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All races play loud music...I'm 71 and play loud music...he was only there for a minute..Constant complainer..My neighbors play their Spanish music till 4 in the morning and I say nothing ..
He is a personal delivery guy, his car , and his music.......Pay his car insurance and yes he will turn it down only for u😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
My neighbors across the street play their African music. I get to dancing in my house, hell, then I move on outside to the driveway. Shit it sounds good to me.
I understand that she didn’t want him to wake up her child .. but she was very disrespectful in her approach. Ignorance begets rudeness. He works for Amazon not FedEx or UPS their code of conduct rules are totally different. She was very lucky he didn’t harm her or that child of hers.
Clear people flood anything of color but go silent on other clear people,raised that way assumong they are God of the earth.
You know he's stupid - he works for Amazon.
It was loud. N he was rude Af!!!! . Why pull up in anyone's driveway with loud music blasting, that alone is rude as hell. Smh
I heard her, I heard him, but I didnt hear his music. Seems she is louder than his music. She is a trouble maker stirring up chaos for likes
ok..quick question... name ONE time in any other job pulling up to a customer's house blasting music would be considered ok? They have headphones for a reason. If your music is important to YOU, then keep it to YOURSELF. especially on the job. Cashier? nope. Burger flipper? nope. car salesmen? nope. teacher? nope. stocker? nope. police? nope. doctor? nope. not a single job would be ok with this behavior. hes not exempt from being professional. you deliver to PEOPLE at PEOPLES HOMES ofcourse you need to be considerate to the PEOPLE at the PEOPLES HOMES youre delivering to.
She Asked Nicely With A Valid Reason! What’s The Payoff For Calling The Customer A”Dummy” SimplyFor Asking A Simple Request? WHAT IS THAT?? Street Cred, These Days? WTF? A Male BULLYING A WOMAN WITH CHILD ON HER OWN PROPERTY Is Not Acceptable! So Out Of ALL THE VIABLE Responses, Homeboy Went With All That! Waste Of Time, Energy, Money & LIFE!! It Is NOT DIFFICULT To Treat People In The Same Way That They Treat Others! If You Don’t Have Anything Nice To Say, Say NOTHING AT ALL,”DUMMY!
he's on the job & not hurting nobody using his own vehicle to do deliveries 🤔🤨🤔🤨🙄😒💯🙄😒💯
She’s outside screaming. If the music didn’t wake the baby up she did
It seems to.mr that some of you on this page miss the numerous points. first of all, why not just apologize to the lady and tell her okay then proceed to hand her all of her packages and not even throw it down to the ground without an attitude and call her a name! He is at work and further more being recorded. I hope he does d not lose his job! ylYou must be professional at all times regardless if your ego was hurt. Many of us on this thread don't seem to understand this, why!? 🤔
The energy you give is the energy you get.
What did she do wrong? I think it’s a reasonable expectation the delivery person doesn’t blast music on the job.
😲😆😆😆 I didn't hear no music 😆😆
The problem is people expect to talk to others as rudely and sharp toned as they want and have the audacity to expect a courteous reply !
1st of all I hate low vibe unhealthy frequency music too. But the only frequency that’s more annoying than that is the high pitched sound of a Karen in the wild lol
Good grief. Calm down people. He is a DELIVERY driver. He stops, drops off and leaves. Not like he is going to "hang around and shoot the breeze" with you. Yes I am a Karen by birth name. Go ahead and make your comments against me. I'm entitled to an opinion too.
Weird I don’t hear any music but I hear her loud mouth. Plus your child should be able to sleep during “loud music” especially the kind noone can hear. What a Karen
He was rude and she “asked” him to turn it down. No one wants to hear somebody’s bass music all over the neighborhood.
As if her voice won’t wake the child up, he said what he’s said, I would have made more noise, and let her deal with the child waking up
I didn't hear any music..
well I didn't hear no music and the base I heard was coming from her mouth so where is the loud music at and why is she even yelling at him yeah she's being respectful but rude at the same damn time so there's a lot of people on here I'm reading the comments a lot of people being more racist than anything so they're not saying it being racist but their thoughts are racist but I'm just saying my opinion
no he shoulda been considerate. it is his personal car but he's using his personal car for a work activity and should be considerate of his customers/ clients
She's just pissy and bossy. Don't come at people like that, it's disrespectful.
if he woulda pulled up in my driveway blasting his music, I woulda been like, hell yeah! turn that up!! but my kids are adults. if I had toddlers, I woulda been like thank you for delivering my package! have a great day!
Does she not know the word “please”? She came with attitude, and she got attitude right back. The world doesn’t tiptoe around your sleeping baby. You want it that quiet, move to the country.
