AmITheAsshole
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i have to mention his complextion is on another level of georgous.
facts i raised my husband's child and now that he's grown with his own daughter now here comes his birth mother wanting to be the grandmother and talk about that's her son and grandbaby 😳 WTF SO YEAH I FEEL SOME TYPE OF WAY
That daddy may have been abusive to the mom, and fortunately or unfortunately, she let it all go.
sometimes enough is enough. My dad was abusive to my mother. One day my dad said something horrible to my mom and my mom left walking with 6 of her children and left behind 4 of her other children. We were horrified , crying our eyes out. My dad had to go get her to quiet us down. I later learned that my dad said that she couldn't take us 4 with her. Forgive your Mom, cause everything is not apple and oranges.
go and ask her because there is two sides to every story brother and ask her in front of your daddy then you will find out the truth
Shout out to all the wonderful Step Moms💕💕
Jamal Roberts don't allow someone else's short comings to control you. I can hear the hurt in your voice and it's all too familiar. Forgive her because you don't know what really transpired. I agree that if I were fighting for my children there would be no stopping but also a survivor of domestic violence I know all too well the fight or flight mode as well. If fear was the reason she left then she may have feared thar if she took you it could cause you and her your lives. As a mother, I don't think it's possible to forget your children but sometimes things happen that we'd never expect that cause our lives to go in a different direction than we'd originally planned. My parents didn't stay together long after I was born in Memphis and my Mom moved to Atlanta when I was 3 but I stayed in Memphis with my Mom's mom and her and my dad shared me until he went to prison.Then my grandmother raised me. When my mom left she had my younger sister she was an infant.
she was on drugs or couldn't handle the pressure of 2 kids and unemotional man. Either way forgive..to set yourself free
I dont know who he is but he has some beautiful skin! Lawd hammurcy!🥰
American Idol winner 2025 Jamal Roberts.
my heart goes out to the show man because for me that's always been a million dollar question how can you leave kids and then turn around and have more what so you can leave them to it makes no sense as the saying goes these days make it make sense! 🤔😡🤔🤔
what I was about to say is Love that chocolate skin oOoOO 😋😋😋 get some therapy, That's so sad🥹 I truly hope that his step Mom gave them all the love they would need., His real question is What is wrong with me and my brother that you gave us up And then had others??? Baby Go get your answers 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾God bless
Well...things are not always what they same....and life can be extremely painful...With no shade whatsoever to his mom, sometimes a person just is not in a space to be the best parent... period! Until we walk a mile in someone else's shoes, we can judge all day long.
It’s sad that many parent/mother’s go out trying to be grown, doing what grown people do not realizing the responsibility any woman can make a baby, if she’s not mentally and financially ready the child/children become a burden they not ready for, so they bailout on the responsibility!
I'm thinking he's really hurting, Mom leaves them but has more kids and he said the Dad doesn't know how to love. Must of been a lonely childhood!!!!
Mental illness is real, she probably wasn’t emotionally stable mentally and the way things go when women don’t give there children up sometimes it gets crazy . Your a handsome and just thank her for giving you life
Thank her, she did the best she could. You just do better and forgive her.
Not, She could have taken her son's and moved on STOP making excuses for her. You making excuses for her poor choices. No to have any relationship and had more children REALLY!!!!!
Postpartum depression is real. Lingers around the child or children at that time. The mind is a complicated entity. She may have found someone who was more emotional to help her than has what she had with his father. Idk but I know forgiveness is healing! 🌸🌸🌸🌸
Forgiveness is the only thing that matters at this point, life is short and if you’re able to do something to help yourself and others heal from this trauma before it’s too late.💕
you know this is a hard subject for me I loved my mom dearly but as a child I remember her not being there much the only time I would see my mom she would be arguing about getting her house clean and then she would be gone for days and weeks at a time and then one day on my 4th birthday she threw me a party she cooked a big dinner she bought presents she made my cake later that day on March 31st 1971 she was killed by a man who had children who lived in our home on occasion my mom's sister raised me and to this day that woman is the one that I always will look to as my mother as I said earlier in this story I loved my mother but my mom's sister was my real mother she was the one who showed the compassion she was the one who was always there no matter what I was in the hospital a lot she was always there never once did I wake up in those hospital rooms and she wasn't there and now she's gone so this story kind of kind of took me there you know 😥😢
sounds like his dad used the kids to try to have control over the mother and the mother just said forget it you got what you wanted and left it as that
What a handsome soul. I’m sorry that he was so hurt by his mother and father. And I’m sure he’ll be a good father to his children.
Speaking from a mother who children were kidnapped by their father and his mother and I didn’t know where they were for years, I called the courts and his brother was a lawyer they forged court documents and went to court without my knowledge they claim the paperwork was sent to my address where my name was spelled wrong with the wrong address ( was renting from his family member) I fought they had moved them to another state and they say they couldn’t be found until one day my baby found me on facebook then when they found out they wouldn’t let them get back on
Some folks are built differently. My sperm donor didn't give one F'uk about the four of us. I was angry mad upset about that until I got to know him. Like My MOTHER said, "You Got to Thank the Lord for the people who walked out of Your Life". The four of us are BLESSED that he didn't have anything to do with OUR raising and Life.
