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xtra sprays (sprays)
Carmel, ME · 2 days ago
HOT

Apologize to that man and pray that he forgives you. That is hands down the worst thing a man can ever be accused of if he didn't do it and even if he proves he is innocent that accusation will follow him the rest of his life

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Susan Winks
Fairborn, OH · a day ago
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Take your daughter with you, and go face him, and both apologize to him. You both OWE him that.

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Jerry B
16 hours ago

What an EVIL man your 1st husband was. 1. He used his own daughter to manipulate you. 2. He asked his daughter to lie. 3. He defamed an innocent man. 4. He destroyed a marriage. 5. He caused his daughter to lose self respect and have a plagued conscience. 6. He deeply hurt 3 people, 2 of which he claimed to care about. In reality he only cared about himself. 7. He exploited and betrayed his daughter's trust. The mother did what any parent would do. I'm not taking a chance with my children. Better safe than sorry especially because if someone was assaulting my child, they might end up with extra holes in their body. She protected her child. Hard but sensible choice. However she should have continued to investigate the incident and I would have pressed charges and allowed the police to get to the truth before dissolving the union.

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Clifton Powell
Atlanta, GA · 18 hours ago

She shld go to jail lying abt a sexual assault she be a crime period

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Amanda Seitz
Dayton, OH · a day ago

This entire situation is sad. I was really molested and situations like this is why it’s so hard to get people to believe the victim.

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DARRYL GRIFFIN
Mebane, NC · a day ago

The stepfather suffered enough. Leave him alone.

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Thyrone Blackmore
Vicksburg, MS · a day ago

I hear the mother and the daughter..but what about the ex-husband he should be facing charges for enabling a child to lie ..

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Dee Mullings
New Haven, CT · a day ago

It’s wicked to falsely accuse someone of a horrific crime. The father is evil for making a child lie. A person’s life is ruined & daughter lived with that terrible sin for a long time. It causes physiological damage to all parties involved. Karma has no expiration date.

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Maggie Barbato
Winter Springs, FL · a day ago

12 years too late. Ship has sailed.

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Craig Hall
McKinney, TX · 3 hours ago

Nothing. You screwed up. Live with it. He's too good for you.

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Eric Ison
Van Buren Township, MI · 3 hours ago

Sue her real father...

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Marty Anderson
Mocksville, NC · 27 minutes ago

leave that man alone already hurt him he messed his life up let him move on you do the same and don't bother him

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Barry McAllister
Hernando, MS · a day ago

You owe him your humble apology and the daughter owes him one also

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nowoke
Strafford, MO · a day ago

accused without being able to defend yourself is unbearable. hope he doesn't give you the time of day.

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Kevin Green
33 minutes ago

this Type of this thing HAPPENS a lot and why its hard to KNOW for sure. When children are of the ages 6 up they will say anything to make their parent pleased with them. Its HORRIBLE that a parent would use there child in that type Of EVIL.

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Marty Stewart
Lincoln, NE · 2 days ago

a very good start you and your daughter both go apologize to him in person

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Sharon Surjue
Los Angeles, CA · an hour ago

If he is still available and there is love for each other maybe it’s salvageable. Your ex was wrong to involve a child in a grown up situation. 12 years is a long time.

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Elle Dee
Southfield, MI · 2 days ago

I pray he wasn’t convicted of this and sent to jail or forced to be put on a sex offenders list. However, you had to believe your daughter until you found out the truth. I would make my daughter tell the truth and exonerated this man. His life was probably ruined because of her lie. I would also make her, your daughter’s father, fess up too. Praying for the innocent man.

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Sue Bryan
Sun City, AZ · a day ago

You protected your daughter. Daughter was a pawn. Hate ex ,forgive daughter and send a note if apology to 2nd ex. You did nothing wrong.

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Stephanie Marshall
Champaign, IL · 2 hours ago

So sad, Ask God for forgiveness for ruining someone's reputation. I commend you for believing your daughter, I know women that were molested when they were girls & their mothers didn't believe them when they had courage to tell. Remember, your daughter was a child being manipulated by her dad. He should be apologizing to everyone involved.

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Cory Fiedler
Fergus Falls, MN · an hour ago

Nothing. That man wants nothing to do with you.

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Jules
New York City, NY · an hour ago

That's terrible!!

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robert purser
Las Cruces, NM · 15 hours ago

it's too late forget about it and move on

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Steve Dunn
Findlay, OH · 2 days ago

you can't fix it write a letter and jump in a river from a bridge

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Mike Hunt
a day ago

⚰️ 🪦

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s Sharon
Lemoore, CA · a day ago

more children are not believed than those thar make up abuse. what's amazing is women molested as children don't believe when their children tell them they're getting molested. it's so sad. I raised a stepdaughter bcuz her stepfather was molesting her, the mother believed her husband

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Pw
Pueblo, CO · 2 hours ago

Apologize to this man but leave the daughter out of it. She was a child and was manipulated by her own father. This affected everyone involved. How sad this is.

