AmITheAsshole
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It’s her fathers fault he needs to talk to her n you need to set guidelines for her to followed
I'm sorry but that 7 yr old would have gotten her little tail spanked and punished . no matter what you deserve love and respect and if she's doing this now give her a few more years it will be worse. step parents normally do more than most real parents do. . stand up and treat her as you'd do your own child if they acted this way.💕
someone would've got pinched
First of all dad need to step up and I'm so sorry your going through that and you have to put your foot down with her and your husband and demand that while she may not like you but she will respect you, And those are the rules you'll except nothing less. You teach people how you want to be treated, husband included, he is taking advantage of your kindness, and under no circumstances should you ever allow a child to hit you. Are you kidding me? At that point, I'd cease all care taking responsibilities until dad straightened out his child and called a family meeting, and we created a united front the end. And you are her mother as well it takes a village.
first why would you wipe your wall with the same towel you just wiped the toilet with GROSS 🤢
The bible says spare the rod spoil the child
I definitely understand I helped raise my ex 1 yr old daughter at the time who mother left her out doorstep we broke up when she was 6 I continue to be in her life she stopped respecting me and speaking me once her birth mom came back in her life at 11 then disappeared again until she turned 18 which was this yr I had to walk away no one ever checked her behavior or disrespect since was a child and I couldn't take it no longer yes it hurts but sticking through a situation where your being taking for granted and unappreciated hurts even worse
Why would let your toilet get that nasty.......I don't give a muck....NO MA'AM!
Baby girl. I am a professional.. Start ignoring her. Don't do one thing for her that you don't have to do. And\nWhen she disrespects you and talks down to you. Ignore her..
Do what you do if that’s where you want to be, 🙏🏾🙏🏾🧏🏽♀️
Time to leave. If she's that bad, then refuse to take care of her. You need to let her dad know you're not going to take it anymore.
Now that’s Js nasty she need to go in there herself and clean that shiii up bc ain’t no damn way that toilet and everything else looking like that tf🙄😷🤮
Sounds like a Family meeting ASAP
stop it now
sounds like u need to be talking to her father.. I'm not putting up with nobody's disrespectful child. period
Make your own child
Get out of it looks like the father isn't handling her like he should it's start with respect to u
Been there done that and neither of my stepchildren respect me. They’re adults now and I decided years ago to let it go. We have a cordial relationship but I will never open up my heart to them again. Reality is they will never love you the way you deserve to be. I cried and was very saddened but I finally got yo a place where I am at peace with being their dad’s wife only.
Wait a minute 1st of all I wouldn't be a 7 punching bag go with your daddy. Come get your child
you raised her too, so you have the right to discipline her and you deserve respect....
UNDERSTAND - you are the adult. No child overrules that!
leave him his kid ain't your problem
her parents need to talk to her
AMEN AMEN TO THAT ONE MY SISTER YOU R DAMN SHOW RIGHT 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I am also a bonus mom and girl we just got custody I am treated like crap!!! I 1000th percent understand it's hard boo.
🌸lady just leave you deserve better 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
You shouldn't be posting it. This should be between you, hubby and the biological mother to discuss and come up with a plan. It's clear that it's something going on with this child as this isn't normal seven Year old behavior . Everything just doesn't warrant the public eye. This should be private family business.
Tell Dad to move her to her biological mother’s house. You are her Mom if you have been taking care of her from 9 months of age. You showed up to her things, loved her and done everything for her. I was adopted but my parents are the people that raised me, loved me and went to all of my school and all of my shows, track meets etc. you cannot be a punching bag. Your husband needs to stand up for you.
When she comes, leave. This goes for both sides (step mom or dad). Boundaries are set by the person they’re attached to. And you my dear, waited to long to make sure those boundaries were set! 🤔
ewww no gloves
I was attacked by 1 of my many bonus daughters... and the police were called... I didn't get arrested... (THANK THE MOST HIGH) BUT I STILL FEEL A WAY...
why would you clean the commode with a bath towel then you going to was it the other towel,use a different towel only for the toilet, thank you
I feel you!!! Lord has mercy. she needs trauma therapy. I'm in those shoes
stop with the gentle parenting speak up for urself,
I’m just wondering why that toilet looks like that
Maybe it is time for you to find you a better companion. 😍😍😍
Glad you cleared that house
look ma... being a step mother is hard she's still a baby right now. you said it yourself you've showed up when you didn't have to.been there when you didn't have too be. she may not show it now but give it a few years she will love and respect you for what your doing now!!
start telling her dad what shes doing to you record everything and see how he handles it after you show him the footage of her treating you bad if he still lets her do it then hunny that aint the family for you no man no matter what should not allow a child to treat an adult that way no matter what and your the one who stepped up not stepped out take control baby or it will just get worse and no person deserves to be treated bad no matter what
I don't know about anyone else but you have all my support you are very right you are human you have feelings and I don't care whether Mom likes it or not she should always respect you because you take care of her child.
you should sit down with both paternt and see what is the problem. There may be a reason why she is acting out. She may need some counseling.
No ma'am. Have your talk with her father..right now. You don't deserve this. If he can't get control & set boundaries with this child, up to & including discipline, lef her 'real' mama keep her..period.🤔
Sending you lots of strength—stay strong! I understand the challenges you're facing with today’s kids; it’s disheartening to see such a lack of respect and manners. Your situation feels a bit unfair since it’s not your child. I really hope your husband treats you to a lovely dinner soon to appreciate all the effort you’re putting in. You’re an incredible queen, doing your best to nurture another queen. You're truly making a difference!
women with children always say its a package deal, so ladies its a package deal live with it or not.
I have bonus kids to a boy and a girl I've been in their life since one was 6 years old and the other was 8 years old and we're still together this day and yes there's ups and downs Yes I'm the bad person at times I'm the one they hate but like you said i always been there always showed up when they needed me just hang in there
Fall back a little, set up lunch or dinner first, when she arrives you go get you hair and/or nails done. let Dad handle her without you for two days. you keep busy.
if you are tired of it send that baby back to her mama or to her grandparents you are tired of her abusing you and if your husband don't like it oh well God bless her he's not the one sitting there going through this with this kid I'm just saying to make it better for you
You need to tell your husband, her father how you're feeling. 💕