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Carolyn Bartley
North Charleston, South Carolina · 5 days ago
HOT

No, he invited her to dinner, not her friends.

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George Houghton
Hephzibah, GA · 8 days ago
HOT

women always throw that phrase out there : a real gentleman should pay . I say a real woman would not invite 5 other people in a date and expect the man to pay for her friends free meal .

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Andrew Ligon
Opelika, AL · 8 days ago

I don't blame him, when he first saw them he should have went back to his car and went back home

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Jason LeBrun
La Vergne, TN · 4 days ago

why does she have to clarify a "black" woman?

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Sharon Adams
Des Moines, IA · 7 days ago

Talk about having no manners. Who does she think she is to bring other people on HER date. Obviously no class!

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Michael
Bismarck, ND · 4 days ago

He was not responsible for the bill for her friends. He should have paid for his and his date.

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“Scars of Beauty”
Birmingham, AL · a day ago

Nope 🤷🏿‍♀️ he wasn't wrong. Why are they there on a first date night 🤔? I would've known it was a scam after watching old gul suck down that lobster tail 🤦🏿‍♀️.

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Ellis
Milwaukee, WI · 8 days ago

he did the right thing 🥰

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MiMi&Me
Dayton, OH · 4 days ago

He should have left the moment that the "so call" date and her entourage arrived. Just should have stood up and walked away.

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Believer
Martinsburg, WV · 6 days ago

No way, she’s a con artist and go what she deserved.

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Desiree Rankin
Buffalo, NY · 3 days ago

This is not real!!

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KE Smith
4 days ago

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Carol helms
Columbia, KY · 5 days ago

I see this a lot. don't see white women doing this. ordering take out for their kids, or inviting friends. is that a thing in black families or just st some slimy women. sickening how these girls try to rip off guys. not women, little girls.

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George Everett
St. Helena, NC · 6 days ago

NO this is a game my Black Sisters play on Black men. They think it’s a game.And a truly way to get over on Black Men. Shame on those women. I’m glad their faces are shown

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Cassandra Harris
Garner, NC · 5 days ago

He could have paid for her dinner too but the other ladies would have been on their own. He did not invite them out to dinner.

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Tara Roos
Spokane, WA · 5 days ago

These women are an embarrassment and trifling to say the least!

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Addison Jones
Virginia Beach, VA · 5 days ago

When I walked in and seen all them sitting at the table. I would have spoke to them and left.

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Michael Thompson
Wilmington, NC · 5 days ago

His first mistake was letting her choose the restaurant.

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Thomas Clemons
Fredericksburg, VA · 4 days ago

Hell “NO””… She wanted her friends to have dinner then she should have have her finances in order.. GD Gold Digger..🤬🤬🤬🤬

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Ronnie Walker
Baton Rouge, LA · 3 days ago

Hell no to the no not me she must be crazy as hell

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Liz Coaxum
Brooklyn, NY · 8 days ago

I would have paid for everybody's meal that would be the right thing to do but then again I got nine different personalities so I don't know which one is speaking right now or normal one of my speakings will tell you are you out your mind but a crazy one in my personality would say pay for the whole meal

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Daryle Owen
Slidell, LA · 9 days ago

gold digger, that is so low class ladies, and saying ladies is a real stretch.😳😳😳😳😳

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Moses Hargrove
Newark, NJ · 13 hours ago

hell no he shouldn't pay for nothing that they ordered no that's crazy

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Danyelle
Clementon, NJ · 3 days ago

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Moses Hargrove
Newark, NJ · 13 hours ago

I want to pay for it either that's crazy

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Pepe le pue
5 days ago

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Diana Boozer
Chicago, IL · 5 days ago

smart I'm gone

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Barbara Wooters-dewey
Kenosha, WI · 3 days ago

Hell no this was weird with no respect for him they thought they they could use him!!!! Hell no the way he did it they set themselves up psalm 35 in short be careful of what you do to others you may be digging the same hole for yourself !!! Which they did..

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Irma Babb
Pocono Summit, PA · 5 days ago

no this man had a date with one person not 5female , so she should paid she invited them not him .

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Robin Holladay
Opelika, AL · 5 days ago

absolutely not. she's in the wrong, she shouldn't of brought all the others with her

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Marie Franklin
Baltimore, MD · 7 days ago

No he should not have to pay…she was wrong to bring all though peoples…she really try to get over on him…

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Gretchen Marsden
Rancho Cucamonga, CA · 7 days ago

Man was correct! He should have also lef before food was ordered.

