1. They realize I don’t party like crazy & when I do, I manage my drinking to a few drinks only. Suddenly I’m “too serious.” Like being in control and coherent means I don’t know how to have fun.2. I put my health, gym routine, and goals first. If something interferes with that, I’ll say no — and yes, I’m okay with that.3. They find out I don’t rush relationships. Apparently not settling or jumping into anything is a red flag now.4. They hear I do OH EFF to help pay for school and build my futur