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Lori Lacey Lyle
Queen Creek, AZ · 5 months ago
HOT

because we look different! why does it always go there? not that it's just wrong but because we look different. pathetic!

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Sue Singley
Vista, CA · 5 months ago
HOT

You are teaching your daughter that she will get blamed for something that someone else did because she looks different. What the hell you’re like drowning her in racism maybe I’m not wording it right but there is something wrong with whatever this is you can teach the lesson without teaching racism

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Moola Moola
Flint, MI · a month ago

proud of the creator that was a good example of setting for your child you did the right thing and I'm proud of you we need more people like you.

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Martin Woods
Glendora, CA · 5 months ago

Why are you saying it's cause she looks different that she'll be blamed stop instilling racism into your children then blame everyone else when she does wrong and screams it's cause she black instead of this little show you put on for the camera you should've took the little girl home and told her dad yourself

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Adonna Barnes
New Orleans, LA · a month ago

Y is he putting the child on social media, be a so called man n go talk to her parent lame punk anything for likes on social media n he's also putting his kid on it..

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Truth1
Wake Forest, NC · 5 months ago

It does not matter what color you are a thief is a thief. Agree?

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Jessica Nicole
5 months ago

Racism is taught not born with, I know you made this just to get likes and comments but I’ll say it anyway hopefully no one else will

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It’sMimi🪭
5 months ago

Gotta school ours early!✊🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾👈🏾

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Keisha Medley Istandalone
Quincy, MA · 5 months ago

you are so right GOOD DAD🥰

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Minerva Rivera
Elizabeth, NJ · 5 months ago

Ok first thing is, after this one time my daughter would not be friends with this young girl, she’s taking money from her Dad, imagine what she’ll be doing at 15,16. How can you trust her not to take something from your home. Not what your daughter needs to be learning, or hanging with.

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Jewell Fisher
Oroville, CA · 5 months ago

you guys are making comments about the father when he knows more of the back story than you do. Maybe that girls father gives off racist vibes so he already knows what the outcome is!

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Susan Marie Jiannine
South Mills, NC · 5 months ago

Why always racism? Just don't steal no matter what you look like.

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Adonna Barnes
New Orleans, LA · a month ago

He's still blaming his daughter she told him she didn't see... The comment about they look different is racist n has nothing to do with the incident r theft after the racial comment he says Presley can come back n play 🤔 That racial bull crap is getting outta hand... I'm black so don't try to come for me..

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VO7
Hampton, VA · 5 months ago

Realism not racism. I had to have that conversation with my son when he went to college. We discussed profiling, proper traffic stop behavior, and to leave if his group is engaging in poor behavior.

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Shinigami
San Jose, CA · 5 months ago

People are so sensitive about the race talk it’s not racist or putting into a adolescent mind that because they look different this WILL happen. It’s a safety precaution because this does happen in the world obviously. It’s a good thing to teach a variety of lessons within this situation but one is the realism that being black can portray you as a “bad seed” when that’s not the case. There’s nothing racist about this, you can clearly see they has interracial friends so bringing up the consequences for this while incorporating race is also helpful for their development.

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Kerry Case
Coatesville, PA · 5 months ago

He did what he needed to do to protect his daughter.

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Skye Gandee
New Orleans, LA · 5 months ago

I understand where he’s coming from. But not all white people move that way.

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Julia Ann Dearth
Chillicothe, OH · 3 months ago

why would he even tell them that? racism is learned tf

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Papo
Philadelphia, PA · 3 months ago

I hate that this is the truth ... good job man

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Kelly
New Bedford, MA · 5 months ago

True Respect to this dad.

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HereWeGo
5 months ago

Presley needs to be sent home to never come back.

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PA724Jay I
Wampum, PA · 5 months ago

💯 lesson taught and hopefully learned 👍🏼 they gonna blame us 1st always, guilty until proven innocent

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Donna
McClellandtown, PA · 5 months ago

you're a wonderful father. one thing. she looks perfect,not different. she is not "different" and she does not look different. she's perfect just as she is. different implies a negative,even when we don't intend it to imply that. parents will always look to blame someone ANYONE other than THEIR CHILD. it's not that she looks different. it's that shes somebody else to blame or our child's bad behavior. as a parent with a child that 40,I can tell you that I blamed EVERYBODY ANYBODY except mine. you know what my offspring told me when she was 20??? " mom you blamed everybody else for EVERYTHING I DID and I was the ringleader. I was the one who said "let's find somebody to buy us beer" when we were minors and I was the one up to no good. parents ALWAYS blame the other kid regardless of who they are. on another note,Ilyani is stunningly beautiful

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glenise walker
St Louis, MO · 5 months ago

Color does matter and because it may not matter to us it is a big problem in our society and not talking about it does not change the reality of discrimination and racism in the world. I wished no one had to teach their children about anything but enjoy being a child nothing bad but we don’t live in that kind of world and never have because people of all nationalities have preconceived notions and prejudices even when they think they don’t.

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Phoebe Smith
Hope Mills, NC · 5 months ago

i > I'd be telling my daughter she couldn't play with that little thief anymore.