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Cody Bartlett
Green Bay, WI · 4 days ago

no

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Zuki Stone
Flossmoor, IL · 7 days ago

something is wrong here folks. that man was celebrating his wife's birthday. his wife. her friends wanted him to pay for their meal too. he said hell nah. the title is a lie.

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Gregory Gibbs
Des Plaines, IL · 6 days ago

Well , I’m not a gentleman.

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Linda Lucas
Moses Lake, WA · 7 days ago

Hell no! Date invited them. Let her pay. If she can't/won't take them to jail.

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Barbara Brown
New Haven, CT · 3 days ago

HELL NAW I AGREE WITH HIM 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅👍🏾

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Vinson Thompson
Winston-Salem, NC · 3 days ago

HELL to the no no no this Suppose to have been a dinner date for two. not Connie. Karen Betty.Barbara and you hell Jack me up on the first day. 2-Gs.Girl Get Gone Goofey Greese Gabalend 😳🥺😰🤨😡😤

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Alicia Jacques
Muncie, IN · 5 days ago

Absolutely not 😳

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Ana Reyes
Machesney Park, IL · 3 days ago

No. He asked her. Not her freaking friends. I guess he can tell what kind of person she is. And that really rude of her! screw her!

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Jackie Davis
Somerville, AL · 3 days ago

hell no they better have some money for theirs own bills

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Henry smith
Milwaukee, WI · 5 days ago

No, he shouldn't she and her crew have some nerve expecting him to pay for their meal .saying a real man would pay .a real woman wouldn't have done this bull Brother's, this is becoming the norm be careful who you invite to dinner

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Donald West
Houston, TX · 3 days ago

hell no. He did what I would have done

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justin washington
Rochester, NY · 6 days ago

she Played her self 😂

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Grace Goewey
Wilbraham, MA · 6 days ago

Man was correct

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Anthony Field
Benton Harbor, MI · 3 days ago

Hell no, and she know she was damn wrong for thinking he was going to pay for her friends shit. He did right got the hell on.

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Mad Poet
Little Rock, AR · 3 days ago

I would have left when I first saw that the friends were there. He's trying to date her, not her friends.

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Bernadine Palmore
New Bern, NC · 3 days ago

no.. have a conversation before the date..🙏

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Anthony Jackson
Baton Rouge, LA · 3 days ago

hell 👎 no

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Turtle Arguinzoni
Indianapolis, IN · 3 days ago

No

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Hope Mitchell
Memphis, TN · 4 minutes ago

no, he was right

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Kelly Boulas
Westland, MI · 6 minutes ago

heck no he shouldn't she is the one that invited her hungry friends 😀

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Kelly Boulas
Westland, MI · 8 minutes ago

what a 🤡

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Cee Low
New York, NY · 23 minutes ago

he did right

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Gwayne Tee
Dallas, TX · 30 minutes ago

nope

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Zachary Strealy
Huntington, WV · 37 minutes ago

no

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George Warren
Detroit, MI · 39 minutes ago

Hell No,he did the Right thing.

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Ken Talley
Detroit, MI · 44 minutes ago

hell no 👎

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Ed Archuleta
Englewood, CO · an hour ago

not at all, despite being greedy and then to bring your friends, that's a low life b I to the t to the c to the h

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Robert Sanchez
New York City, NY · an hour ago

no he should not

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Francheska Woods
Herndon, VA · an hour ago

Hell No

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Marla Valentine
Fort Madison, IA · an hour ago

And, she's was handling that lobster!!! 😂😂😂 She can handle that check just like she sucks that lobster tail up...lol

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Lori Lee
Galt, CA · 2 hours ago

She and her friends R cray-cray!

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Therese Birmingham
Green Castle, MO · 2 hours ago

hell no he shouldn't pay

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Richard Adams
Cleveland, OH · 2 hours ago

hell no he shouldn't pay he did the right thing

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Don
University Place, WA · 2 hours ago

No, he should not pay everybody's bill wrong answer

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Arthur Riggs
Columbus, GA · 2 hours ago

hell naw

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Jeff Sparks
Burien, WA · 2 hours ago

no

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Holly Beard
Taylorville, IL · 2 hours ago

the fact that she is black has zero to do with this issue!

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Amanda Hicks
Huntington, WV · 2 hours ago

no he should not.

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