No, she just wanted to make a pass at him.Because probably he was good looking, and she didn't know how to go about it.She went about it in the wrong way
Not everyone wants to interact. Get your package after they are gone.
I mean... out of respect you dont just pull up in someone's driveway with your music blasting. unfortunately a lot of people dont have respect or manners.
Maybe I have selective hearing, but I didn’t hear any music coming from his car; HOWEVER, I did hear her loud and clear
Her snatching was the problem. He didn’t have to deal with her arrogance.
Trump got y’all talking crazy 😂
I'm still watching this video, and I'm not hearing no music period,and I know the people in the comments can't hear no music, they just need something to talk about, ya racism is showing, she is the rude and ignorant 1
It is unprofessional to roll up to someone’s house and deliver a package with music and bass blasting and along with this individual being rude on top of that I would fire him. Doesn’t matter if he is in his personal car and if you are being reimbursed for driving your car then you need to follow company rules and conduct
He's blasting disgusting stupid rap music. I'd be pissed too
Honestly I didn’t see anything wrong with what she said. I was raised that you always turn your music down when you drive into neighborhoods as a courtesy. It’s not like he can’t turn it back up when he drives off but maybe that’s just me, maybe I worked in the service & health industry for too long where empathy goes a long way & prevents arguments. If it was me, I would’ve just ignored it since life in general is noisy, some ppl are loud and it is what it is (obviously raised in the city😂) but to me, she asked fairly nicely with good reason. Had she been a bitch about it then I would’ve understood but maybe they both could’ve just minded their business considering this interaction takes 2 seconds & isn’t worth arguing over 🤷🏾♀️
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she worried about his loud music because it might wake up her baby. but she comes out the door loud talking to him. but what about her sleeping baby? 😅😂
She was looking for trouble. If your child is sleeping the world doesn’t stop. Your child should be able to sleep thru music, tv, etc.
turn down for what
I’d Report him to Amazon !! Rude behavior!!
Everybody has their opinions but when on duty at work, blaring music isn't okay. It's very rude and unprofessional.
she could have let that slide. The dude was only going to be a couple of minutes in that spot. She wanted to be a Karen.
All y'all need to realize it ain't what you say it's how you say it. She was condescending all throughout this
He needs to be fired. Babies can wake up off the smallest noise or vibration and he's on her property when he should have parked on the damn street
your in a neighborhood, respect goes along way . how ever long your there. respect the key to life. you get what you give.
nope. ge not living there. wait til he leave. duh
That shit used to piss me off, don’t tell me to turn my music down while I’m working. My music definitely isn’t going to wake up your child stop the bs. Had an old man do this while I was delivering one day, we got into a huge argument then two of his neighbors told him to go back inside and close the windows then, cause I’m just trying to work. 👌🏾
It was so LOUD you couldnt even hear when the package fell 😡....the fatigue🤦🏾♀️ !!!
But no one has anything to say about how she snatched the first package yeahhhh ok KAREN I would have slapped her he’s dropping off a package he’s not chilling so it wasn’t tht serious plus his music isn’t loud his base is she act like he wasn’t about to pull off… and yes his representing a company so he shouldn’t have his base up like tht BUT DNT ACT LIKE HE IS THE ONLY ONE IN THE WRONG
I'm on her side on this one. I live in a nice neighborhood that had renters a few doors down. They would blast loud music during nap time & if you ever had a 2 year old, you know they are HELL without naps. It's rude and no regard for the public.
I can't even hear the music how she hear the base all the way in the house
She did ask nicely, why not?
what exactly did he say to her I didn't understand.
Turn the music down!! It’s YOUR music that only YOU wanna hear!! Respect is at an all time low 🙏🏾🥹
Noise ordinance still exists in some areas even if he’s in his own vehicle. You can blast music on the interstate
Just because you enjoy listening to your favorite music, does not mean everyone else should hear it. People ask why do you yell, it’s because loud music deafens them. You have to yell because they can’t hear a normal voice anymore
Really like he was going to be there for an extended period of time. I feel she asked for that when cars are traveling around neighborhood playing music do she think they would care about her child or anyone else’s. She felt good calling him ignorant but it’s on both sides. She felt her privilege was more valuable. He said not today
Come on lady, dude is there 2min. wout ur talking, he would be gone. SOMETIMES, LESS IS MORE.. If he knew better he would do better..Or he doesn't care about anyone else?
she could have let him drop the packages at her door and keep it moving. It's in her nature to correct an adult she probably has no control of what happens inside of her home. The need to confront a black man outside took precedence. Have to learn that everything isn't your fight
He's on the job and shouldn't pull up cranking, POV or not.
She should kept her mouth shut. Always starting trouble for themselves . He was leaving, shut up!
Karen is making more noise than his music 🙄