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Susan Linderman
Chula Vista, CA · 5 months ago

That’s right on Dad Keep up the great work God bless you

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America 1st
Muncie, IN · 5 months ago

Yeah teach victimhood!!

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Dayanara Faxas
Foxborough, MA · 5 months ago

It’s sad but true that this is the world our children live in

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Tanielle Atallah
New Orleans, LA · 5 months ago

You all say it's not about color, but the first thing YT people say is that their so and so color, that what they do.. Father is absolutely right.

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Antione
Denver, CO · 5 months ago

this is racism at its finest, wrong mentality to have when you're child has different friends.

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KimiVee
Hollywood, FL · 5 months ago

This was a teachable moment for both girls. I totally understand why he coached his little girl the way he did. On the other hand, I would have taken Presley to her father for her to explain what she did to her father so he could coach her as well. She needs to know that stealing is wrong from her dad. Toodles 🌸

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MissyS
Cincinnati, OH · 5 months ago

Why is race always dragged into it?

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Jam Step
Wyoming, MI · 5 months ago

Poor delivery and gotta do better

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Tika Bibbs
Henderson, NV · 4 months ago

From personal experience as I child…. I completely agree with him. The world is cold n judgmental and these things do happen even tho many don’t admit it🤷🏽‍♀️

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Kevin B
Somerset Center, MI · 3 months ago

I actually liked the message of the video until I heard the "cuz we don't look like them" remark 😩 don't teach your kid to be racist or give power to few ignorant people who might actually think that 🤦🏻‍♂️

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michelle williston
Baltimore, MD · 3 months ago

man she may be over that girl house when she steals and he gonna blame it on his daughter. the white girl gotta go. I had a white friend who constantly stole from her parents. One time I was there and I wasn't allowed back cause he thought I did it but it's a blessing in disguise she wound up being a junkie on heroin 😂😂😂😂😂 talking bout dodging a bullet

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Marv Scott
Sammamish, WA · 3 months ago

Everyone mad but hes mostly right, all we have to do is make a non colored person upset & they all say the same thing because they already think it 💯

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Hellen
Pittsburgh, PA · a month ago

That was a good lesson and a good dad. And it's sad but true that when you have a child of color, the RACIST parents of other children will look for any excuse to not let your child play with their child. Children don't see that level of nuance, they are too innocent and don't understand that some people hate just for the sake of hating and some people are so miserable they want to make other people miserable no matter what. Teaching your child the realities of life sucks but you can't shelter them from the ugliness that is in this world, because there are too many people ready and waiting to take that innocence from your child. It will hurt them less when it comes from you and you warn them

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JohnLuke Best
Barling, AR · 25 days ago

because we're different? everyone is different from one another and some people are not racist In fact most people are not. I believe this is teaching your children about racism the wrong way. Good job though on teaching your kids not the steel though.

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Nay Nay
Indianapolis, IN · 19 days ago

I’m reading the comments and all the people who are like that are saying that it’s not true or pathetic!!!! 😂😂😂 See you guys are doing it again just stop

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Minshere
Pawtucket, RI · 3 months ago

That lil girl trouble she was wantin u to shut it waitin at the door to close it, id tell her dad and keep your daughter away from her

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Danny Duty
Indianapolis, IN · a month ago

Stop telling your daughter because she looks different.People are gonna treat her a certain way.Don't teach hate man

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Vinita Smith
Belton, TX · 3 months ago

Racism will never go away if we continue to teach it. stealing is bad regardless of the color

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James Bradley
St. Petersburg, FL · 4 months ago

if its true its true we live it everyday u don't have to do anything just walk outside

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Lamont Houser
Jenison, MI · 3 months ago

People pretend what he said is not TRUTH! ...that is exactly how real life goes

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Bill Murray
Bainbridge, OH · 4 months ago

why does race always come into play from the ones doing the discrimination

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Tyelee Stansberry
4 months ago

this is ridiculous and not true why would you put that in your kids head

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Call Bull
Washington, DC · 3 months ago

watch her around your daughter.. idk if they could even play again🥺

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Babystunna
Tyler, TX · 21 days ago

Some yall comments make me feel more mature than I am

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Wolf Pach
Miami, FL · a month ago

She ain’t putting shit back 😭

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Flow🖕🏽
Boston, MA · a month ago

😂😂😂😂

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Anthony Hernandez
Forest, VA · a month ago

the car tho

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Hezekiah Burns
McDonough, GA · a month ago

that car in the back tho

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Ariel Grant
Fredericksburg, VA · a month ago

U know if u still my money your cooked 😂

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FlossNass Arsher
Phoenix, AZ · 2 months ago

She gonna lie & say her friend took it 🤦🏽‍♂️

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whoknowsfrfr
Broken Arrow, OK · 2 months ago

na a homie stole one hundred from my dad my dad pressed him

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Slave
Azusa, CA · 2 months ago

inflation

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Chinegro
Tracy, CA · 2 months ago

That's why we keep black friends! 😉

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TWEETY BIRD
Bastrop, LA · 2 months ago

HE TELLING THAT LIL GIRL NOTHING BUT FACTS💯💯💯💯💯

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OnUrOwn89
Tulsa, OK · 2 months ago

wow always got to pull the race card

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BA
Miami, FL · 3 months ago

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