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someone would've got pinched
It’s her fathers fault he needs to talk to her n you need to set guidelines for her to followed
first why would you wipe your wall with the same towel you just wiped the toilet with GROSS 🤢
start telling her dad what shes doing to you record everything and see how he handles it after you show him the footage of her treating you bad if he still lets her do it then hunny that aint the family for you no man no matter what should not allow a child to treat an adult that way no matter what and your the one who stepped up not stepped out take control baby or it will just get worse and no person deserves to be treated bad no matter what
Time to leave. If she's that bad, then refuse to take care of her. You need to let her dad know you're not going to take it anymore.
First of all dad need to step up and I'm so sorry your going through that and you have to put your foot down with her and your husband and demand that while she may not like you but she will respect you, And those are the rules you'll except nothing less. You teach people how you want to be treated, husband included, he is taking advantage of your kindness, and under no circumstances should you ever allow a child to hit you. Are you kidding me? At that point, I'd cease all care taking responsibilities until dad straightened out his child and called a family meeting, and we created a united front the end. And you are her mother as well it takes a village.
That’s on her father not you. He’s supposed to address that situation. So obviously he’s not doing what he’s supposed to be doing as a father/or a man
parents are so lazy these days yeah its your kid but she is you better half take of your spouse like a man
ur a good woman but don t let the baby get u down remember she a baby one day she will thank u
leave
so you already answered your own question. you created a safe place for this child which is why she feels safe to treat you poorly because she knows that you are her safe place. I know, I've gone through it too, it gets better.
baby don't worry about what people say you know how you feel that's what counts and being disrespected yeah my statement will be if you can't control your kids to respect me I can't do nothing for her I mean keep her from harm but if they both haven't heard of disrespect you or you don't count your feelings don't count and you can't keep on doing that cuz she going to grow up and be adult you know kisses and hugs and love and bless you keep you safe
That’s her dad’s fault and he needs to do something about that. Plus why would you wipe your walls with the same towel you used to wipe your toilet with🤮
yes you are so right about it all and the dad need to address it to his daughter
I'm not going to be bothered with no child that I can't discipline😳🥺
yes you are right
Well talk yo her Dad,Of no results get the stepping because you will never replace that Mother.👍
Where is The Father? You All Need A Family Talk
I totally understand I went through the same thing!! now I don't talk to him because he has no discipline as an adult.
let her father deal with her! You are taking too much from anyone's child!!! People do to you what you allow!🤔
Discipline her
your absolutely right !! walk away and let dad deal with her so he gets a taste of what your going through.she screams walk away let her and dad calm her down. you don't have to be her real Mom. dad should be correcting her actions, not allowing her treating anyone let alone you with distrspect. you need to out your foot down as to how you will allow her to act toward you. like I said above remove yourself if she's not going to act right. go for a walk or visit someone just for a bit to remove yourself from her reactions to her dad's rules.you dont need to be in the middle or her punching bag.then maybe dad will finally step in and do the right thing by her and you. that's his job until dad lays out fair rules to abide by Good Luck!
you know what her mother is the one that got her doing the s*** she's doing keep your head up children don't know no better if they're doing with her Todd unfortunately for you you're dealing with this and it's sad but in the long run she going to know who's really there for her keep your head up we are here to help in every way that we can raise the children the right way and that's what you're doing so keep your head up that baby don't know what you know she's doing what she's taught I love you amen
I'm sorry but that 7 yr old would have gotten her little tail spanked and punished . no matter what you deserve love and respect and if she's doing this now give her a few more years it will be worse. step parents normally do more than most real parents do. . stand up and treat her as you'd do your own child if they acted this way.💕
,😂😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰
during the summer, her dad would have to rent the 2 of them an apartment even for his weekends aswell. so that I didn't catch a case, this would be the only solution.
I feel you! We must remember that children/youths don't come with a guarantee. They are learning how to be human, how to be a daughter/son, and how to distinguish right from wrong whether she/he is yours or not. We need to be an example and not give up. Thank Jesus for Caregivers all over the world 🥰💕💕👍.
you are awesome 💯💯💯 FACTS CORRECT but I would be dealing with the Dad at the end of the day
Boy I would have gotten a backhand across the mouth and instant attitude adjustment.😆
That’s right and I’ve been there to
that towel needs to be thrown away
he daddy need to have you all to sit down and talk to her .about how she need to lesson to you and he need to get on her about hit you .. he not doing his part of been a father and have her to respect you.
My question is why the bathroom is so messy? Matter of fact, why is the toilet full of old urine? Maybe you're getting folded by her for a reason. Ewww
What is the real mom ????a mother is someone that’s nurturing, kind, loving, selfless provides loves unconditional. You may be a mom and not have to give birth .if she was a wedding gift appreciate her and pray that she sees you for the gift that you are in her life.💕
she owe you respect you right you got a right to be tired we'll pray for her at the same time I will be praying too ❤️❤️
grl she probably doesn't clean because it her role model. like wtf. that's not how I clean.
We'll if no one has said it to you, thank you for taking care of this baby, accepting her as your own, and loving her as a Mother would. Have you tried having a sit down conversation with her and her Dad? Maybe Dad doesn't realize how much it's hurting you? Maybe he could try and step in and help the situation? I pray for you and your family. You sound like a wonderful Stepmom!🥰🥰🥰🥰
you deserve much better. not only from the kid but her father as well mater of fact he should treat you like a queen.
Get rid of both of them.
welcome to motherhood. Some Mom's go through the exact same thing🌸
you are a better stepmom than me bc she needs to be checked & so does her dad, respect goes along way.
Why did you not use glove to scrub toilet, wipe the wall down with the same town you wiped the toilet with? Just nasty but bless you on your step kid. It’s also because she knows your her safe place and now she is over pushing her bounds. Time outs and spankings are affective and not harsh. Just stay strong and keep your foot down stand firm.
No. You're not treating her like a real mom. You need to make her responsible for her behavior
You train people how to treat you. If you have been putting up with this 🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️?
Respect
awful
Lay the laws down and stick to them. Sometimes, you have to demand respect, whether she likes it or not.
You definitely need some cleaning lessons. And it’s your husband’s job to handle her attitude. You need to sit down with them, but please look up some cleaning ways because that’s not it.
I think you should have a family meeting with both her parents to come up with a behavior plan. Respect is a must! God bless and keep you covered as he guide you thru this difficult time.
Both parents should sit down and have a serious talk with her.
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