NY · a year ago

u are thinking like a kid walking around doing that bs grow up n go home also bc some men get off work n u thing I'm fixing to get up n let set when most of u don't even work stop it Becky

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Money Mitch
Wolcott, CT · a year ago

And this is the shit men are sick of, y’all not knowing what ya want. First you want the man to do and take care of everything… then the government came in and gave y’all and I do mean you all, money and free housing and now you don’t need a man you can do what he does on the day to day basis. So you act like us, dress like us, try to talk like us. So lady…. STAND LIKE US !!!!!! The fuck.

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Roob Boob
Hohenwald, TN · a year ago

chivalry went wherever ladylike went to. yall say yall don't need us men but you still expect us to open the doors give you our seat and pay for your meals and yet we're the ones out in the world building all these places you go the get more shit you don't need ......

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Remy333
Morgan City, LA · a year ago

I don't completely agree that chivalry is dead but i think that so many men have been disrespected by women who think they are entitled at the same time they say theyre equal with men and don't need men. You can't have it both ways.

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Roberta Cunningham
Jasper, AL · a year ago

I’m sorry some women have ruined good men for those of us that still believe Men don’t get the credit for all that they do. In no way am I equal to a man, I can’t do a lot of things that they can and I’m against these women who belittle men. I like being treated like a lady and I treat my man like the champion he is.

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Brian Baker
Bay City, MI · a year ago

this is what you get when throw a fit for equal rights...!! how does it feel to be treated like a man...?? you don't like it do you...!! welcome to our world...!! lmao 🤣

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Hugh Musser
Norman, OK · a year ago

I'm amazed they can talk down to us and be so demeaning while being demanding. I spent 40 years opening doors, walking of the street side of sidewalk and paying for everything. lol NO MORE

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Victor Andujar
New York, NY · 8 months ago

The men are on they're way to work to provide for the woman. now we can't even sit while slaving over you? Gezz 🙄

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Jenae Page
Rocklin, CA · 8 months ago

I speak as a woman, but I would never put someone down like that and if there's no seats on a bus it's fine just stand

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Kelz LaLa
Cleveland, TN · 5 months ago

Can we say ENTITLEMENT!

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MIKE JONEZZZ
Ravenna, OH · 7 months ago

the bear

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Michael Reeves
Greer, SC · 7 months ago

that's what women's rights have done.. js

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BOB OSO
California City, CA · 7 months ago

equal opportunity

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Séamas Klay
Modesto, CA · 8 months ago

what happened to strong and independent... thought you wanted to be equal?? "ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED!?!?" 😂😂😂

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SleezzyG
Charlotte, NC · 8 months ago

Women killed chivalry

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BmanTX69
Birmingham, AL · 8 months ago

🔥

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Larry Hood
Dallas, TX · 8 months ago

this is not inn Texas

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Ko Kono
Orlando, FL · 8 months ago

no because as a women, why tf would they give her their seat? She's not old or pregnant or disabled. they were there first, wait for a seat you're not above them? 🤨

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Yosobow Raw
Camdenton, MO · 8 months ago

are you assuming he's not female 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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T Brown
Barnstable, MA · 8 months ago

I’d say the same

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Collin Barnett
Potterville, MI · 8 months ago

them days ended when yall started to vote

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Dennis Gibson
Lee, FL · 8 months ago

I will get up to let a woman sit, it’s how I was raised. Opening doors etc. but woman say they don’t need men and they want the jobs that men have usually done in the past . Doesn’t work both ways. Men are weaker these days and woman want to be the strong gender. There are so many variables. GOD designed men and woman to be different in their roles in life. That’s lost as a whole. Not many real men left in the world and not many woman that except their role.

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jaxon davis
Troy, AL · 8 months ago

When women give there selves to anyone who seems interested mo Man is going to sit here and treat you amazing lmaoooooo

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Michael Crossley
Roanoke, VA · 8 months ago

you can stand there just as well as I can. why should I get up.

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michael martinez
Lexington, TX · 8 months ago

😂 no women worthy nowadays

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Republican
Peoria, IL · 8 months ago

It changed when females thought they could talk to a man however they wanted and still get treated like a queen. Respect goes both ways. If you Respect a man, the man will always respect you

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Josh Hermann
Missoula, MT · 8 months ago

Haaaaaaaaaaaa

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Buroni Conley
Gardiner, MT · 8 months ago

equality happened 😭😭😭

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