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Angelic Pinero
Tacoma, WA · 2 hours ago

Say sorry. Should be no question about it 🌸💕🌸💕

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Glorya Kiepper
Costa Mesa, CA · 17 hours ago

Your daughter should face some consequences. When kids are telling the truth, we have to believe them. Why would a 12 year-old girl listen to her father and make up such a terrible story a father would not treat his daughter that way. She became his collateral damage and destroyed her mother‘s happiness for what? Her father was the man she left because he was not a good husband, but she was a very good mother. I don’t know how quick I would be to forgive you and that man is long gone. I wish him well and I wish him love.🌸

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nah
16 hours ago

this easily goes beyond a simple "I'm sorry".

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elec
Pottsville, PA · 16 hours ago

Apologize now the ruined man’s life for an accusation that is not sure what to say when yourdaughters said for the people who are molested that’s not done lightly that is an insult to someone who has been molested well I guess she has to live with what she said and shame on your ex if you’re with him now I feel sorry for you. Nobody straight up, honest with you shame on all of them. Karma comes full circle.

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Bruce Calhoun
La Vernia, TX · 2 days ago

You’re a female, you will believe a child over a lie.

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Mark Da Man
Phoenix, AZ · 15 hours ago

Just move on. All actions have consequences. You made the wrong choice. Own it and accept the consequences.

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Guest Fox
Jupiter, FL · a day ago

You made your bed more than once, now lay in it. Everyone has to live with the choices they make.

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Glyn French
Snyder, TX · a day ago

Believing all women is how we got the Salem witch trials.

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ISeeDumbSheeple
Bloomington, IL · 16 hours ago

this is another reason to NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER date a single mother

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jill
Nashville, TN · a day ago

Go to him and ask for forgiveness…. He will forgive you and you both can heal. Take your daughter with you. Let her see the heartache and carnage she has caused.💔💔💔

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Mary k. Derian
Sparks, NV · a day ago

apologize, it's the only thing you can do, even if he dosent accept it you as a mom cannot be faulted for believing your child

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John Mckey
Gainesville, GA · a day ago

you hurt a person cause a jealous EX wanted you back,that's really sad but it happens all the time,jealousy like racism is a double edge sword it cuts deep,forgiveness is not the answer,this guy could have went to jail over a lie,it happens way to often

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John Mccormick
Davenport, IA · a day ago

Leave it alone what’s done is done

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Mrs.America
Westfield, MA · 16 hours ago

apologize to that man have your daughter too....your ex-husband is the creep

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Zorro
Hermitage, TN · 16 hours ago

Happens far more than people think; not necessarily that the ex tells the kids to say it, but the kids are either jealous of the new person in Mom's life or they believe that doing this will bring their daddy back home.

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Louise Orosz
Midway, UT · 3 hours ago

Did you go back to her father?

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Larry Bell
Idaho Falls, ID · 2 days ago

WOMEN

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Rick
Converse, TX · 3 hours ago

If it was me I wouldn't want anything to do with either of them. 12 years is too long. I would have moved on. Contacting me now would make me angrier and re-open those wounds.

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Duke Jackson
Cibolo, TX · a day ago

Real Truth is, If your thinking about it and you now know those facts of it, its only right by consciously personally making it known to him EXACTLY all that you just said. The choice of how or where it goes from there is Honestly is up to him whether it matters at all or not. Either way you will have cleared your conscience, whether your in hopes of another chance with him or it be trying to mend what damage you know that it did. First and foremost seek God's Answer and your Heart and Soul will know what is right with God about it. Good luck and God Bless

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Jerrie Micheline Swoopes-Watkins
Victorville, CA · 19 hours ago

I feel your pain.

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Peter “No” Lombardi
North Bellmore, NY · 17 hours ago

Ok

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Jerry B
16 hours ago

Wow.....

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Paul McCraw
Boyce, LA · a day ago

Too late he’s move on

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Janet Roberison Flowers
Chicago, IL · 3 hours ago

A Mothers Instinct Is To Protect Our Kids! There’s So Many Women Who Would Have Doubted Their Daughters When They Were Telling The Truth! I Would Have Believed My Daughter Also. Whenever The Opportunity Comes I Would Apologize But Not For Believing My Daughter. A Mothers Love💕💕💕

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Shelita Wilder
Milwaukee, WI · 4 hours ago

apologize

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1st amendment only
Bakersfield, CA · 4 hours ago

that is so damaging and horriable. the father should . l just don't know🤬but the daughter knew she was lying and knew better. really sad.

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Dee
Philadelphia, PA · 4 hours ago

What a weak man your ex is😡😡😡😡 putting your baby in the middle. Mom, you did what a lot of women don't do, you believed your child. RESPECT. Find that man, beg for his forgiveness

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Casca
Dothan, AL · 5 hours ago

typical knee jerk reaction . women always expect the men to be guilty with just hearsay evidence... nothing new.

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Money Man
Birmingham, AL · 6 hours ago

go back she's old enough for him to touch now u did say step daughter it Will be ok only if she's over 18🤔😲

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Errin Luxem
Hutchinson, MN · 6 hours ago

yeah go talk to him. and maybe restart

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Marjorie Moreland
Lufkin, TX · 6 hours ago

You did the right thing with the information you were given. Always choose the child. Her adult tearful confession is proof positive of your positive influence and unconditional love. This has to so difficult for your daughter to live with. More heavy must have been the unimaginable weight of those false aligations for her stepfather. My sincere prayers for complete healing now that everyone is finally standing in truth.🙏

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