So... where is the rest of the story... or the story was that his mom abandoned them and went on to have more children???
She ain’t ish💯
I took care of my grandsons from birth and their mother left after the 2nd child who couldn't even walk, I had pushed for them to spend time with her but she never did anything for them except when her mother visited her. She wanted to party and had another child with someone else. That hurt them for a long time.
Yeah on average, one would think that the "mom" would fight tooth and nail for custody of her child/children vs the amount of fight a father would; I'm speaking on national stats, not a personal survey
I heard this story a thousand times smh. I'm glad he is talking about this because these woman are ridiculous
My story too. Only I had FIVE stepmothers.
Drug's are a powerful force. (DEVIL'S TOOL'S).😳 I GOT FULL CUSTODY OF MY THREE BOYS OVER 20 YEARS AGO BECAUSE OF HER NOT WANTING TO LISTEN AND STOP DOING WRONG .
I know someone that happened to. This lady was married to a military guy,she was cheating with another guy while he was away. She didn’t want to stop with the new guy. She actually walked away leaving her two girls crying and confused to go be with the new man.
I lived that life. My grandparents raised me and my 2 brothers. My mother wasn’t with us. But she had 3 other kids and raised them. She left us with our grandparents. I get what you’re saying. God bless
Biological Dead Beat Mom! was finished with Dad and tried to get rid of ALL ties with him! 😪 God Bless that father & Sons🙏🏾
I will never understand that being a mother myself to my daughter she is my everything
If I was adopted , in foster care or lived with one parent but never saw the other, it’s only natural to one day wonder, why doesn’t my mom love me enough to want to be in my life ? I don’t fault Jamal at all for wondering why , children have feelings too
I feel him on ALL THAT SHIT. If we're fighting over custody, we are going to continue to fight FOREVER. My kids will know that mom NEVER stopped fighting for us.
So the women are cool about this mother did her son and nobody not saying about her sorry ass.
but before u have more kids go to the ones you gave up first never let kids feel anger
always wonder it myself. how can a mother walk away from their children or child (SAD)
OMG, Avoid Accountability & Blame The Man 🙄 That 🐝itch Left Her Children
No visitation she must of done something wrong in courts eyes
It is CRAZY when you can go have other kids
Mother was dead beat mom sad
SHE LEFT SO BYE FELICIA
he's mom and dad had a big falling out, and life without your mom as a child growing is challenging 🌸
For your own closure ask your mom to have a conversation about it.
AI is amazing for the complexion
Sometimes the Truth is too much to hear. Maybe she just decided you were better where you where versus being homeless with her. Some emotional that she refused to do with you Father. You just said he wasn't and emotional person,maybe she got tired of it too. Realize when we're children we don't see everything. Are memories are fragmented.
So sorry, that had to be hard. Praying for your healing🙏
Ask Your Mother. You Deserve A Answer And She Deserves A Chance To Give You A Explanation. Stop Listening To Others And Ask Your Mother.
First off I would ask the two to meet and let them know that you’ve been hurt by the separation!! If not meet with each one separate A lot of mother think boys to do better with their dad raising them to making them a man!! then maybe she was going or went through something with your Dad or was on drugs who knows but those two!! if she had all the other kids and didn’t encounter with you and your brother could be many reasons!! Could be many reasonings!! You and your brother need to sit down with both parents and talk about it. To get Clarity and understanding let them now how you feel!! It’s always 2 parts to a story!! Stay strong 💪🏽 show love 💪🏽 keep God in everything you say and Do 💪🏽🙏🙏💪🏽💪🏽💯
Your an amazing man and your mom didn't understand what she had.
I know the feeling. My dad left when I was 5 sister was 3. Went to a whole other state got remarried and had another family. Granted he could come get us for the summer but once I became a teenager I decided I didn’t want to go anymore. When we went for the summers he had to work the whole time my grandparents would give us money when we went and he would need to borrow the money!
Regardless, you must forgive. Young children do not understand adults issues in hindsight, she didn’t abandon you she thought it was best to raise by your father so he could teach you how to become a man.
Prayers and Blessings to you Jamal and your beautiful family🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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I agree with you sir🙏🙏🙏
There are pieces of the story that he doesn’t know.
there's more to that story
SO EVEN IN THEIR BROKENESS LOOK WHAT THE CREATOR DONE AND DOING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY NOW, SO FORGIVE THEM AND KEEP WHAT CREATOR WANTS YOU TO DO WITH YOUR KIDS AND YOUR FELLOW MAN THAT INCLUDES FAMILY AND ALL. FORGIVE THEM FOR YOUR SELF NOT FOR THEM CAUSE THAT'S WHAT THE CREATOR EXPECTS OF YOU, STAY STRONG AND STAY BLESSED, AND CONTINUE TO EMBRACE THE WOMAN THAT DID STEP UP, GOD BLESS.
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He’s gorgeous!
I can relate!
smh it's so sad in feel him 😞
Who is he?